Sex With Emily

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily by emailing feedback@sexwithemily.com. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com.


  • Network & Chill with Jordan Harbinger

    Feb 15 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by host of The Jordan Harbinger Show Podcast  – you guessed it – Jordan Harbinger. They talk about ways to maintain your work and romantic relationships in a healthy way from body language to staying your honest and authentic self, and why confidence is always key.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Foria, Apex, Gainswave, and SiriusXM. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, ...more

  • Porn Fantasies vs. Sexual Realities

    Feb 13 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to stop building stories in your head and get to the root of what’s holding you back in your sex life. She talks about why you shouldn’t make assumptions about your relationship, all the reasons why porn and sex in movies is not like real authentic sex, and what it really means when your partner says “erotic.” Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hot Octopus, Third Love, We-Vibe, Good Vibrations, and SiriusXM. Follow Emil...more

  • Valentine’s Day Remix: A Mash-Up

    Feb 12 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is bringing to you a mash-up of all things Valentine’s Day to give you a little more romance inspiration. She gives the tea on all things cupid from gift ideas to sexpectations to tales of V-Day’s past. This show is going to get you in the romantic mood and spark some ideas for the bedroom. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Pjur, Adam and Eve, PlusOne, Karezza, and SiriusXM. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily. For even more sex advic...more

  • Outside The Sexual Box with Dr. Hernando Chaves

    Feb 08 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex & relationship therapist Dr. Hernando Chaves to talk about why it’s important to think about sex differently – because it’s more than the old in and out. They discuss better ways to dive into backdoor play, why Valentine’s Day is the best time to jumpstart your bedroom resolutions and how to get over your sexual anxieties – because hey, we all have them. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: PlusOne, Just Fab, Good Vibrations, ...more

  • A Truly Hotter Sex Life

    Feb 07 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is giving you some cold weather sex tips – because, let’s face it, what else are you gonna do in the polar vortex? She’s giving you ways to turn up the heat in your sex life –literally, what to do if you’ve found yourself in the friend zone and are trying to get out, and what to do if you can orgasm – but only when you’re thinking about your ex. Plus, whether or not it’s a good idea to ask a younger guy out on a date. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the...more

  • What to Know About Your ‘O’

    Feb 05 2019

    On today’s show, Emily’s talking all about women’s orgasms – how to recognize them, how to stop faking them, and of course, how to have them. She discuss everything you ever needed to know about a woman’s orgasm, ways to give a top-notch handjob – because they never go out of style, and what to do when you can ONLY get off with a partner and you just want to have some successful self-love. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hot Octopus, Magic Wand, We-Vibe, Foria,...more

  • A Good Screw with Rachael & Chrisitne

    Feb 01 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by hosts of the podcast Screwed Up Stories Rachael O’Brien & Christine Blackburn and they’re talking all about... screwing! The three discuss how all of us have messed up stories – but that doesn’t mean we’re messy people, and what the rules really are when it comes to dating (hint: they’re different for everyone). Plus, Emily gives some ways to initiate sex and actually have it – no excuses, and how to make your orgasms even more intense – because who doesn’t wa...more

  • Better Dating & More Sex-plaining

    Jan 31 2019

    On today’s show, Emily talks about about how socializing can improve your relationship, inside and outside of the bedroom. She explains all the ways you can be likeable, while still remaining true to yourself. Plus, what to do if you’re dating a married couple, how to move beyond trauma, and ways to talk to your partner about your sexual desires. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hot Octopus and SiriusXM. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more se...more

  • A Better Way to Valentine’s Day

    Jan 29 2019

    On today’s show Emily’s team joins in to talk all things Valentines Day. Because if you’re loving yourself or loving your partner there’s always a way to take things up a notch. We talk about the top gifts to get the people you love beyond flowers and chocolate, unique ideas to spend the day -- fancy dinner not included, different ways to spice up your time in the bedroom and if you're single, don’t forget to treat yourself -- self-love is the best love. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who...more

  • Best Of: Sexually Fluid with Nico Tortorella

    Jan 25 2019

    On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by actor Nico Tortorella and the two are talking all about sexual fluidity. Emily and Nico discuss the differences between bisexuality to pansexuality, explore the range of relationships from monogamy to polyamory, and what it means to be sexually fluid. Plus, they talk about how opening yourself up to all types of love can help you have the best sex imaginable – not to mention experience pleasure in ways you never thought possible. Thank you for suppor...more

  • Orgasms & Coital Confidence

    Jan 24 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is discussing if having the “traditional family” is right for you – as well as taking your calls & emails to help get you on the right track in your relationships and the bedroom. She debates the question: to have kids or not to have kids and why either path is okay to choose. Plus, she gives advice on what to do if you can only orgasm under specific conditions, how to convince yourself that you’re as attractive and amazing as everyone else says, and whether or not it’s a ...more

  • Shameless Sex,Trends & Threesomes with April Lampert

    Jan 22 2019

    On today’s show Emily is joined by host of the Shameless Sex podcast, April Lampert along with her partner to talk about the sex trend of 2019 from sex toys to potential threesomes. They discuss why being your authentic self is THE sexiest thing you can do, what it’s like working for a sex toy company and the perks that come with it -- no pun intended -- and how to have healthy communication with your partner and why it’s extremely important. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep t...more

  • Pleasure Principles with Heather Jeffcoat

    Jan 17 2019

    On today’s show Emily welcomes back physical therapist Heather Jeffcoat to talk about getting past the pain holding you back from better sex. They discuss why painful sex issues are misunderstood - even though it’s very common, making sure you’re doing your kegels correctly, why a second opinion is always best if you were prescribed wine and a psychologist, and how to get into pelvic shape after having children. Thank you for supporting our sponsors that help keep the show FREE: Foria, We-Vibe,...more

  • Dirty Talk, Dropping Hints & Dating Tips

    Jan 16 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is covering a few things to be aware of in the dating world – from trends to online profiles and she takes your calls on relationship woes. She goes over what you should NOT put on your dating profile to boost your chances of getting a match, what to do if you’re dropping hints that aren’t getting picked up, focusing less on your phone and more on your partner, and ways to just start talking dirty already. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: ...more

  • What to Expect When He’s Expecting Oral

    Jan 15 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about the stages all relationships go through as well as how to navigate them – including in the bedroom. She discusses the 5 stages of a relationship & how to work through them all. Plus, what to do when you like giving oral, but it’s becoming too much of an expectation, how to talk to your kids about puberty without it being painful or embarrassing for either of you, and having shower sex that actually feels good. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help...more

  • Single Shenanigans with Scheana Shay

    Jan 11 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Scheana Shay – host of the podcast Scheananigans with Scheana Shay and star of the Bravo show Vanderpump Rules & they’re talking about being single, masturbation, & so much more.   They discuss why freezing your eggs may be something to you want to consider and how being single for awhile – after jumping from relationship to relationship – can help you realize what you actually need. Plus Emily gives advice on making sex compromises – and actually sticking to ...more

  • Orgasms, Affairs & Sexual Stamina

    Jan 09 2019

    On today’s show, Emily’s taking calls and talking about why it’s time to stop faking orgasms and get the pleasure you deserve – as well as some tips to help you get there. She discusses why there needs to be less faking pleasure in the bedroom and more real satisfaction. Plus, she lends advice on what to do when you keep feeling light-headed after sex, why some men like to share their partners with other men, and whether or not a relationship can survive after a betrayal. Thank you for supportin...more

  • Self-Love Starts & Penis Parts

    Jan 08 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is giving you ways to get out of your head and into your sexual groove. She reveals why being a perfectionist may be stopping you from having the sex you want and how to get over insecurities about your penis size – whether it’s big, small, or somewhere in between. Plus, what to do if you’re craving more affection from your partner and tips to start your masturbation routine off right. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: PlusOne, Magic Wand, ...more

  • Bedroom Goals & Relationship Roles with Lisa Bilyeu

    Jan 04 2019

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes back badass businesswoman and host of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu, to talk about how couples can set goals and roles to reach together –– and Em is answering your emails. They discuss ways to figure out exactly what your needs are in a relationship and how to meet them with a partner and why it’s so crucial to check in with your partner regularly about the state of your relationship. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when you’ve got mismatched kink levels an...more

  • Sexual Attention Spans & Dating Plans

    Jan 03 2019

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about better ways to date, as well as helping you through your bedroom conundrums. She gives you some ways to start dating with intention instead of just winging it, what to do when it seems like your partner prefers their vibrator to having sex, and ways to get out of your head during sex so you can actually enjoy yourself. Plus, everyone’s favorite topic – squirting! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Uberlube, SiriusXM Follow E...more

  • New Year, Better Sex: A Mash-Up

    Jan 01 2019

    On today’s show, we’re bringing you a mash-up for some sexual resolution inspiration because there’s always room to grow – even in the bedroom! Emily talks with Menace about different resolutions to step up your sex life, with Anderson about dating someone you met online, and Jamie about the best and worst sexual experiences they’ve had – and what you can learn from each one. Happy New Year! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Foria, Magic Wand, Adam & Eve, SiriusX...more

  • Sex in Retrograde

    Dec 28 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Elizabeth Kott & Stephanie Simbari from the That’s So Retrograde podcast to talk about mindfulness, wellness & how it relates to your relationships – with yourself and a partner. The three discuss what all this “retrograde” talk really means and what it can mean for your life, some alternative ways to work on yourselves – because we’re never done improving, and how your gut is like your second brain – and how it relates to your sexual health. Thank you for sup...more

  • Dating, Mating & Roleplaying

    Dec 26 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls to help you make 2019 the hottest year yet. She goes over some of the oddest dating stats of 2018 – from dealbreakers to masturbation injuries, ways to get into your role-play groove, and why taking a break from porn and masturbation can reignite your sex life with your partner. Plus, whether or not age makes a difference in your relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Just Fab, SiriusXM Follow Emily on al...more

  • Best Of: Sex With Loveline Hosts Dr. Drew & Mike Catherwood

    Dec 25 2018

    On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Dr. Drew Pinsky and Mike Catherwood, the dynamic hosts from the late Loveline radio show, and they talked sex, relationships and Loveline over the years! The iconic trio talk about tips to make a marriage successful, ways to build your confidence back up to start dating again, and what male preoccupation with penis size is really all about. Plus, they discuss Tinder (oh how it’s changed since 2014), body image, and masturbation. Happy holidays, lover...more

  • Big Mouths & Better Sex (Talk) with Gil Ozeri

    Dec 21 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by writer, actor, and comedian Gil Ozeri to talk about the Netflix show Big Mouth – and she’s taking your calls. Emily & Gil talk about why sex ed is so important and needs better instruction, as well as the things we all go through growing up – and honestly, are still going through now. Then helps callers with the best blowjob tips, ways to make FaceTime sex super hot, and how to get your sexual connection back. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help kee...more

  • Porn Positive & Partner Pleasing

    Dec 19 2018

    On today’s show, Emily sits down with friend and fellow sex educator Elle Chase to talk about Tumblr’s ban on adult content – and taking your calls & answering emails, of course. She gives you ways to talk to a partner – casual or serious – about what you want in the bedroom, why you should never trick your partner in bed – even if it’s for their pleasure, and what to do when your fresh out of places to get busy. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hot Octopuss, Ju...more

  • Oral Fixations & Open Relations

    Dec 18 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and helping you breathe some life back into your bedroom. She covers some reasons why you might not be enjoying sex and how to turn it around, ways to navigate opening up your relationship, and what to do when your partner just won’t compromise when it comes to oral. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, Fleshlight, Third Love, Sirius, Adam & Eve Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tr...more

  • How to Handle Your Sex Life with Hannah Cranston

    Dec 14 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Hannah Cranston to talk about her new podcast Too Much to Handle & how to own your sexuality. They talk about ways to not let societal views influence how you date, mate, and live your life, tips that will help you date more efficiently for the best results, and how to make sure your pleasure is a priority in a relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, Hot Octopuss, We-Vibe, Sirius, Adam & Eve Follow Emily on all so...more

  • Sexual Exploration & Mutual Masturbation

    Dec 12 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is helping you get out of your head to enjoy sex all the way through. Emily & Jamie go over some thoughts that are totally common to have during sex – and how to get past them. Then, Emily gives advice on whether or not to explore your bisexuality when the sex is gone from your marriage, how to navigate online dating without getting unsolicited pictures (you know which ones), and ways to make mutual masturbation apart of your sex routine. Thank you for supporting our spons...more

  • Hot Sex: Holiday Edition

    Dec 11 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by producer Jamie and they’re giving you some tips to keep the holidays as sexy as they are jolly! They discuss ways to keep your sex lives hot during the holidays – literally and figuratively, tell you which pleasure products will make the best gifts – from stocking stuffers to the bigger stuff, and why the holidays are the perfect time of year to ask for what you want in the bedroom. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Uberlube, M...more

  • Sex: It’s Complicated

    Dec 07 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Jen Golden & Lauren Leonelli from the podcast It’s Complicated to talk about everything from breakups to sex toys. The three talk about the right and wrong ways to break up with your partner, top tips for relaxing into oral sex so you can actually enjoy it, and why being mindful of your breath during sex can make it even more pleasurable. Plus, Emily answers your emails on on to ease back into dating and get over your nerves, and ways to ensure you’re giving y...more

  • Sex Myths & Backdoor Play

    Dec 05 2018

    Every Wednesday, we are going to be bringing you a hump day treat – best of content from the SiriusXM radio show – just to give you a little taste. Emily and Jamie debunk a range of sex myths that people still believe – from different types of orgasms to varying sex drives to what sex actually is. Then, Emily takes calls and gives ways to get into anal play, stroke the prostate, and how to break up with someone around the holidays – and keep it gentle. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who h...more

  • Up Your Oral Game

    Dec 04 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about some things that most relationships go through and how to get past them. She goes over the top things couples argue about and ways to deal with them, why you shouldn’t let kissing slip from your relationship, and how to make sure you’re both getting your needs met in the bedroom – because sex is a two-way street. Plus, how to to let your partner know gently that they need to work on their oral hygiene. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep th...more

  • Super-Size Your Orgasm

    Nov 30 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Forrest Andrews from the company Aneros to talk about all things prostate – from orgasms to stimulation, and why we need to get rid of the stigmas. The two discuss the ins and outs of prostate play, how to unlock a full-body orgasm – no ejaculation required – that also leaves you ready for round 2, and ways men (or their partners) can expand their sexual pleasure and explore all the hot spots. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: ...more

  • Penises, Pleasure & Pillow Talk

    Nov 27 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you through some sex and relationship issues. Emily and Jamie discuss the age old debate – to circumcise or not to circumcise, and how to keep from crossing over from flirty to affair in the workplace. Plus, Emily answers your questions about spicing things up when all you have is a college dorm room and how to make foreplay a shared interest in your relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, Thir...more

  • The Porn Paradox with Jayme Waxman

    Nov 23 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by marriage/family therapist and sex educator Jamye Waxman to talk about everything from too much porn use to talking to your kids about sex ed. They cover the ups and downs to watching porn – because everything is great in moderation, ways you can talk to anybody in your life about sex – whether it’s a partner or your kids, what to do to get your sexual stamina up, and how to figure out the exact way your partner wants to be dominated. Thank you for supporting o...more

  • Orgasm Facts & Threesome Hacks

    Nov 20 2018

    On today’s show, Emily taking your calls and giving you some facts and tips that may just surprise you. She reveals a few facts about orgasms that – if you didn’t know before – you’ll be glad you know now, the benefits of talking about sex with your friends – believe me, how to find a third that will be down for a MMF Threesome, and ways to break a very meticulous sex routine. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, DeoDoc, Uberlube & Apex Follow Emily on a...more

  • More Dating, Less Soulmating

    Nov 16 2018

    On today’s show, Emily’s is joined by life/career coach Darah Wagner to talk about dating, masturbation, and love – and how to master them all (or at least come close).   They discuss soulmates and what you should be doing instead of searching for one, navigating the dating world and why you need to do your work before being in a healthy relationship, and self-mastering masturbation. Plus, what to do when you can’t get past your partner’s sexual history. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who...more

  • Coital Communication

    Nov 13 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls, helping you rip off the bandaid and get you talking about sex with some communication skills you didn’t know you needed. She discusses why dating might get better if we put a limit on this whole texting thing, the body language signals that may have you sending the wrong messages, and how to keep up sexually when your partner is injured and down for the count. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Adam & Eve, Deo-Doc, Apex, & F...more

  • Good, Good, Good Vibrations: Sex Toy Review

    Nov 09 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by fellow sex educator Elle Chase and her team because it’s SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! So gear up & take notes – you may be adding a few things to your wishlist this year. They get into all the toys, lubes, and products that have been rocking their bedrooms lately, sex hacks for using toys alone and with a partner, and some other sexy ideas you can take to bed. All the products talked about on the show can be found at sexwithemily.com/toys. Thank you supporting our spon...more

  • More Sex (Talk) with Emily: Special Announcement

    Nov 07 2018

    On today’s bonus show, Emily’s got a special announcement! Along with emails and some sex talk, of course. She reveals some news that includes you, her, and a lot more sex talk! Plus, she discusses why talking about sex with friends can actually lead to better sex, what to do about a swinging situation gone bad, and the best couples toys to use in the bedroom. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Aneros Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex adv...more

  • A Whole New Kind of Oral

    Nov 06 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls to give you the hacks that will elevate your relationships and your oral game. She discusses the surprising lessons short term relationships can teach us, a new oral sex method you’ll definitely to want to try, and how to teach your partner a new kissing style. Plus, she cracks down on the signs you may or may not be ready to move in with your partner. Thank you supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE:  Uberlube, ThirdLove, Good Vibrations ...more

  • Best Of: Swinging All the Way with Holli & Michael

    Nov 02 2018

    On today’s throwback podcast, Emily is joined by married couple and real-life swingers Holli & Michael to talk about the swinging lifestyle and how healthy open relationships really work. The three discuss the myths of swinging, the time they ALL went to a play party, and how to remove jealousy from your relationship. Plus, they help listeners deal with a selfish lover, proper threesome etiquette, and how to make sex less awkward and boring. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep th...more

  • Seduction, Self-Love & Strap-Ons

    Oct 30 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about important aspects of sex and why communication is a lubrication. Joined by new team member, Sarah, the two discuss what sexual kinks are getting more popular, the real talks to make sure your open relationship is a good idea, and what the best strap-on options are that don’t look too real. Plus, the correct way to do your Kegels! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Foria, Uberlube, Apex, Good Vibrations Follow Emily on all so...more

  • Tell Me What You Want (In Bed) with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

    Oct 26 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Dr. Justin Lehmiller – a leading expert on human sexuality – to talk about his book, Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. They discuss sexual fantasies, what they mean, and why it’s totally okay to have them (psst, we all do). Plus, they get into the benefits of sharing your fantasies with your partner, what the top ones are around the U.S., and the difference between men and women – and the similar...more

  • Hungry, Horny & Your Other Half's Habits

    Oct 23 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is answering emails and giving insight to your sex and relationship quandaries. She covers which foods can make or break your sex drive, how to know if your partner is bad for YOU – or just bad at relationships, and what to do when your partner is “too” close with an ex. Plus, she gives some tips on how to get past your partner’s self-love habits. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, Uberlube, DeoDoc, Apex Follow Emily on all socia...more

  • Sugar, Spice & Everything Naughty

    Oct 19 2018

    On today’s show, Emily and her team are talking all things Halloween – as well as giving you some sex advice that you can use all year round. Emily, Sarah, & Jamie discuss dates, role-play, and other erotic things to make it the sexiest Halloween yet. Plus, they give advice on ways to cut down your refractory period so you’re ready for round two, how to have sex when there’s a privacy problem, and what the real deal with vaginal steaming is all about. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who he...more

  • Penis Pulses & Primary Partners

    Oct 16 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian and main man Ben Morrison to talk about sex toys, relationships, and so much more. Emily and Ben share a milestone in their relationship, and why cleaning up messes can actually enhance intimacy. Plus, the latest in penis sex toys, the right time to bring up a fetish to your partner, and what to do when couples therapy just isn’t working. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Adam & Eve, ThirdLove, Brooklinen, Fleshlight F...more

  • Girl Boners with August McLaughlin

    Oct 12 2018

    On today’s show, Emily sits down with sexuality writer & host of Girl Boner Radio August McLaughlin to talk about her new book Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment. The two discuss all things masturbation, orgasms, and pleasure, things you probably didn’t know about eating disorders and sexuality, what it’s like to orgasm for science, and why size doesn’t matter – whether it’s your height or your penis. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Adam & ...more

  • Lessons in Love & Lube

    Oct 09 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is answering emails and giving you some communication tips to take to bed. She covers the healthier ways (they do exist) to fight with your partner, positions to get you comfortable with some double penetration, tips for finding the best lube for you, and what to do when your ex is still interfering with your sex life. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Good Vibrations, Uberlube, Magic Wand, DeoDoc Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily F...more

  • Best Of: Cowgirls, Take it Away – How to Rock on Top

    Oct 05 2018

    On today’s throwback show, Emily and Menace are tackling some common sex questions – from positions to sex toys to sexual health. They discuss the reasons why men send unsolicited dick pics, how to get your confidence up in the woman-on-top position, and the best ways to keep the mood hot when you’re putting on a condom. Plus, a few recommendations for your first big G-spot orgasm – because who doesn’t like that? Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hot Octopuss, An...more

  • Orgasm Blockers & Sex Myth Stoppers

    Oct 02 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is breaking down sex myths to set the record straight – and answering your emails, of course. She dives into whether or not monogamy is really as straightforward as it seems, ways to get past trust issues in a relationship, and thoughts on male masturbators (the toys, not the people). Plus, she gives some clarifications on a few things you thought you knew about women and sex. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Magic Wand, Apex Fo...more

  • Vagina Spas & Sexual Ahhs with Dr. Carolyn Delucia

    Sep 28 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by renowned OB/GYN Dr. Carolyn Delucia, a woman with groundbreaking ideas, to talk about – you guessed it – all things vulvas, vaginas, and sex! The two discuss the real difference between sexual health and sexual wellness, what men and women really need to know about regulating hormones – because it matters more than we think, how to get the sexual health answers you’ve been looking for from your doctor, and what it’s really like at a vagina spa. Thank you for s...more

  • Sex Drives & Relationship Vibes

    Sep 25 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and helping you navigate your sex and relationships. She talks about the things you really shouldn’t tolerate after one year into a relationship, ways to get a lowering sex drive back on the road, and how to get past jealousy in an open relationship – because it’s going to happen. Plus, if we treated our relationships like we did our careers – why we might all be a little more satisfied. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Deo...more

  • Nice Guys Finish First & Other Penis Things

    Sep 21 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by married couple and authors Jason Feifer & Jennifer Miller to talk about their new novel, Mr. Nice Guy, and what it’s like to write about sex while having it, too. They discuss how to keep things hot when you’re working and sleeping together, some juicy details about their book, and Emily even gives them a couple tips for spicing things up. Plus, what penis sex toys will give you the most bang for your buck, and why what we want in the bedroom can be the comple...more

  • Getting (A)head: Orgasms, Oral & Opening Up

    Sep 18 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and answering emails – all in the name of helping you have better sex and relationships. She discusses whether we’re in the golden age for long distance relationships tech-wise, how mindful sex can make you so much happier in bed, and what to do when you want to give head, but your partner isn’t keen on receiving (yes, it does happen). Plus, some ways to let your partner down nicely when there’s too much affection. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who ...more

  • What's in a Dame? with Alex Fine

    Sep 14 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-founder of Dame Products Alexandra Fine to talk about women in sex tech, g-spots, and so much more. The discuss the ins and outs of running a sex toy company, have the old g-spot debate and why you should never question its existence again, and how to stop losing interest in your partners after the first sexual encounter. Plus, why having an STD is not the end of the world. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Aneros, Brookline...more

  • When You Touch Me Like This

    Sep 11 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls, helping you through any sex or relationship question you may have. She talks about questions you should be asking your partners to ensure the best sex possible, lubes for even the most sensitive of skin, and how to put yourself out there and feel confident doing it. Plus, while sleepgasms are great – how you can get some while you’re awake. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, We-Vibe, DeoDoc Follow Emily on a...more

  • What's Your (Dirty) Jersey with Jaclyn Marfuggi

    Sep 07 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian and host of the What’s Your Jersey podcast Jaclyn Marfuggi to talk about the funnier sides of sex as well as some of the more intimate stuff. They discuss why it’s okay to stop “performing” during sex and do what makes you feel good, what to do if your sexual bar is climbing faster than your partner’s, and why sex is more than just physical – it’s mental, too. Plus, tips for your dating profile to get you those swipes. Thank you for supporting our spo...more

  • Relationships, Red Flags & Romantic Blocks

    Sep 04 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you the tools to have the sex and relationships you want – and deserve. She talks about the proper ways to ask for more sex – without hurting your partner, the red flags that could mean you and your partner aren’t compatible, and why monogamous couples can learn a thing or two from polyamory. Plus, why you shouldn’t worry about your sex toys “ruining” your vulva – it’s all about adding some variety. Thanks for supporting our sponsors who hel...more

  • Energetically Sexy with John Wineland

    Aug 31 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex and intimacy coach John Wineland to talk about sexual energy, consent, and understanding both. They discuss masculine and feminine energies as the foundation to deeper sex – regardless of who you’re sleeping with, being a more conscious partner and lover, and why learning the difference between “no” and “not yet” can make a world of difference in the bedroom. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Foria, Magic Wand, Adam & Eve F...more

  • Make Sex Great Again

    Aug 28 2018

    On today’s show, Emily along with Producer Jamie are talking about why sex is important beyond just bringing you pleasure. They discuss why one out of five women say they’re unsatisfied with their sex life, ways to go about inviting a friend to join a threesome, and why no orgasm is inferior to another – just as long as you get there. Plus, the importance of speaking up about likes and dislikes in the bedroom – from sex acts to frequency. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the s...more

  • Differently Abled Sex with Andrew Gurza

    Aug 24 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by host of the Disability After Dark podcast Andrew Gurza to talk about how to overcome insecurities and gain confidence in the bedroom, no matter what’s holding you back. They dive into what it means to be a “queer cripple,” ways to make sex with disabilities as hot and pleasurable as possible, and how to make oral sex and masturbation as comfortable as possible – including sex toys with disability in mind. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the...more

  • Sex Advice: Asking For a Friend

    Aug 21 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by producer Jamie to talk about different ways to expand your bedroom repertoire – from sex toys to positions to dating. They discuss ways to have sex without a penis, reasons why men say they’re still single, and why women are still hiding their sex toys. Plus, they give advice to someone actually asking for a friend on relationship problems, and how you can support a partner that just came out as bisexual. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the...more

  • Women Who Work It with Lisa Bilyeu

    Aug 17 2018

    On today’s show, Emily sits down with the host of Women of Impact & co-founder of Quest Nutrition Lisa Bilyeu to talk about women in business and how her and her partner are the definition of #relationshipgoals. The two discuss what it’s like to work alongside your partner, but still keep it sexy and healthy, as well as ways that you both can indulge in your “selfish desires.” Plus, they talk about being a strong woman in business who also supports other women – as we all should. Thank you for s...more

  • Dating Ques, Party Shoes & Post-Coital Blues

    Aug 14 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is covering everything from making your fetish work to getting the most out of your vibrator.    She reveals why you may be experiencing the post-sex blues, how long is too long to keep a butt plug in, if an age gap in dating makes a difference, and where to peak your sex party interests. Don’t forget to take our Alternative August sex survey at sexwithemily.com/august! Everything is anonymous, we just want to know what you’re into. Thank you for supporting our sponsors wh...more

  • Sextorini: All Greece'd Up

    Aug 10 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is live from Greece with comedian and boyfriend Ben Morrison to talk about traveling with a partner – which also means vacation sex. They give some insight to their first trip away as a couple, ways to amp up vacation sex – including what toys are best for travel and their favorite new position. Plus, how you can navigate some of those difficult couple conversations – because everybody has them – even the experts. Thanks for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show F...more

  • Best Of: Face-Sitting, Fetishes, & Foreplay Foibles with Joanna Angel

    Aug 07 2018

    On this throwback show, we’re starting off Alternative August with a bang. Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel to talk about anal, oral, and so much more. The two talk about how to get comfortable with face-sitting, ways to get past blowjob lock jaw, what to do when your partner is a lot more vanilla than you are, and all the squirting tips you could ask for. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, Womanizer, JO, Apex

  • Physically Fit Fornication with MindPump

    Aug 03 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by the guys from MindPump Radio to talk about how health and fitness affect your sex life. Emily, Sal, Adam, and Justin dive deep into the ways fitness can affect your life – from your hormones to your self-confidence, and even between the sheets. Plus, they help listeners get over penis anxiety – from vibrators to circumcision. Thank you for supporting out sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Fleshlight, Apex Follow Emily: @sexwithemily Follow MindPu...more

  • Sex Toy Show & Tell

    Jul 31 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is live from a sex toy expo to talk about the latest in sex tech, what it’s like to be surrounded by so much pleasure, and she even has a few guests stop by! Emily talks with SWE team members Jamie & Sarah about the most innovative things they saw at the show, from electro stimulation to new and sexy games. Plus, Emily’s guests give the lowdown on what it’s like to work in the industry, as well as the hottest penis rings on the market, new lubes, backdoor play, and more. T...more

  • Sexual Eu(Foria)

    Jul 25 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Mathew Gerson and Kiana Reeves of Foria Wellness to talk about cannabis, sex, and how it can improve your pleasure and your sex drive. The three talk about the benefits of CBD oil – from pain relief to relaxation to arousal. Plus, they talk about ways to get around painful sex, get into your body, and get rid of anxiety. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Fleshlight, Womanizer, Adam & Eve Follow Emily: @sexwithemily Follow Foria...more

  • Better, Hotter Summer Sex

    Jul 24 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is covering everything from staying cool during summer sex to whether or not you should stay friends with your ex. She talks about how ice cubes and frozen sheets can make your bedroom experiences hotter, why a great sex life is all about compromise, and the study that says sex can give you more meaning in life. Plus, she tells us why a vibrator won’t ruin your orgasms, some shower sex compromises, and semen questions. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep th...more

  • Adventurously Sexy with Scott Eastwood

    Jul 20 2018

    On today’s show, Emily sits down with actor Scott Eastwood to talk about everything from who taught him about sex to turn offs to pheromones. Emily and Scott talk about his notorious adventurous lifestyle, what great sex really looks like, and why women are pickier than men on dating apps. Plus, they help listeners with performance anxiety and debate whether it’s men or women who are more judgey about sexual pasts. Oh, and he breaks the office clitoris (not Emily’s). Thank you for supporting our...more

  • A Sex With Emily Threesome

    Jul 17 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian Ben Morrison and producer Jamie to talk about all things dating, breakups, and sex. The trio discuss the mistakes you might be making on dating apps, fights that can lead to your relationship’s downfall, and why women are really freezing their eggs. Plus, they help listeners put their foot fetish forward, break into the dating scene, and what to do when people get distant. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Aaptiv, Adam...more

  • The Real Deal with Dating with Hannah Cranston

    Jul 13 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by host, producer, and content creator Hannah Cranston to talk about social media, dating, and what the deal is with both. The pair talk about what it’s like to be on dating apps, how to tell someone you’re not interested right away, and why loving yourself is the best kind of love there is. Plus, they help listeners with false accusations, how to feel sexy and confident, and ways to get past “retrograde jealousy.” Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help k...more

  • Play Together, Stay Together

    Jul 10 2018

    On today’s show, Emily along with comedian Ben Morrison are talking about top sexual fantasies, from threesomes to bondage – and how to talk to your partner about what you want to try. They get into the psychology behind the mile high club, what traits lead to divorce – and it’s not what you think, why keeping score in the bedroom is a lose-lose situation, and how to jumpstart that spark in your relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, Magic Wand ...more

  • More Sex, Less Pain with Heather Jeffcoat

    Jul 06 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by pelvic floor physical therapist Heather Jeffcoat, author of Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve to talk about the importance of pelvic floor health for everyone. They talk about painful sex issues for women and men, how to know if you have one, and what to do to get past it (hint: it’s actually not Kegels!). Plus, they discuss sex after having children, after menopause, and even help a caller whose girlfriend got some pelvic ad...more

  • What's in Our Box? Sex Toy Review

    Jul 03 2018

    It’s sex toy review day! Emily is joined by her trusty team to talk about the pleasure products and sex toys they love and how to use them. Emily, Jamie, and Sarah give first hand accounts of what toys brought them great pleasure – from bondage to massage oil to vibrators – and why they’re great additions to your sex life. Plus, they talk about first date turn offs, how to explore your sexuality, and whether or not attractiveness can change your taste buds. Thank you for supporting our sponsors ...more

  • Sexual Power: From Bedroom to Boardroom with Kasia Urbaniak

    Jun 29 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Kasia Urbaniak – former dominatrix and founder of The University – a school that teaches women the foundations of power and influence. The two talk about how men and women are so confused about how to relate – in and out of the bedroom, why silence is our biggest enemy (not men), and how to level the playing field of power dynamics. Plus, they discuss what we need to move on sexually as well as getting past sexual guilt. Thank you for supporting our sponsors w...more

  • Best Of: Roleplay, Foreplay & Premature Choking

    Jun 26 2018

    On today's throwback show, Emily is joined by the hilarious ladies of the Wild Horses improv team – along with Menace – to talk about tales of masturbation past, dating, and fantasies. Mary, Lauren, Erin and Stephanie talk about their L.A. dating experiences, the comedy scene, and the worst parts of porn. Plus they tell some of their deepest desires, help Emily answer an email on body insecurities, and even have a live Harry Potter role-play! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep t...more

  • Healthy & Horny with Max Lugavere

    Jun 22 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by New York Times Best Selling author and host of The Genius Life podcast Max Lugavere to talk about his new book, Genius Foods, and how what you eat can affect your brain and your sex life. Emily and Max talk about how being healthy can improve your brain and your sex drive, what foods can help with restricted blood flow, and how couples who eat healthy together are more satisfied. Plus, they help listeners with mismatched libidos and how to keep anxiety out of ...more

  • Annoyingly Amazing Sex

    Jun 19 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about everything from dating tactics to getting your needs met in bed to consent. She discusses how annoyance with your partner may be a good thing, how to get past those embarrassing sex moments – because we’ve all been there, and going back to the masturbation drawing board.   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Nutrafol, Apex, JO, Magic Wand

  • Sexual Kung Fu with Kim Anami

    Jun 15 2018

    On today’s show, Emily talks with sex and relationship coach Kim Anami about how people are capable of experiencing so much more pleasure than they ever thought possible. Emily and Kim talk about vaginal superpowers, big misconceptions when it comes to sexuality, and the famed #ThingsILiftWithMyVagina. Plus, Emily helps listeners with false fingering impressions, whether or not sex affects athletic performance, and how to keep from cheating. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep th...more

  • Real (Sex) Talk with the SWE Team

    Jun 12 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is bringing you a mash-up of some of her favorite roundtable discussions featuring the Sex With Emily team from the past few years. They cover everything from fantasies to masturbation to toys, and they even get into how being part of the Sex with Emily team has changed their sex lives – for the better, of course. To hear more from these shows, you can find them at sexwithemily.com! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, Fleshlight, Womani...more

  • Performance Tips & Doggy Style Tricks

    Jun 08 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about everything from sex positions to performance in the bedroom to the way our brains work. She reveals how performance issues are not just on old man thing, why you should love yourself and your vulva, how to last longer when using condoms, and debates whether we’re designed to be monogamous. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Aaptiv, Fleshlight, Apex, We-Vibe

  • Best Of: Caution, Sexy When Wet

    Jun 07 2018

    On today’s throwback show, Emily answers your emails, and addresses some of your most pressing sex and relationship questions. Emily and Anderson talk about how to date with kids, debate some of Redditor's top sex tips, and how to tell your new partner that you're a squirter. Plus, what to do when you're feeling uneasy about your partner's fantasies and how many college kids are "hot" for teacher. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Adam & Eve, Apex

  • Food for (Sex) Thought

    Jun 05 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is talking about everything from what couples who have more sex are eating to why suppressing your fantasies just makes you think about them more. She discusses why it’s time to get over masturbation guilt, what to do if your partner is monogamous and you’re not, how to keep from getting dry when it comes to condoms, and whether or not society is going to accept you for who you are.   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, Promescent...more

  • Do the Hand Job Twist

    Jun 01 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls, and giving you sure-fire ways to take your sex life and your relationships to the next level. She gives you some ways to take your hand jobs to legendary status, reveals what people are really using tinder for, and how many people are getting it on at music festivals and where they’re doing it. Plus, she helps callers get relaxed for anal play, compromise when it comes to how long sex is lasting and how much sex is happening. Thank you for supporting ...more

  • Keeping it Kinky, Cuddly & Clean

    May 29 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie where they're talking about best practices for sex and dating. The two discuss dirty sex – literally, who’s having kinkier sex, and why flashing your cash might not make you relationship material. Plus, Emily is taking calls on getting your partner to cuddle, how to fix a marriage after an open relationship, and how to deal with your partner’s friends who don’t understand alternative relationships. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help ke...more

  • An Ode to Oral (Sex)

    May 25 2018

    On today’s show, Emily’s helping you communicate your way to better sex and relationships – with a partner, or with yourself. She talks about the oral sex double standard, ways to overcome your sexual insecurities, and what to do when you’ve given up on having an orgasm. Plus, she gives a first hand account about the hidden and sometimes surprising benefits of masturbation. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Promescent, We-Vibe, Womanizer

  • Best Of: Virgins, Cuckolds, & Unicorns

    May 22 2018

    On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco pal Stacy to talk about everything love, dating, fantasies, and sex. They talk about how to get past inexperience – in the bedroom and the dating world, what to do about post-orgasm exhaustion, and what science has to say about what men and women typically look for in a threesome – and it doesn’t look the same. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: JO Stimulants, Adam & Eve, Intensity, Magic W...more

  • Closing the (Orgasm) Gap

    May 18 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is setting the record straight in the world of sex and pleasure. She reveals the specific compliments men and women like to receive on dating apps – and probably in life, too, why the orgasm gap exists – and how to close it, how to approach your teen about their masturbation habits, and ways to get the oral sex you crave. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Lola, Magic Wand, Womanizer

  • (Having) Sex With Emily

    May 15 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls, and revealing some stats about everyone’s favorite activity – sex. She even has someone on from her own life that she’s directly helped master a few bedroom techniques. They talk about who’s using lube and who’s not, the importance of the clitoris and why it needs to be wined, dined (and 69’d), and ways to handle when your parents don’t like your partner and turning sexual guilt into sexual confidence. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help ke...more

  • Mojo Makeover with Dana Myers

    May 11 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by founder of Booty Parlor Dana Myers to talk about her new book, The Mommy Mojo Makeover, and how moms – and women in general – can reconnect to their sexual selves. They talk about how to find the “sexy” in everyday life – including gently fondling cucumbers, ways to reduce resentment – the secret, toxic relationship killer, what to do when your sex toy surprise backfires, and how to get the spark back when you’ve tried everything from sexy photos to spontaneou...more

  • Orgasms: Are You In or Out?

    May 08 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls, answering emails, talking about sex and relationships – she’s doing it all. Emily goes over what really counts as bad sex – survey says: this is what really bums women out in the bedroom. Plus she helps listeners decide if it’s time for couples therapy, whether penis extenders are actually worth it, and has the age old debate of internal vs. external orgasms – because the vagina is still so misunderstood. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep...more

  • M is for Masturbation (Month)

    May 04 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and getting into some self-pleasure talk because it’s May and you know what that means –  IT’S MASTURBATION MONTH! She talks with callers about how to better educate people about porn and where to find the good stuff, ways to bring up fantasies to a partner, what to do when you can’t seem to climax – even with the help of ED meds, and how to have that dreaded “define the relationship” talk. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show F...more

  • OHMazing Sex with Tal Rabinowitz

    May 01 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by her friend and creator of DEN Meditation Tal Rabinowitz to talk about how meditation can benefit your life – in and out of the bedroom. The two discuss why meditating with a partner can be beneficial to your relationship, ways meditation can improve your sex life – including performance anxiety, and how to keep the intimacy alive with your partner after you’ve had a baby – when all you want to do is sleep. Plus, what you can do to spark your partner’s interest...more

  • Love Rules with Joanna Coles

    Apr 27 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by chief content officer of Hearst Magazines Joanna Coles to talk about her new book, Love Rules: How To Find A Real Relationship In A Digital World – basically a diet book for love. The two talk about how to have more fun while dating rather than just looking for “the one,” why we can’t seem to admit to ourselves that we want love, or what we need during sex, and how to use dating apps as a way to actually find love and not just another date. Thank you for suppo...more

  • Best Of: Casual Sex With Emily

    Apr 24 2018

    This throwback show is all about all things casual sex – because we just can’t talk about it enough. Emily sits down with a panel of friends from different ages and backgrounds to talk about what casual sex means to them – and what the stigmas are surrounding it – because even a few years later, all of this is still so relevant. They even touch upon an email of “slut-shaming” and the double standards of casual sex that – try as we might – are still around today. Thank you for supporting our spon...more

  • Let's Get it On (Period)

    Apr 20 2018

    On today’s show, things are getting touchy feely in more ways than one. Emily tells a story that shows how sexy – and sometimes mind blowing – directly expressing your needs to your partner can be, ways to stimulate all parts of the clitoris for truly orgasmic outcomes, and getting back to HPV basics – after all it is STD awareness month. Plus, why you should focus less on your sexual experience and more on your sexual exploration. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FRE...more

  • Authentically Sexy with Kaitlyn Bristowe

    Apr 17 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by former bachelorette and host of the podcast “Off the Vine” Kaitlyn Bristowe and the two are talking about embracing your authentic and sexy self to help build your confidence in and out of the bedroom. They talk about learning to trust your gut when it comes to true arousal and attraction, how scheduling “down time” with your partner will enhance intimacy, and some of the best pick up lines Emily’s heard in a long time. Thank you for supporting our sponsors wh...more

  • Coming Together with Jeff Abraham

    Apr 13 2018

    Today’s show is all about penises. Emily is joined by long time friend of the podcast, Jeff Abraham, who runs the company behind Promescent – the product that helps couples enhances intimacy. They discuss the difference between pre-mature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, and even role play and provide helpful pointers for talking to your partner about his penis challenges. This show also include sexy tips for mutual masturbation, ways to break out of that sex routine, and how to close the o...more

  • No Shame in a Bigger, Sexier Brain with Jim Kwik Part 2

    Apr 11 2018

    Today’s episode is part two of yesterday’s podcast with Jim Kwik. During this part 2, Jim walks Emily (and you) through specific steps to activate a healthy brain, and techniques to remember anything from a speech to the details of your first date. You’ll be able to follow along as they walk through very specific, impactful and easy to learn exercises you can you use right away –– because a big, healthy brain is always sexy. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-V...more

  • No Shame in a Bigger, Sexier Brain with Jim Kwik

    Apr 10 2018

    The Brain is the largest and most important sex organ, so on today’s show Emily is joined by her friend and one of the world experts on optimal brain performance Jim Kwik – who also hosts the top training podcast, Kwik Brain. The two talk about how to sharpen and focus your memory (no more forgetting your anniversary), the two most costly words in a relationship, and how to lead with your emotions. This is just part 1 of this interview – stay tuned for part 2 where you can follow along with Emil...more

  • New Podcast, Who Dis? with Jordan Harbinger

    Apr 06 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by her OG podcast friend Jordan Harbinger, host of The Jordan Harbinger Show to talk about all aspects of relationships – intimate and otherwise. They talk about why keeping “score” in relationships is an unhealthy practice, how to maintain your relationships in life and work, ways to stay motivated when you’re going through a devastating break-up, and why it’s natural for the grass to feel greener outside of a relationship and what to do about it. Thank you for ...more

  • Femtech: The Future is Sexy

    Apr 04 2018

    Today’s bonus show features Emily as a host of The Future of Femtech panel a few weeks back at South By Southwest in Austin, Texas – a massive gathering of technology, film, culture, and music. Put on by the SAFE app – an app that lets you show your verified STD status for safe dating, the panel featured amazing women founders and entrepreneurs behind companies devoted to women’s health and sexuality – what Femtech is all about. From sex toy companies to dating apps to Kegel fertility trackers, ...more

  • Dildos & Vibrators & Butt Plugs, Oh My! with Zoë Ligon

    Apr 03 2018

    On today’s show, Emily’s joined by Detroit-based sex educator Zoë Ligon to talk about how to prioritize your pleasure and step away from “goal” oriented sex, because hey – it’s not just about orgasms.   They explain the important distinction between dildos and vibrators (not that you have to choose), giving you creative, mind-blowing ways to incorporate sex toys into the bedroom and why stocking up on good lube makes sex so much better. Plus, they give you tips for choosing your first butt plug ...more

  • Sex, Porn, & (Erika) Lust

    Mar 30 2018

    On today’s show, Emily hosts Erika Lust, an award-winning indie adult filmmaker who is changing perspectives on porn by focusing on ethical production values whose erotic films are all super sexy. Emily and Erika talk about how she portrays female pleasure in a whole new way, as well as showing people of all races, body types, and sexual orientations. They also discuss the alternatives to mainstream tube sites – which aren’t for everyone – as well as what a Sex With Emily podcast porn might look...more

  • Best Of: I'm Not Just Having Sex with Erik Griffin

    Mar 27 2018

    On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by comedian Erik Griffin from Comedy Central’s Workaholics and the two are talking about dating in the digital world, different types of relationships, and debate whether or not sex is the most important thing in a relationship. They talk about the art of flirting online, FWBs, mismatched libidos, and the importance of communication in the bedroom and the thrill of pleasing your partner. Emily also gives Erik advice on how to get closer to getting the p...more

  • Taking the Angst Out of Anxious Sex

    Mar 23 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is discussing new findings and revelations about the world of sex – including the male birth control pill and making casual sex fun again. She talks about how women can to take control and ask for what they want in bed – no matter if it’s a one night stand or a long-term relationship, making sure your female partner is orgasming more (hint – it has to do with the clitoris), specific ways to last longer in bed, and the truth about STIs and oral sex. Thank you for supporting...more

  • Best Of: Emily’s First Sex Party

    Mar 20 2018

    Emily’s throwing it back to a podcast of her live radio show in 2008. She talks about her first sex party experience along with her guide for the evening, “Captain Erotica”. They discuss sex party etiquette, why attitude and partner pairing is key, what to expect, how to overcome nervousness, and why sex parties are erotic-positive and how they actually promote more intimacy in today’s culture and society.

  • More Sexually Excited with Jay Mohr

    Mar 16 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian, podcaster, and actor Jay Mohr and the two get real about sex and relationships, with some funny on the side. They talk about dealing with anxiety, moving through divorce and how to know when you’ve done enough – because if you’re in a troubled spot in your relationship, it’s not time to have an affair, bury emotions, or just tune out, but to do real work. Plus, they talk about anal, pegging, and why Jay sometimes likes to be called “daddy.” Thank you...more

  • Winner, Winner, Sex Before Dinner

    Mar 13 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you some easy sex hacks to improve intimacy, bring back spontaneity, and play in new, creative ways. She helps listeners look at their partner’s porn habits in a healthy way to make it work for their relationship, getting comfortable with different types of body fluids, because hey – sex can be messy – but it’s also half the fun, and how to communicate to a long distance lover it’s time to end the love commute. Thank you for supporting our s...more

  • The (S)ex Factor with Sheila Kelley

    Mar 09 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is not only taking your calls, but she’s bringing you a live conversation from S-FACTOR founder Sheila Kelley to talk about how women can connect with their erotic selves. Emily and Sheila discuss how transformative feminine movement can teach women how to truly love their bodies and be their sexy selves, no matter who they are. Then, Emily helps callers to channel porngasms into owngasms, ways to keep hygiene hot in the moment – especially when it comes to back-to-front p...more

  • A Not So Awkward Sex Talk With My Mom

    Mar 06 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by KarenLee & Cam Poter, a super open, hilarious, and sex positive mother-son duo – hosts of the podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. The three talk about the benefits of owning your “cougar-ness,” how to let someone know you’re just not that into them – even if it’s only been one date, the evolution of straight men and their anal explorations, and the good ole’ casual sex debate. Emily even has an impromptu call with her own mom to find out more about her sexcapadaes. ...more

  • The Skinny (Confidential) on Sex

    Mar 02 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Lauryn Evarts and Michael Bosstick from The Skinny Confidential: Him and Her podcast, and the trio are getting into how to keep things spicy in long-term relationships. They talk about the importance of prioritizing sex and keeping communication open and nonjudgemental with your partner, how learning each other’s love languages goes a long way in understanding each other, and why there continues to be shame around sex and masturbation when, hey, everyone’s doi...more

  • Best Of: Sexy Submission with Skin Diamond & Ashlynn Yennie

    Feb 27 2018

    On today’s throwback show, Emily sat down with the stars of the Showtime series Submission, Ashlynn Yennie & Skin Diamond, to talk about the truth behind the BDSM subculture. The two women give us a glimpse into their own sex lives, both on and off screen, as well as the erotic nature of consent in a true dom/sub relationship, and a description of their hot shared sex scene. Plus, Emily talks about a post break up revenge scheme that is as hilarious as it is spoilsome. Thank you for supporting o...more

  • Bulletproof Sex with Dave Asprey

    Feb 23 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Bulletproof founder and Headstrong author Dave Asprey to talk about ways to biohack your sex life to make you happier and healthier. The pair discuss the distinct health benefits of orgasms for men and women, how limiting how often you ejaculate can actually make you more productive, why stress is the number one killer of libido, how to pinpoint why your sex drive is lower than you want it to be, and why hacking your sex life can motivate you in all aspects of...more

  • Affair Repair

    Feb 20 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is helping you get your relationships and your sex lives back on track by taking calls and answering emails. She gives some tell-tale signs that your relationship isn’t moving at a healthy pace, ways to effectively work through an affair, why you have to let you partner know right away if sex is causing you pain, and how to get past your jealousy over your partner’s relationship with a sex toy. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hello Fresh,...more

  • How to be a Penis Genius with Dr. Sadie Allison

    Feb 16 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator and author, Dr. Sadie Allison, and the two go deep into all things sex – because what else would two sexperts do? The two talk about the fine lines between sexual pleasure and pain, specific tips for clitoral foreplay and the lost art of the handjob, how to really talk to your kids about sex and masturbation, why slow, sensual touch is so arousing and how to work with your body to have a more satisfying and orgasmic life. Plus, they reveal the num...more

  • On the Same Sex Page

    Feb 14 2018

    Happy Valentine’s Day! Since all you listeners are like Emily’s extended family, we’re bringing you a bonus show this week, to show how much we all appreciate you. Emily’s taking your calls and giving simple ways to ease into mindful sex, how to evolve your sexual compatibility, using porn as an appetizer for sex, and not the entree, and tips for channeling your inner sex goddess, even when you’re not that experienced. So celebrate the day of love with us! Thank you for supporting our sponsors w...more

  • Fidelity, Fantasy & Phone Sex

    Feb 13 2018

    On today’s show, Emily’s taking your calls and helping you get through all your sex and relationship quandaries. She gets to the bottom of when phone sex is actually considered cheating, how to practice brutal honesty in open relationships, the challenges around revealing your sex positivity when your peers might not be ready to accept it, and ways to heal so you can take your life back after an unhealthy relationship. Plus, she reveals what the top fantasies are for women, and why it’s time to ...more

  • Making (Multiple) Orgasm Dreams Come True

    Feb 09 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is speaking with the founders of We-Vibe about their journey to create the “perfect” couples’ toy and, of course, helping you have better sex and relationships. She talks about how to get comfortable with a relationship when you’re super set in your single ways, the best ways to make your multiple orgasm dreams a reality, and what REALLY makes great sex – and it’s a lot easier than you think. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Beach Body, Ma...more

  • Sexperts: Just The Tip

    Feb 06 2018

    On today’s episode, Emily’s sharing some of the most open and insightful conversations with sexologists she’s hosted over the past few years. Emily speaks with sexual empowerment coach Amy Jo Goddard, sex therapist Hernando Chavez, teacher and porn star legend Nina Hartley, and sex educators Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg about a range of topics. From the basics of sex to ways to ease into back door play to non-traditional relationships, this show has a piece for everyone to learn and enjoy...more

  • Sexy & Stress Free Valentine's Day

    Feb 02 2018

    On today’s show, Emily and her team are talking all things Valentine’s Day – from unique and sexy ideas to their favorite toys to ways to take the pressure off planning AND expectations. The team talks about what makes a great Valentine’s Day, why it’s beneficial to exchange ideas on what you want instead of being surprised, and why it’s important to carve out some time for self-love. Plus, they give tips on how to up the dirty talk “ante,” embracing your kinkier side – no matter what your exper...more

  • Orgasm More with Your Pelvic Floor

    Jan 30 2018

    On today’s show, Emily’s talking about the most important sexercise you’re not doing yet, and helping you have the healthiest relationships possible. Emily is joined by Amy Bomberg from In Control, the makers behind the Intensity by Pour Moi, to talk about the significant benefits of pelvic floor health. Plus, she gives her top advice on how to move forward when you’re evolving sexually and your partner’s stuck in the past, the best ways to tease and stimulate ALL the male erogenous zones, and h...more

  • Sharing Secrets with Sarah Brokaw

    Jan 26 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by therapist and author Sarah Brokaw, host of the podcast Shared Secrets to talk about the ups and downs of relationships and the dynamics between couples. Emily and Sarah discuss how couples therapy actually works to set the foundation for a healthy relationship, how to get past a cheating incident, the real impact technology and social media are having on our relationships, and the right way to talk about what’s not working (sexually) with a partner. Thank you ...more

  • The Funny Side of Sex

    Jan 23 2018

    Get ready for another mash up! On today’s episode, Emily is sharing some of the funniest, sexiest, and revealing conversations from comedians that she’s hosted over the past few years. She talks with funny man Brad Williams, comedian Adam Ray, actor and author Fred Stoller, and Grace Para and Jen Bartels from the Lady Freaks, all of whom are sharing their funniest experiences in sex and relationships. From diffusing awkward situations – in the bedroom and the dating world – to epic threesomes, ...more

  • The Good Dad with Larry Hagner

    Jan 19 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Larry Hagner, founder of The Good Dad Project and host of The Dad Edge Podcast to talk about the ups and downs of fatherhood, and ways to be the best dad and lover you can be. Emily and Larry talk about the benefits of being both masculine and vulnerable (because the two are not mutually exclusive), how to navigate the “real” sex talk with your kids, as well as learning to be an empathetic listener and why this is so important. Plus, a few ways you can build a...more

  • Damn, It Feels Good to Be Single

    Jan 16 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is answering emails and helping you use your sexual confidence as a way to boost your self confidence. Emily helps listeners understand the importance of “repair” in a long-term relationship, the benefits of trying out a new “persona” during sex, even if it’s completely different than who you really are, why there’s never been a better time to be single, and the key reasons why people cheat – and it might not be what you think. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who hel...more

  • Show and Tell to Orgasm Well

    Jan 12 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking calls and giving you ways to reawaken sexual attraction over the long term, because the honeymoon phase isn’t everlasting. She’s helping listeners to understand why you should love your vagina – inside and out, how taking time for yourself after a divorce is crucial for self-growth, and why showing someone how you like to be touched is a whole lot sexier than just telling them. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Beachbody On Demand...more

  • Don't Go Changing Your Heart

    Jan 09 2018

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you discover ways to be your new sexual self. She's giving her insights as to why taking time after a breakup is crucial for your sexual and mental health, how to tell your partner you need more foreplay in bed without it turning into a joke, why it’s better to cut ties than to hope you can change someone, and how to retrain that dating muscle and confidently get back in the game after a long-term marriage. Thank you for supporting our spon...more

  • Sex Experts Tell All

    Jan 05 2018

    On today’s show, Emily’s compiled some highlights of her favorite interviews with expert guests who all share the same goal – helping people have the best sex and relationships they can. She’s joined by physician and radio/television host Dr. Drew, sex and relationship coach John Wineland, author and dating expert Zara Barrie, and sex therapist Cyndi Darnell who give their insights and expertise on an array of topics. From maintaining “lust” in long-term relationships to the different ways men a...more

  • 2018: Turn Ons, Teasing, & Tech

    Jan 02 2018

    Happy New Year! On today's show, Emily and Menace are talking about having the best sex and relationships in 2018, and specific ways to make it happen. The two discuss the forgotten art of the tease and how to master it, the future of sex tech and what it may look like this year, and why marijuana smokers may be having more sex than you. Plus, how to you talk to your partner about their flaccid member, why some people would rather give than receive oral sex, and how sometimes, a person’s sexual...more

  • #SexGoals 2018

    Dec 29 2017

    It’s the last show of 2017! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie to reflect on the best and the worst sex of the year, and what lessons can be learned to make sure 2018 is full of the greatest sex yet. Emily and Jamie discuss what it really means to change sexually. From prioritizing intimacy to feeling the lasting emotional benefits from sexual afterglow, they cover everything you need to become a more attentive lover. Also, why watching lesbian porn is totally cool, and how to deli...more

  • Best Of: Live From the Improv – 10 Years of SWE

    Dec 26 2017

    Today’s throwback podcast is a live recording of Emily’s 10 year anniversary show at the Hollywood Improv. Emily shares how it all began at her kitchen table and reveals, for the first time, the story behind how she got started, her challenges around podcasting back in 2005 to now, and how talking about sex for a living definitely impacts her personal and professional life. Emily also has Menace, Anderson, and Dr. Drew on stage to talk about some of their favorite moments, as well as a live Q&A ...more

  • Manscaping, Moaning, & What Really Matters

    Dec 22 2017

    Happy holidays! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Menace to talk about what really matters in the bedroom, and guys, it isn’t penis size. The two discuss the benefits of manscaping and how it can enhance sensations, why sex noises can make the experience better, tips for beginner back-door play, and how you shouldn’t compare your body or skills to what you see in porn, because that’s not real sex. Plus, they talk about the future of sex robots, what the ideal one will look like, and the inevit...more

  • Sex Talk, Interrupted

    Dec 19 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Anderson and the two are helping callers embrace sexy opportunities and be their most confident selves – on a date and in the bedroom. They talk about how to communicate your needs to a partner and have them actually hear you, what to do when one person avoids sex talk altogether, and how to detox from a toxic ex who made you question your own sexiness. Plus, Emily catches us up on her most recent sex adventure – because there’s no shame in a hot hook up. Than...more

  • Mindfully Sexy with Dr. Jenn

    Dec 15 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by sociologist and sexologist Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to talk about the best ways to communicate your sexual boundaries and how to share what works and what doesn’t work for you in the bedroom – all with confidence. They discuss what managing consent is like in today’s world, how being a mindful masturbator will help you learn about your body so you can share your needs, and why both partners need to be invested in making sex hot in a relationship. Because hey, it ta...more

  • Interview Orgy

    Dec 13 2017

    Today’s show is the first ever interview mashup. Emily has been so inspired by her guests this year, so she’s picked a few of her favorite interviews with people who gave us some real honest and insightful looks into their sex lives. Emily is joined by her good friends and fellow podcasters, Amy and April, Jason Ellis, pornstar Joanna Angel, and three everyday guys who were willing to tell all. Emily chats with them about everything from open relationships to the wildest sex acts they’ve encount...more

  • Best Of: Jealousy in Retrograde

    Dec 08 2017

    On today’s throwback show, Emily is giving her best tips on proper communication – in the dating world, long term relationships, and of course, in the bedroom. Emily, along with Anderson, reveal some surprising statistics about contraception and libido, as well as how many people actually hook up at the gym. Plus, Emily helps listeners dealing with jealousy, orgasm dishonesty, and opening up your partner to something new in the bedroom – all through the best lubrication: communication! Thank you...more

  • All Aboard the Booty Train

    Dec 05 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you a crash course in all things anal, the not-so-surprising sex trend of the year. Emily gives her sexiest advice on going deeper into tantric sex, why it’s best not to share your sex number with your partner, and how Kegel exercises affect your penis. Plus, she discusses the age old debate of love vs. lust, and how to know the difference. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We Vibe, System JO Jellies, Intensi...more

  • A Breath Away From Better Sex

    Dec 01 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving you tips to help you have more mindful sex that’s actually mind blowing! Emily’s helping callers move past relationship betrayal and back into intimacy, how to get past retrospective jealousy, whether or not you should avoid getting busy before a big race, and how to get the most pleasure out of pleasuring yourself. Plus, she reminds us how to get out of our heads, and enjoy sex to its full capacity. Breathe deep and tune in! Thank you for s...more

  • Emily & The Guys We F*cked

    Nov 28 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson, creators of the podcast “Guys We Fucked” and authors of the new book “Fucked…Being Sexually Explorative & Self-Confident In a World That’s Screwed,” to talk about confidence and self acceptance, not only in the bedroom, but in all areas of your life. Emily, Corinne, and Krystyna cover a range of topics, including sexual shame, embracing your sexy imperfections, why it’s necessary for women to celebrate other women, masturb...more

  • A Sex Toy Review of Orgasmic Proportions

    Nov 24 2017

    Today’s show is one of our favorites–– it’s SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! Emily is joined by some of her trusty team to talk about the toys they like, how to use them, and sex toy hacks for maximum pleasure. Emily talks with Jamie, Shannon, and Jenny about a handful of awesome toys from the sex tech world, from movement to vibration – right down to the box design. This episode just goes to show you how different every woman is when it comes to her orgasms. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help ke...more

  • Date Like You Mean It with Rachael O'Brien

    Nov 21 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian and host of the podcast, Be Here For a While, Rachael O’Brien to talk about why being single is pretty awesome, ways to communicate in bed, and how to meet people IRL. Emily and Rachael also give their insights as to why you should love your vagina and stop obsessing over how it looks, how to be and STAY present during sex, and how you should write your own dating rules instead of following everyone else’s. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who he...more

  • Best Of: Sexy, Not Sorry with Moxi Cox

    Nov 17 2017

    On today’s show, we’re throwing things back to when sex-positive Suicide Girl, Moxi Cox, joined Emily to talk everything from sex toys to alternative relationships to kinking things up! Emily, Menace and Moxi help a few listeners go from “fluff” to “rough” in the bedroom, Moxi talks about how to successfully navigate open relationships, and she even shares some of her own sexual experiences – from her top porn picks to her favorite ways to orgasm. If you missed it once don’t miss it again! Thank...more

  • First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage?

    Nov 14 2017

    On today’s show, Emily’s helping callers get over their anxieties when it comes to relationships and the bedroom. She gives her advice on getting that sex drive up and rebuilding intimacy when there’s kids in the house, how to keep things hot and steamy during a threesome, ways to move past anxiety to enjoy sex again, and how to tell if you’re really ready for marriage – or if you’re being talked into it. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Mystery Vibe, Womanizer,...more

  • G-Spot GPS

    Nov 10 2017

    On today’s show Emily and Anderson are taking your calls, as well as covering clitoral, g-spot, and oral orgasms, with advice on how to find and achieve all three! Emily and Anderson give tips on how to overcome that pesky gag reflex, ways to reach g-spot bliss, and how to bring back that new relationship energy in a long-term relationship, as well as why foreplay is a requirement–– not a suggestion. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: SKYN, Adam & Eve, Womanizer, ...more

  • Understanding Sex Addiction with Marnie Breecker

    Nov 07 2017

    On today’s show, Emily’s joined by Marnie Breecker, sex addiction therapist and founder of the Center for Relational Healing, to talk in depth about the controversial issues surrounding sex addiction and relationships.  Emily and Marnie talk about the distinction between a sex addict and a cheater, different behavior and attachment issues, and their impact on the way we navigate relationships. Plus, they give a crash course in IMAGO therapy–– which can help you communicate better with everyone i...more

  • Your Orgasmic Potential with Xanet Pailet

    Nov 03 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach and author of the forthcoming book, Living An Orgasmic Life, to discuss how to reach your full orgasmic potential, overcome the shame/pleasure paradox, and understanding the difference between arousal and desire. Emily and Xanet also walk through a couple exercises to tap into your sexual energy–– something you can do along with them! There are a lot of useful tools and information packed into this episode, all geared tow...more

  • Epic Sex with Layla Martin

    Oct 31 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by Layla Martin, the headmistress of Tantra to talk about reconnecting with your body when you’re sexually and emotionally detached, how to get women to stop staring at the orgasm clock, and ways to raise your sexual energy. Emily and Layla discuss how to be more in-tune with your body’s sexual responses, alternative practices for enhanced pleasure, and how to have full body orgasms. This show will help you improve your sex and intimacy–– with a little Jedi-like ...more

  • Getting Touchy Feely with Brooke Burke-Charvet

    Oct 27 2017

    Turn the lights down low and turn the volume up for today’s show. Emily welcomes back her friend and fellow podcaster Brooke Burke-Charvet, host of the Brooke Burke Show to talk about the importance of different forms of touch play, what to do when your kid finds your sex toys, and tips for initiating sex! Wondering how to date when you’re a single parent with young child? Is it okay to have fantasies, even if you’re married? These two ladies discuss solutions to these quandaries, and share why ...more

  • The Mask of Masculinity with Lewis Howes

    Oct 24 2017

    Masculinity takes many forms. On today’s show Emily is joined by podcaster and author Lewis Howes to discuss his new book, The Mask of Masculinity, which takes a look at what keeps men from true intimacy and how to overcome it! Emily and Lewis explore the emotional repression and lack of resources available to young men when it comes to understanding the difference between what they “should be,” and who they actually are. Lewis also shares his own story of “wearing masks”, and how he got himself...more

  • Your Two Breast Friends

    Oct 20 2017

    Get ready for a show full of sexy tricks! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie to celebrate her two years on the team and what she’s learned, along with a bunch of tips to help all of you have better sex! The two lovely ladies talk nipple play tips, favorite toys, and ways to get rid of relationship anxiety. Plus, they help listeners navigate through one-night stands, prostate play, how to be ready for round two and so much more. Tune in for some titillating talk! Thank you for suppo...more

  • Go With the Gender Flow

    Oct 17 2017

    Sexuality is a spectrum, and so is gender identity– there aren’t just two choices. On today’s show, Emily talks with three people about what being genderfluid really means and how to understand it all! Emily is joined by Max, producer of the upcoming film, L: A Story of Genderfluidity, Dany, the main actor in the film, and Jacob, the film’s trusted advisor. Dany and Jacob, who are both genderfluid, with the help of Max, talk with Emily about the social, historical, and political aspects of gende...more

  • Being Monogamish with Tao Ruspoli

    Oct 13 2017

    The concepts of marriage and monogamy have been around for ages, but does that mean they’re right for us all? On today’s show, Emily is joined by Tao Ruspoli, writer and director of his new film Monogamish, to talk about how relationships have evolved and expanded. Emily and Tao discuss his inspirations for making his movie, his own journey surrounding monogamy, and how we can talk to our partners about the relationships we want. The two also give their advice on how to move forward after breaku...more

  • The F'ING Truth with Carsie Blanton

    Oct 10 2017

    Today’s a very special episode of Sex With Emily, filled with studio firsts! Emily is joined by songstress and creator of the game “The F’ING Truth,” Carsie Blanton for live music, game play, & a whole lot of sex talk! Emily talks with Carsie about how she expresses her sexuality through her music and used it as inspiration for her hot, new game that gets people talking about their sex lives. The two also help a few listeners with their coital questions, Jamie and intern Shannon join in for a bi...more

  • Fun, Fearless Sex (Talk): Cosmo Style

    Oct 06 2017

    Emily’s mission has always been to help people have the best sex they can. On today’s show, she’s joined by editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan, Michele Promaulayko, a magazine that’s had a similar goal since the 1960s! Emily and Michele both know a thing or two when it comes to sex, relationships, and ways to improve both. They talk about how the magazine has evolved, different sex trends, sex and society, peppered with a few stories of their own. Plus, they answer questions about friend jealousy, ...more

  • Holy Phone Sex, Batman!

    Oct 03 2017

    Talking: it saves us and it confounds us. On today’s show, Emily is joined by Menace to help write your sex script for a better time in the bedroom! How do you find casual sex partners? Is there an easy way to tell your partner it’s time to drop some lbs? Feeling pressured to put a ring on it? Emily and Menace give advice on how to start these sex and dating discussions as well as giving you a crash course on hot phone sex. Tune in and listen up! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help ke...more

  • Foreplay Hacks to Get Your Sex Life Back

    Sep 29 2017

    Ever feel like you’re not having enough sex? Well, you’re not alone. On today’s show, Emily is joined by Anderson to make sure that the sex you are having is the best it can be! Need foreplay suggestions other than a hand job? How do you get your wife to be the sexual goddess she once was? Are you a squirter and proud? Emily and Anderson help listeners with these coital conundrums, as well as discussing how our cell phones are so distracting us– we’re having less sex. Tune in for a show full of ...more

  • More Oral Sex, Less Stalking the Ex

    Sep 26 2017

    They say that money can’t buy happiness, but what can? On today’s show Emily is joined by Menace to show you that all you really need to be happy is a little relaxation and a whole lot of pleasure! You’re trying to up your sex game, but is your partner even worth the trouble? How do you know when someone’s a certified douche canoe? When your love is locked up, is it okay to want to stray? Emily and Menace help listeners get through these sex and dating issues, plus go over why adequate sex and s...more

  • Best Of: Sex, Love and Totally Turned On with Carmen Electra

    Sep 22 2017

    On today’s throwback show, Emily and Anderson welcomes Baywatch babe turned culture icon Carmen Electra into the studio! They give their advice on social anxiety creating sexual hurdles, oral sex challenges, and dating do’s and don’ts.   Carmen talks about her road to success– from her Ohio beginnings to her experience in the music industry to her sex life! From what’s sexiest to sexual pet peeves, the three get down and dirty with the naughty details, as well as how to use lube to its full pote...more

  • Getting Even Wetter with Lynette Carolla

    Sep 19 2017

    Ready for another round? On today’s show, Emily is joined again by fellow podcaster Lynette Carolla to help put your sex and dating worries to bed. Do you get too wet during sex? How do you transition from texting to actually seeing each other? Want to learn how to be less intimidating? Emily and Lynette help callers and listeners work through these dilemmas, plus they talk about something that’s always been controversial– pubes. Don’t miss it!   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help k...more

  • Life's a (Sex) Party with Lynette Carolla

    Sep 15 2017

    Communicating about sex is almost as hard as having the best sex ever, but it doesn’t have to be. On today’s show Emily is joined by fellow podcaster and long time friend Lynette Carolla, host of For Crying out Loud and Sword and Scale Rewind, to help you start the sex conversation! Emily and Lynette are no strangers to putting it all out on the table. The two talk about specific moves to pleasure a woman (hint: it involves the clitoris), how to talk to your partner about what you want in bed, a...more

  • Three Guys Talk Sex

    Sep 12 2017

    This is a Sex With Emily first! We know how much you love roundtable shows with lovely ladies, but today’s a roundtable of three real and down-to-earth guys to talk all things sex and relationships! Emily is joined by Chad, Hartwick, and Gavin– three guys having fun in the single lane. From dating apps to casual sex to what makes for a bad blowjob, the crew covers it all. Emily gets these guys to open up about their best sexual experience and what they’ve yet to cross off their sexual bucket lis...more

  • The Truth About Relationships with Neil Strauss

    Sep 08 2017

    Some people have a stem of unhealthy relationships, and can’t seem to figure out why. On today’s show, Emily is joined by best selling author Neil Strauss to talk about his journey through relationships that will help others get to the root of their issues!   Emily and Neil converse about the importance on emotional health and working on yourself before opening up to relationships. They talk about different types of therapy, ways to regain confidence, and communicating to become better lovers an...more

  • Sexually Fluid with Nico Tortorella

    Sep 05 2017

    There are so many ways to identify yourself– or not identify if that’s how you feel. On today’s show, Emily is joined by actor and host of The Love Bomb podcast Nico Tortorella and the two are talking all about sexual fluidity!   Emily and Nico discuss everything from bisexuality to pansexuality, monogamy to polyamory, and what it means to be sexually fluid. They talk about how opening yourself up to all types of love can help you have the best sex imaginable, and experience pleasure in ways you...more

  • What Women Really Want

    Sep 01 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by three smart, sexy, and open women to talk about their sex lives–without sparing the details!  Sarah, Stephanie, and Mary are three women in their 30s trying to have the best sex possible– just like all of you. Emily talks to them about everything, from fantasies to how they date to what they like in the bedroom, right down to how they orgasm! This show is like some good ole fashioned girl talk– amplified. Tune in to hear what women truly think about sex. Thank...more

  • Getting Cliterate with Dr. Ian Kerner

    Aug 29 2017

    There’s no doubt that way we view and engage in sex is constantly changing. On today’s show, Emily sits down with friend,colleague, and sex therapist Dr. Ian Kerner to talk about sex, relationships, eroticism, and more! Emily and Ian talk in depth about the discourse of intercourse, meaning that sex isn’t just about penetration. They also cover sexual cliteracy, explore the different types of non monogamous relationships, core erotic themes, and how sex has changed over the years. Tune in for a ...more

  • Best Of: Trans, Pan, and San Fran-Sexual with Venus Lux

    Aug 25 2017

    LBGT, Pan, and Poly oh my! Nearing the end of our Alternative Sex Month we are throwing it back to one of our favorites with porn star, business woman, and trans trailblazer Venus Lux! A pioneer in the alternative sex community– she isn't shy about speaking openly on a range of love and sex topics. Emily and Venus discuss everything from dating to pansexuality to pubic hair to trans post-op insecurities. No matter your orientation or gender this show will teach you a thing or two about the porn ...more

  • Sex Snafus and How to Solve Them

    Aug 22 2017

    Let’s get down to business… of getting busy! On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and getting to the route of your sex and relationship issues to help you get back to the sex life you deserve! Can’t get passed your anal sex mental block? How do you tell your casual hookup they need a shower before you go down on them? Are you on the fence about having a MFM threesome with your girlfriend? Emily talks callers through these bedroom roadblocks and more, so listen in for some great, sexy advi...more

  • Sex Talk with the Bachelors in Paradise

    Aug 18 2017

    Everyone’s heard them talk about their search for love, but what about sex? On today’s show, Emily is joined by Vinny Ventiera and Daniel Maguire from The Bachelor in Paradise for some incredibly candid sex talk!   These guys aren’t afraid to talk about everything and anything– from dating to sex, masturbation to oral, and foreplay to anal. What are guys and girls turn-ons and turn-offs? What are some new tricks to go down on a girl? Why should you use lube? Emily and the guys cover all of these...more

  • Hotter, Deeper Sex with John Wineland

    Aug 15 2017

    Attraction; the initial force that drives sex, love, and lust. Rarely does it stick around… without effort that is. On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex and intimacy speaker and coach John Wineland to help you keep the attraction alive in your sex life! Can you tell how much chemistry you have with someone after just one date?  How do you talk about intimacy with your spouse? Is it possible to create “hot attraction” on your own? Emily and John touch upon these intimate issues, plus they talk...more

  • Penis Rings and Kinky Confidence

    Aug 12 2017

    The first step to better sex and relationships is realizing something needs to change. On today’s show, Emily is here to help you make that change to have the best sex yet! Want to be confident when trying something new in bed? Confused about liking your girlfriend’s fetish? Is it time to admit, “he’s just not that into you?” These are just a few of the common conundrums Emily gives her sage advice about. Plus, she and Jamie compare their recent excursions with a penis ring as well as sharing so...more

  • Emily's Pleasure Muse

    Aug 08 2017

    Our bodies are road maps of pleasure– we just have to make time to discover new paths. On today’s show, Emily is joined by the Pleasure Muse, Dolly Josette,  who helps people figure out what they truly want to to have the best sex lives possible! Want some tips on how to light that sex spark after it’s been extinguished? Wondering how to gauge your man’s pleasure meter? Need help mastering the art of seduction? These lovely ladies give their best advice on these issues, plus, they talk about wha...more

  • Free the Nipple(gasm)

    Aug 04 2017

    When it comes to sex, an attitude of been there, done that won’t get you anywhere. On today’s show, Emily plays the role of “tour guide” to help navigate you to a better and healthier sex life! When’s the right time to introduce your inner freak to your new guy? How do you go from business talk to pillow talk? Looking for some nipple play accouterments? Plus, tune in to find out the parts of the body you should never ignore in bed! Thank you to supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE...more

  • The Shahs of Sex with Mercedes Javid

    Aug 01 2017

    Keeping the heat a live in a long term relationship isn’t always easy, especially if you’re on reality TV. On today’s show Emily is joined by Mercedes “MJ” Javid from Shahs Of Sunset to talk foreplay tricks, sex talk tips, and how to set the mood. Does your partner shy away from giving oral sex? Need help with feelings of unfounded jealousy bubbling up? Ladies– should you freeze your eggs? Emily and MJ discuss these topics as well as go over MJ’s own sex life, and well, it’s worth the listen. Th...more

  • Best Of:Real Women Talk Sex

    Jul 28 2017

    Have you ever wished you could read the mind of the person you’re sleeping with? Unless you’re Edward Cullen, it’s a wish that will never be granted– but there is hope yet! On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Harriet, Atara, Chloe and Menace to uncover the mystery on everyone’s mind: what’s the opposite sex really thinking? Wondering how to improve your foreplay game? Want to know if she’s really into you? This round table of real women (and Menace) cover these topics, and more. Plus, ...more

  • One Virgin, Two Subs, and a Threesome

    Jul 25 2017

    Over-analyzation is an issue many of us struggle with. And in your sex and dating life, it can be causing your downfall. On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-host Anderson to help you switch from your toughest critic to your biggest fan! Wondering how to channel your inner #girlboss in bed? Want to fantasize freely without feeling guilty? Maybe, you just need tips to stop self-sabotaging. Whatever your qualms, it’s time to stop pushing these questions to the back of your mind and take a deep b...more

  • Hookups and Breakups

    Jul 21 2017

    Even in the “hookup culture,” the stigma still remains when it comes to casual sex. On today’s show, Emily’s here to reframe the way we think about casual sex– whether you are all for it, hesitant, or it just isn’t your thing. How does one go about initiating casual sex? Are you trying to get your groove back after an STD diagnosis? Trying to cope with your partner's sexual fluidity? Emily gives insight on these not-so-easily-tackled conundrums and more to help you feel empowered and guilt-free,...more

  • Sex Talk with The Naked Mom Brooke Burke-Charvet

    Jul 18 2017

    We’ve all heard the term renaissance man, but what about renaissance woman? On today’s show, Emily is joined by TV personality, model, fitness guru, & creator and host of The Naked Mom podcast Brooke Burke-Charvet, the woman who does it all, to talk about well… how she does it all! Emily and Brooke talk about how important it is to keep sex alive in a marriage, especially if you have kids, and tips to keeping the relationship fresh and exciting! From vacation sex, to getting dolled up for dates,...more

  • The ONLY Thing More Important Than Sex

    Jul 14 2017

    Ever heard that in order to master something, you have to put in ten thousand hours? Sex and relationships are no exception. On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-host Anderson to help coach you through life’s hardest (literally) challenges! Wondering if training for a marathon can pay off on the streets and in the sheets? Want some tips on “duty dating?” Plus, make sure you tune in to see what women value more: great verbal skills or great bedroom skills!

  • The Sex Talk You Never Had

    Jul 13 2017

    Say goodbye to sexual awkwardness and hello to sexual confidence! On today’s show, Emily is joined by SWE team member Jamie to help you break out of your shell and embrace your sexiness no matter what stands in your way (even if it’s yourself!). Want some tips on facing your fear of rejection? Wondering how to have hot sex even if Aunt Flo is in town? Are you ready to find your inner cowgirl and own the rodeo? These are just a few sexual tribulations Emily and Jamie go over, plus they talk about...more

  • Steamy Showers and Orgasmic Powers

    Jul 07 2017

    Everyone has a different definition when it comes to “great sex.” What constitutes it? What makes it kinky, or what keeps it vanilla? The variety of answers go on and on. On today’s show, Emily is helping listeners like you figure out what great sex means to them and how to talk to their partners about it! How do you enhance intimacy with your partner after severe medical issues? Can men train themselves to be multi-orgasmic? What are some tips on navigating your girlfriend’s somewhat jealous de...more

  • Land of the Free, Home of the Sexy

    Jul 04 2017

    When it comes to sex and dating, we all want to be free. Free to choose who to love and how to love them. On today’s show, Emily and Menace are giving you the deets you need to achieve maximum sexual freedom! Do you last too long during sex? How do you get your boyfriend to be more sexually adventurous? What’s the deal with cock rings? Emily and Menace help listeners with these bedroom blunders and more, as well as going over some of Pornhub’s latest trends. Tune in to find out! Thank you for su...more

  • Flirty, Squirty, And Thriving

    Jun 30 2017

    Society places a lot of labels on single people which, if you’re single, can be frustrating. Emily has your back and so does Dr. Nikki Goldstein with her new book, Single But Dating! On today’s show, Emily joins Nikki at her book launch in San Francisco to explore and discuss how you can lead an empowered, healthy, and gratifying dating life! Of course, no show would be complete without answering a few emails! How do you convince your girlfriend to get into anal? What are the best places for fem...more

  • Mastering Sex and Seduction with the LadyGang

    Jun 27 2017

    What’s better than one woman talking about sex? A foursome! On today’s show, Emily is joined by the amazing ladies of the LadyGang podcast, Keltie Knight, Jac Vanek, and Becca Tobin to talk all things sex, dating, and all the points in between! You’ve become a first date master, but how do you get to that second one? How do you get on the same sex wavelength as your partner? Can you get back to a normal sex life after infidelity? Emily and the lovely LadyGang answer these sex and dating perplexi...more

  • Breakups, Bondage, And Bisexuality

    Jun 23 2017

    Sex is a journey–a path to eroticism if you will. On today’s show, Emily acts as your very own compass to keep you on the most pleasurable path possible! Are you looking for some beginner bondage tips? Wondering if your weight gain is affecting your sex life? You had a threesome with your BFF, now you’re falling for her… should you tell your boyfriend? Emily doles out her best advice on these sexual quandaries and more. Plus she discusses why Facebook and texts with the opposite sex might be a d...more

  • Sex with Emily: Casual, Loud and Proud

    Jun 20 2017

    We all have our own idea of how sex and dating should be, but are we assuming too much? On today’s show, Emily is here to give you new perspectives to take your sex and dating life by storm, with a little help from Menace! Are you self-conscious about your curved member? What’s the deal with voyeurism? Swiping right on casual, but can’t seem to find a willing FWB? Emily and Menace share their thoughts on these sexual debacles and more, plus they go over the ten types of noises men make during se...more

  • Dirty Talk, The P-Spot, And Polyamory

    Jun 16 2017

    The world has come a long way in trying to create a sex positive environment, but still has far journey ahead. That’s why Emily’s here for you. On today’s show, she’s giving you tips for all your sexual tribulations, no matter what they are! How do unleash the power of your prostate? Are there rules for role-play rookies? Can you make your sex orgasm as intense as your masturbation orgasm? Emily gives guidance for these sexy situations and more, as well as going over the myriad of polyamorous re...more

  • Blame it on Emily: How NOT to be Boring in Bed

    Jun 13 2017

    Everyone gets bored once in awhile, even when it comes to sex and dating. On today’s show, Emily is helping you use that boredom as a sign to spice things up in and out of the bedroom! How do you get your wife out of her head when she’s in bed? Are “paingasms” a real thing? What do you do when your partner’s fetish completely turns you off? Emily gives her sage advice on these sex and dating dilemmas, and more in hopes that you'll have the best sex of your life! This show is jam-packed with sexy...more

  • Going Down (Under) with Cyndi Darnell

    Jun 09 2017

    Sex and relationships go great together-- there’s no doubt about it. But the two are not interchangeable. In today’s show, Emily’s joined by one of Australia’s leading sex and relationship therapists Cyndi Darnell to talk about how to get both back on track! How do you prep for “Mr. Right” when you enjoy your playful lifestyle? Think you’ve tried it all and you STILL can’t orgasm? You’re brimming from cheater’s regret-- should you come clean? Emily and Cyndi answer these difficult dilemmas, plus...more

  • Unfiltered Sex (Talk) With Brandi Glanville

    Jun 06 2017

    The age old saying is true: you’re only as old as you feel. The same rings true when it comes to your sex life! On today’s show, Emily is joined host of the Unfiltered podcast, mom, and entrepreneur Brandi Glanville, and the two definitely feel young about sex and dating. Is sexting an act of cheating? How do you keep yourself from losing interest too quickly? Should you tell your wife you get off from thinking about her and her well-hung ex? Emily and Brandi help listeners navigate through thes...more

  • Birthdays, Boobs, and Boozy Kisses

    Jun 02 2017

    What’s so special about today? It’s Emily’s birthday! One of her birthday wishes is to get closer to all you listeners out there-- she wants to hear from you! On today’s show, Emily is answering your questions on all things sex because she’s all about helping you have the best sex life you can! Got a case of the boob blues? How do you go about hygiene if you’re uncut? You’ve made out with a woman-- should you tell your husband? Emily helps listeners hash out these issues and more, plus she revea...more

  • Fantasies and Fellatio

    May 30 2017

    No situation is one-sided, and the same is true when it comes to sex. On today’s show, Emily is giving you a different perspective on your sexual predicaments (because the problem may not be what you think). Are you worried that the size of your member is the reason your girlfriend isn’t giving you oral? Should your sexy workplace fantasy remain just that? Are you masturbation obsessed? Emily gives her solutions on these sex issues and more, plus she and Anderson discuss the science behind sexua...more

  • Unblock Your Orgasms #IRL

    May 26 2017

    The hardest part about having issues in the bedroom is asking for help. Never fear, because Emily is here, and her favorite thing in the world is helping people improve their sex lives and relationships. On today’s show, she’s helping callers figure out the best way to get past their coital conundrums and dating dilemmas. Struggling in the orgasm department with your beau? What are some great sex toy recs for a lesbian couple? Should you give your ex another shot? Emily and Anderson help callers...more

  • Turn Ons and Turn Offs with Hannah Cranston

    May 23 2017

    Ahh, millennials; a generation so studied and scrutinized by the generations before them, it’s almost as if they’re another species. But what is it that makes them so interesting? It’s their unique approach to sex and dating. On today’s show, Emily is joined by host and executive producer of YouTube’s Think Tank, Hannah Cranston, who also happens to be a millennial! The two discuss how millennials may be having less sex, but are more experienced and open about the quirks of it all! Are you chic...more

  • Open Minds and Open Marriages with Jason Ellis

    May 19 2017

    As we progress in time, space and science, we’re also making progress in the way we understand sex and relationships. On today’s show, Emily is joined by modern renaissance man and radio show host, Jason Ellis, and the two are talking open relationships, masturbation, threesomes and answering your emails! Jason hosts his own radio show, fights MMA, is a professional skateboarder and he’s currently enjoying an open relationship with his fiance—and the two couldn’t set a better example of open co...more

  • No Shame in the Game: Sex Toys for All

    May 16 2017

    When it comes to sex toys (and masturbation in general), it’s the women who tend to steal the industry’s focus. However, men can also benefit from a little extra stimulation—with a partner or by themselves! On today’s show, Emily is speaking with We-Vibe’s Global Passion Ambassador, Tristan Weedmark, about how their brand is making sure everyone is getting what they need. Oh, and she’s answering your emails, of course! Why use lube during oral if you have saliva? Is dating your hot housemate rea...more

  • Lubrication Communication: SWE Team Tells All

    May 12 2017

    If Emily had her way, there would be a bottle of lube on every night stand all across the world. From flavored, to warming to all-natural ingredients, there’s a lube out there for everyone to enjoy! On today’s show, Emily is joined by her trusty team and an honorary member from System JO, Brie, to talk about all things lube, pubes and so much more! Are your partner’s pubes a deal-breaker? Have you found your g-spot, but are still on the search for your clitoris? How do you get your military man ...more

  • Penises and Porn Star Sex with Joanna Angel

    May 09 2017

    What’s better than a podcast with a sex expert? A podcast with a sex expert AND a porn expert! On today’s show, Emily is joined by porn star and director Joanna Angel, and the two are talking masturbation, anal and so much more! Would a masturbation break make you more productive at work? How do you keep that gosh darn penis from slipping out? What are the first steps for anal play? Emily and Joanna give their sexiest solutions to these coital conundrums and more, plus they discuss masturbation ...more

  • Amateur Anal, Sex Myths and Swinging

    May 05 2017

    We here at Sex With Emily are noticing a trend: you love to talk about threesomes and swinging! We fully support an adventurous sex life, but there are some dos and don’ts to the ins and outs of bringing a stranger into the mix. On today’s show, Emily is joined by show-favorite, Menace, and the two are setting the record straight on all things sex, dating, and masturbation by answering your emails and taking your calls! How do you find a third for your threesome when you live in a small town? Ar...more

  • How to Beat Masturbation Month

    May 02 2017

    Welcome to Emily’s favorite month of the year! She and special guest Menace kick off May, the official Month of Masturbation, by taking your calls and getting to the heart of your issues and giving you a special challenge to make the most of this month’s theme. Tune in for tips for taking you out of your mundane, routine masturbation habits. Also, they talk to a caller who wonders how he can please his self-professed asexual girlfriend and a woman who was surprised by her post-orgasmic tears. Pl...more

  • Swapping, Squirting and Ex Sex

    Apr 28 2017

    Having the courage to ask questions shows that you care about improving your life; whether it’s your love or sex life, you’ve identified something that just isn’t going right, and you want it to be better. On today’s show, Emily is answering all of your quandaries to help give you the knowledge you need for a life full of loving—both in and out of the bedroom. This week, Emily is joined by Menace, and the two discuss proper nude etiquette when it comes to swapping photos with potential swing par...more

  • Are Emojis the New Mating Call?

    Apr 25 2017

    When it comes to sex and dating, it can be hard to tell where you’ve gone wrong. You may think you’re speaking the language of love, but are you speaking the right one? On today’s show, Emily is giving her expert advice on common sex and dating dilemmas to get you headed in the right direction for great sex! Should you be concerned if your boyfriend ISN’T masturbating? How do you give a killer blowjob when your mouth’s too small and he’s too big? When’s the right time to stop the casual dating a...more

  • From Sleepy to Sexy: How to Keep it Hot

    Apr 21 2017

    One thing that sex, love and dating have in common is doubt. We’re all wondering if we’re doing it right, or how we can make it better. On today’s show, Emily is back on the hotline, taking your calls to help you go from confused to confident. Her insight brings sanity to your most complex questions. Are you feeling guilty about your sneaky masturbating habits? How do you change up cowgirl position to make sexy AND comfortable? How do you know you’re ready to get back into dating after a divorc...more

  • Emily and Dr. Drew Discuss: Porn Sex vs. Real Sex

    Apr 18 2017

    Emily and special guest Dr. Drew do what they love doing best: taking listener calls! In this week’s show, Emily and Drew get to the bottom of each caller’s issues, helping them solve their love, sex and relationship worries. The two experts address common condom conundrums (how to stay hard!) and how to meet in the middle when it comes to mismatched libidos. Also, does your guy get his ideas of what sex should be like from watching too much porn and spending too much time masturbating? Are you ...more

  • Come Again? Orgasms, Swallowing and Swiping

    Apr 14 2017

    Dating apps; so many people use them, yet the stigma still remains. The hook-up culture linked to the world of swiping leaves some feeling defeated or desperate, but single people in search of love or company keep coming back! There has to be some success…right? On today’s show, Emily is diving deep into why we bother with online dating, as well as answering some of your most perplexing sex questions! How do you dominate your partner in bed? What can you do when your partner has a fear of semen...more

  • SWE Quickie: Less Faking, More Foreplay

    Apr 13 2017

    Pat yourselves on the backs, lovers; so many of you are kicking your bad habits to the curb and making better choices for a better sex life! On today’s Quickie, Emily shares even more of the Spring Cleaning responses she loved so much, and (drum roll, please!) reveals the contest winner! Who’s adding a Magic Wand to their sex toy collection? Find out! Whether you’re trying to keep stress from ruining your sex life, breaking the bad habit of faking orgasms or you just want to spend more time in b...more

  • Top Tips for Talking Dirty

    Apr 11 2017

    Ahh, soulmates. Wouldn’t it be nice if finding “the one” was as magical as rom-coms and fairy tales make it out to be? Although Cinderella and Prince Charming supposedly lived happily ever after, their sex life was probably one thing they had to work on like any normal couple—without the help of Cinderella’s fairy godmother. On today’s show, Emily is acting as your own personal fairy godmother with tips and tricks to help your sexual relationships grow stronger and sexier, whatever your situati...more

  • How to Go From "Eh" to Amazing in Bed

    Apr 07 2017

    Sex and dating is complicated. From exes, to dating to orgasms, it can be a lot to process. On today’s show, Emily is answering your questions about everything in the love department to show you how you can simplify the dating game, so you always come out a winner! Also, what really makes a guy a great lover? How do you get your brain aboard the sex train? What tactics can you use to hook a hottie at the gym? Emily gives you her tried and true advice on these sex and dating queries, plus yet ano...more

  • SWE Quickie: Breaking Bad Sex Habits

    Apr 06 2017

    Life is busy and there never seems to be enough hours in the day to accomplish everything we need. It’s a miracle we ever find time for love and sex. That’s why we’re bringing back the Sex With Emily Quickie-- a shorter show that’s—trust me—just as fulfilling. The SWE inbox was flooded with many loyal listeners trying to kick their bad sex and dating habits. On today’s Quickie, Emily is reading her favorite responses to our Spring Cleaning contest and giving her thoughts. From getting rid of th...more

  • Bad Boys, Sex Toys & Why We Love Them

    Apr 04 2017

    Think your sex life is already like a fairy tale? Guess what: it can get even better! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Madison and Jamie to talk about ways to elevate your super sex life to even higher levels! Great sex can always be greater, and we here at Sex With Emily want yours to be the greatest. How can sex toys help raise the bar in your bedroom? How can you tell if your partner is faking her orgasms? Are you looking for female-friendly porn that isn’t so vanilla? Emily, Madison, and...more

  • Beards, Blindfolds & Finger Vibes: What Women Really Want

    Mar 31 2017

    It’s safe to say that spring has officially sprung. The sun is shining, and the flowers are blooming. It seems only fitting to bring some of that freshness into the bedroom! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Madison and Jamie to talk about all the new sex toys, tricks, and tips that have been the buzz of the SWE office! Are you curious about what really turns women on—according to science? Wondering whether to stay in your relationship or live it up in your 20s? Emily, Madison, and Jamie discu...more

  • Best Of: Real Women Talk Anal Sex

    Mar 28 2017

    Think all women hate anal sex? Think again! In this Best Of podcast, Emily is joined by LadyFreaks Jennifer Bartels and Grace Parra, SWE alumni Laurie, and her good friend Kim to talk all things sex: from ball handling to sex toys to pubic grooming—and, of course, the nitty gritty of anal play. Want to know how women REALLY feel about it? They’ve got your answer… And then some! Have you ever wanted to knock on your guy’s backdoor? Emily offers tips and tricks for introducing the idea of prostate...more

  • Fantasies, Porn, and Sex With the Ex

    Mar 24 2017

    Today’s show is all about YOU.. Because seriously, you’re awesome. Are you ready to start exploring your fantasies? Wondering how to help your partner warm up to porn? And is it actually possible to have no-strings-attached sex with an ex? Emily helps callers get to the bottom of their love and sex dilemmas, and also shares “new” findings that could help crack the code on the female orgasm. Here’s a hint: Just go down on her already! There’s more to a fulfilling sex life than just pleasing your ...more

  • Let's Talk About Sex, Maybe?

    Mar 21 2017

    It doesn’t matter how old you are or how long you’ve been with a partner — Talking about sex is hard. But hey, that’s why you’ve got Emily! In today’s show, she’s helping callers find the right words to say to communicate their way through sex and relationship troubles. What do you do if your boyfriend isn’t keen on cunnilingus? How do you get a partner to change their mindset when it comes to sex? What’s the best way to keep things hot in the bedroom when you’ve got kids living at home? Communi...more

  • Less Stress, More Sex!

    Mar 17 2017

    Low sex drive: we never think it will happen to us. But even the most sexual of beings can suffer to the loss of a once-lively libido. On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and giving personalized advice to help you get your mojo back. Are you a Nervous Norman when it comes to talking with women? Is moving back in with your mom keeping you from getting your groove on? How do you keep the sex sizzling when stress starts to take over? Emily helps callers navigate through these dilemmas towar...more

  • Steak, Blowjobs & Anal Explorations

    Mar 14 2017

    On today’s podcast, Emily tackles some of those love and sex questions that are hard to ask and don’t always come with an easy answer. Should you pursue Round 2 with an ex-one night stand? Are you sick and tired of pulling out? What’s the best way to bring up backdoor play with a hesitant partner? Emily and Anderson offer good news for some, reality checks for others and plenty of sage advice to help listeners in their sexual time of need. Also discussed: the best sex positions for expectant mot...more

  • For Penis Sake!

    Mar 10 2017

    We tend to think of cunnilingus as one of the more difficult-to-master sex acts, but penises come with their own package of perplexities. On today’s show, Emily gets deep into the delicate art of fellatio, sharing tricks to help you deliver a bang-up BJ every time… And that’s just the tip!   Would you rather have a partner that makes you laugh or one that makes you moan? How do you get your partner to initiate once in awhile? Is your favorite vibrator holding you back from enjoying oral sex? Emi...more

  • On a Masturbation Mission

    Mar 07 2017

    We all know that Emily’s mission in life is to get everyone on the masturbation appreciation track, and today’s podcast is no different! Emily shares her best advice to help YOU spread the word about self-love—among other things! What’s the easiest way jump back into the dating scene after a really bad break up? How do you get a timid lover to make a move already? Could your partner’s masturbatory habits make it hard for him to climax other ways? Emily and Anderson offer guidance on these love a...more

  • Cowgirls, Take It Away: How to Rock On Top

    Mar 03 2017

    Behind every “common” sex question, there are hundreds of other people who are looking for the exact same answer! In today’s podcast, Emily provides insight to help all the lovers out tackle some of those sex and relationship issues we’ve all dealt with… Is your rebound coming on stronger than your morning coffee? How do you up your confidence in the woman-on-top position? What’s the best way to keep the sex hot when you’re wearing a condom? Emily and Menace tackle these bedroom debacles, share ...more

  • How to Be a Master-Dater with Zara Barrie

    Feb 28 2017

    Dating: How do any of us do it? And more importantly, how do we do it right? On today’s show Emily is joined by writer, talk-show host, and overall badass Zara Barrie to unpack the hot topic of dating in the digital age — the good, the bad, and what it means for us as we try to find our match. Are you experiencing dating burnout? Not sure how to initiate casual sex? How do you find the silver lining from your break up? Emily and Zara discuss tips to help you get out of your dating funk, meet the...more

  • Out of Your Head, Better in Bed

    Feb 24 2017

    When it comes to sex and dating, sometimes the greatest thing that’s holding us back… is us. On today’s show, Emily is taking your calls and helping you get you out of your heads and into your beds—with tips of course! Have you been having trouble climaxing with a partner? Wondering how to find people to play with, now that you’ve reached your sexual peak? What’s the secret to balancing a family life with a hot sex life? Emily talks callers through their bedroom dilemmas, and provides a few “Do’...more

  • Breast Obsessed: Moves to Make Her Moan

    Feb 21 2017

    Breasts: They’re beautiful, mesmerizing, and come in all kinds of wonderful shapes and sizes. Although it seems like men are obsessed with them, you’d be surprised how many completely ignore their existence when it comes to getting it on. On today’s show, Emily is doling out some hot boob tips and facts to make sure they’re never forgotten again, along with giving her insight on some of your most titillating sex and relationship inquiries! Wondering how to make HIS orgasms more explosive? How do...more

  • Orgasmless in the City

    Feb 17 2017

    So you’re ready to take your sex and dating life to the next level, but need a little help taking that first step? On today’s show, Emily is taking your live calls, dropping the sagest sex and love knowledge to get you headed in the right direction… Should you give your ever-present ex a second chance at love? How can you kick up your Skype-sex game? Need tips to take your orgasms from nonexistent to outrageous? Emily helps callers work through these salient love and sex concerns, and even dishe...more

  • Who's Your Daddy?

    Feb 14 2017

    Happy Valentine’s Day, lovers! Whether you’re single or coupled up, today’s show is here to help you feel the love (& other sensations) this February 14th. Emily is joined by Jamie and Madison to help you get through your sex and dating hang-ups. The team tackles your emails regarding female masturbation habits, guidelines for ghosting and how to experiment with divisive dirty talk—do most guys like to be called daddy? They also share their favorites from your “Best Valentine’s Day Ever” stories...more

  • Dirty Married Sex & One-Night Bangs

    Feb 10 2017

    Sometimes we all need to get a little bit dirty. On today’s show, Emily and Anderson are tackling your hottest sex and dating questions—emphasis on hot. Freaky sex is at the forefront of conversation with email topics including analingus etiquette, dirty married sex, biting in the bedroom and so much more. Emily and Anderson also discuss a study about one-night stands and share their respective perspectives on these ultra-casual one-time trysts. So whether you’re looking to heat up things with y...more

  • Office Affairs and Oral Sex Sidekicks

    Feb 07 2017

    On this show, Emily is tackling your emails and voicemails, providing you with the advice you need to step up your sex and dating game—just in the nick of time for V-day. It it wise to take your office flirtation to the next level? Are you worried about the aftermath of your new anal fixation? And what’s the “right” way to date casually? Emily and Menace take you through a range of love and sex topics, and also answer the much pondered question: What does she REALLY want from you on February 14t...more

  • Hot V-Day Tips & Orgasmic Gifts

    Feb 03 2017

    Need a little help getting into the Valentine’s Day spirit? On this show, Emily and Anderson break down the polarizing holiday, analyzing the reasons some of us hate it and sharing ways to help us all love it a little more. Are you looking for ways to make this V-Day your own? Emily shares hot tips and orgasmic gifts that’ll make your lover swoon. Flying solo? No problem! She’s got tips to help you show yourself some love on the day of love! Also, what do you do when your sexy gift falls flat wi...more

  • 18 Minutes to Better Sex

    Jan 31 2017

    Getting what you want in the bedroom isn’t always as easy as we’d like it to be. Luckily, on today’s show Emily and Menace are dishing out communication tips to help tip the sex life scales in your favor. How much foreplay is the perfect amount? Why won’t your partner choke you? Is there a “right” way to give directions in bed? These questions are just the tip of the advice-berg on this information-packed podcast. So whether you’re struggling sex-wise or you’re just missing Menace, tune in!

  • Will Work For Orgasms: An SWE Team Show

    Jan 27 2017

    We’re almost a full month into the new year—how are your resolutions coming along? On this show, Emily is joined by her trusty team who share their love and sex resolutions for 2017, recap lessons learned from last year and possibly even set up Emily with a hot new date! Ever wondered what the SWE Team is like in their own sex and dating worlds? Madison, Jamie, and Eddie share their favorite sex tips, tricks and toys from the past year—some of which you’ll be dying to try—and open up about how t...more

  • Porn, Poly-tics & Curvy Girl Sex

    Jan 24 2017

    On today’s show Emily is joined by guest co-host, sex educator, and soon-to-be published author, Elle Chase. Together they navigate the tricky tides of body acceptance, the power of porn and so much more! Elle shares her expertise on how to make sex sensational for women with curves, her experience wading the waters of polyamory and her best tips for amping up your bedroom routine. Then she and Emily tackle your emails! Topics include how to deal with disparate sex drives and the politics of “do...more

  • Trouble in Paradise: Infidelity, ED, and Porn Insecurities

    Jan 20 2017

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by her beloved friend and VP of Chick Flick Productions, KEN! The dynamic duo recap some highlights of the last couple months, then team up to tackle your emails! Are you suspicious your partner may be cheating? Insecure about sharing your porn preferences with a partner? Maybe you’re wondering when’s the right time to have the “what are we” conversation? These are just a few of the concerns addressed on today’s show. Also, Ken and Emily review results from our e...more

  • Orgasms, Squirting and The Year of Anal Licking

    Jan 17 2017

    On today’s show Emily is joined by sex educators and toy aficionados April Lampert and Amy Baldwin to talk all things sex. Together, the ladies cover a range of topics, from sexual awakenings to oral sex abroad to the curious rise in anal licking. The three trade hot stories, insights and candid experiences to shed some light on the lives of sexperts. Amy and April also assist in answering your emails: Should you disclose past infidelities to a new date? And when it comes to condoms and casual s...more

  • How to Learn From Past Lovers

    Jan 13 2017

    We all learn lessons from our sexual pasts, but how do you know what tips to take and what to  leave behind? On this show, Emily is taking your calls and doling out advice to help you overcome lingering sex insecurities for a hotter new year. Are your penis size hang ups holding you back in the bedroom? Did a negative review leave you doubting your smooching skills? And what do you do when your married sex life has hit a 9 year drought? Emily answers all these questions and more, and even gives ...more

  • Good Clean Sex: Before, During and Afterplay

    Jan 10 2017

    On today’s show, Emily and Anderson answer some of your top sex concerns, trade blast from the past stories, and talk about one of this year’s most exciting products! But first, the pair discuss the topic of afterplay—is it one of the most underrated parts of sex or just an afterthought? Then Emily takes a call from Carrie Martz, creator of the sex-toy-sanitizing Uvee, to get the skinny on how she came up with such an innovative device. And of course, last but not least, Emily and Anderson answe...more

  • Out With the Old, In With the O's

    Jan 06 2017

    Ready for a fresh start in 2017? In this show, Emily and Anderson are here to help you step up your game and set your own rules, both in the bedroom and in the dating world. The two dissect the phenomena of “Sexual Black Friday” and discuss why NOW is the best time for new singles to start swiping online. They also answer your emails, from BJ’s to G-spots to the right way to date more than one person at a time. If you’re looking for ways to make 2017 your year for better sex and romance, this po...more

  • Threeways, Butt Play and Q&A: Live From Brooklyn

    Jan 03 2017

    Happy New Year! In keeping with Emily’s resolution to meet more of her listeners, this special show takes us back to last year’s Sexual Health Expo… Where she did just that! This live Q&A session from SHE in Brooklyn is packed with advice that is not only educational, but entertaining! Are you struggling with anal exploration? Questioning your partner’s sexuality? Having trouble getting over the one that got away? Emily answers all these questions and more on this live/throwback mashup show!

  • Bad Boys, Bondage, and Afternoon Delight

    Dec 30 2016

    The year is coming to a close, but the sex talk is still going stronger than ever! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Producer Madison to share some spicy sex tidbits and help you through your bedroom and dating conundrums. Is your stalling sex life in need of a jumpstart? Are you wondering how to break out the handcuffs in the bedroom? Maybe you’re unsure on how to change up your “bad boy” dating routine when you’ve finally found Mr. Nice Guy. Whatever your qualm, Emily has the advice to get y...more

  • Best Of: For the Love of Oral

    Dec 27 2016

    Oral sex. Everyone loves getting it, but how good are you at giving it? Do you know how to eat from her honey pot? Do you give homerun head? Whether you’re a man or a woman, an expert or a novice, everyone could get better at going down, and in this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily is here to help! She tackles your most pressing sex questions, from oral sex insecurities to tips for sensitive gag reflexes to A to V etiquette, and gives her #1 oral sex tip for both men and women. This show is yo...more

  • Sex Noises, Swipe Apps, and Bisexuality

    Dec 24 2016

    To online date or not to online date? For the select few of you that have been living under a rock for the past decade, that is the question. On this show, Emily puts the dating app taboo to bed, giving you a few pointers to help you get lucky online, and updating us on her own cyber-romance encounters. Then she’s on the hotline taking your calls! Wondering how to be more vocal in bed? Need help navigating the waters of bisexuality with a new FWB? And what’s the secret to being more approachable...more

  • The Modern Man's Guide to Mismatched Libidos

    Dec 20 2016

    We talk A LOT about issues surrounding the female sex drive, but we rarely discuss what it’s like for the person in the passenger seat. On today’s show, we’re unpacking this topic of low libido from a different angle and we’ve got Dr. Ian Kerner on the line to help provide a little insight. What happens when you’re on the other side of a mismatched libido? How can men help their partners to spark that desire? Ian shares his expertise on all things arousal, intimacy and female pleasure, and revea...more

  • Emily's Life in the Single Lane and Your Calls

    Dec 16 2016

    On today’s show, Emily is back on the hotline, taking your calls and answering your biggest sex questions. Are you worried that your carefree casual sex lifestyle will make it harder to find love down the road? Looking for tips to provide feedback for an insecure partner? And how do you know when it’s time to call it quits on a toxic relationship? Fear not, Emily addresses all these issues with live callers, opens up about developments in her own personal love life, and even shares a few lessons...more

  • From Mouth Parties to Bedroom Parties with Kandi Burruss

    Dec 13 2016

    In today’s show, Emily is joined by Kandi Burruss, Real Housewives of Atlanta favorite and creator of the sexy Bedroom Kandi line. Together they share their hottest sex product picks, trade tantalizing bedroom tricks and get candid about giving (and getting) the best oral sex. Kandi also assists Emily in answering your emails on sex-toy shy partners, getting your lover to take the reins in bed, and finding your sexual confidence after a long break from dating. If you love sex toys, sex tips and ...more

  • Hot Sex (Every Time of the Month)

    Dec 09 2016

    The holidays have arrived and on this show, Emily answers your most pressing questions to ease your mind and make this season a sexy one. Do you have a habit of ditching a relationship once the honeymoon phase wears off? Been toying with the idea of non-monogamy? Could your domestic laziness be the reason a partner decides to stray? Emily and Anderson are answering all these questions plus giving tips on how to make period sex hot! (believe it or not). Don’t miss it!

  • What Penises REALLY Want

    Dec 06 2016

    2016 is coming to a close, so it’s time to talk about the state of your sex life. What’s holding you back from having the sex and relationships you crave? On today’s show, we share advice to help you face those blocks head on. What do you do when your partner’s oral sex technique is a little too… Intense? How do you recover from a toxic relationship without falling into the same hole? And is there really a correlation between weight and penis size? Emily and Menace tackle these problems and more...more

  • Cyber Sex, Latin Lovers, and Happy Endings

    Dec 02 2016

    With the end of the year fast approaching, I think we could all use a little boost in our sex lives, whether it be your confidence, your health, or your level of kink! Are you wondering how to take your Skype sex to an even hotter level? Does an STI mean the death of your dating life? And what are the rules for rocking a first date with a woman… When you’ve already got a man waiting at home? On today’s show, Emily and Anderson tackle these common, but often difficult sex and dating situations, p...more

  • No Shame in Your Fantasy Game

    Nov 29 2016

    On today’s show, Emily and Menace are answering your questions on masturbation, porn preferences, cunnilingus and more, all with one goal in mind: to help point you toward sex and relationship satisfaction. Whether it’s your ex, a sexy stranger or gay porn, Emily and Menace discuss why your turn-on’s are nothing to be ashamed of. Also, answers to your emails. Has your self-love routine lost it’s luster? Wondering how to approach penis problems in the bedroom? And how can you get a partner to war...more

  • Best Of: Adventurous Sex You Can Have Tonight

    Nov 25 2016

    Today’s throwback podcast from 2015 answers the question on every couples’ minds: How can we spice up our sex life? With the help of Anderson and Producer Madison, Emily provides easy-to-use tips to help you get adventurous in bed and try new things with your partner, from switching up sex locations to swapping sexy bucket lists and the lost art of phone sex. Emily breaks down those little ways to keep things spicy, long after that new relationship smell wears off. So if you missed it the first ...more

  • How to Get the Foreplay You Crave

    Nov 22 2016

    A wise man once said that expectations hinder experience, and that’s certainly true when it comes to things between the sheets. On today’s show Emily and Menace are answering your emails AND voicemails, providing advice and, occasionally, a much-needed reality check. Is your partner falling short in the foreplay department? What’s the best way to get yourself (or a lover) into the mood? And how important are common interests in a lasting relationship? Emily tackles these topics, talks a listener...more

  • Self-Fulfilling Sex Prophecies

    Nov 18 2016

    Sometimes the source of our greatest sexual fears actually comes (or doesn’t) from our harshest critics… Ourselves. On today’s show, Emily coaches a few listeners out of their heads and into their beds, one email at a time! She and Anderson also discuss the secret to living past 100— it might be sexier than you think!   Whether you’ve got issues getting (& keeping) it up, need a little help going down, or can’t get your partner to initiate sex, you’ll find the answers you’re looking for in this ...more

  • Married Sex, But Better with Pam Costa

    Nov 15 2016

    As anyone in a long term relationship will tell you, maintaining an active, steamy sex life isn’t the easiest of tasks. After a while, you have to work to keep it hot. Luckily today’s podcast tells you how to do just that… In this show, Emily is joined by sex and relationship coach Pam Costa. Together they talk through Pam’s fascinating journey to sexual awakening, discovering her desire and reinvigorating her marriage. Pam and her husband Paul share their most intimate moments, a few fiery fant...more

  • Caution: Sexy When Wet

    Nov 11 2016

    On today’s show, Emily’s answering your emails, addressing some of your most pressing sex and relationship questions. Do your partner’s fantasies have you feeling less than confident in the bedroom? When’s the best time to tell a new lover that you’re a squirter? And what do you do when SHE comes too quickly? Emily and Anderson answer your emails, discuss the dilemma of dating with kids and even debate some of Redditor’s top sex tips. Plus, how many college students are actually hot for teacher?...more

  • Make Your Libido Great Again

    Nov 08 2016

    Sexual desire: it isn’t the simplest code to crack, nor the easiest engine to rev. But if there were a way to make it a mainstay in the bedroom, it would surely have our vote! On today’s show, Emily is tackling the common problem of decreased sexual desire with the help of Dr. Leah Millheiser, OBGYN and Chief Scientific Officer for the makers of the groundbreaking female arouser, Fiera. Together they discuss the causes and effects of low libido in women and share what you can do to get your groo...more

  • Flashback Friday: Love, Marriage, and Spontaneous BJ's with Lynette Carolla

    Nov 04 2016

    When it comes to married sex versus single sex, is the grass really greener on the single side? In this throwback show from March 2015, Emily welcomes friend and fellow podcaster (not to mention wife and mother of two) Lynette Carolla. She and Emily share their candid opinions on sex, marriage and single-person envy. Plus, after 20 years with the same man, Lynette knows a little something about keeping the sex hot, and is ready to share her wisdom.   Whether you’re single, married or stuck somew...more

  • Sex With Two Angels (and Emily)

    Nov 01 2016

    Grab your halos, ladies and gents! On today’s show, Emily and co-host Joanna Angel are joined by porn pioneer and trans activist Buck Angel, and things are about to get wild! Buck opens up about his incredible journey as a “man with a pussy,” from finding his early Girl Scout encounters to breaking the mold with trans male porn, to learning to love his vagina! The gang talks penis envy, sexual empowerment and Buck’s new groundbreaking sex toy, before tackling some of your top sex and relationshi...more

  • Squirtsville or Splitsville: Population YOU

    Oct 28 2016

    On today’s show, we’re on the Sex with Emily hotline, taking your calls and answering your sex questions live! Want to step up your squirting game? Curious about exploring the swinger lifestyle? Wondering if it’s time to end a lackluster marriage? Maybe you’re just dying to know what Anderson’s favorite part of his newfound fatherhood is! Find the answers to these questions and more on today’s live call-in show. So listen close, you won’t want to miss a beat.

  • Stripper Pole Tricks & Oral Sex Tips

    Oct 25 2016

    On today’s show, Emily is joined by guest co-host Joanna Angel and they’re tackling all your sex, love and relationship questions! Are you and your lover not on the same page when it comes to full-time monogamy? Feeling frustrated by your inability to orgasm with a partner? Perhaps you’re just hoping to pick up some tips for spectacular cunnilingus? Emily and Joanna have all the answers you need to put your sex concerns to bed (pun intended), plus advice on hot topics like threesomes, pole-danci...more

  • Fantasies, Toys, and Drunk Sex Tales: The SWE Team Tells All

    Oct 21 2016

    On this show, Emily is joined by her trusty team to talk sex toys, Tinder and what it’s really like to work in the Sex With Emily office. In between talk of foot fetishes and fantasies, Madison, Jamie and Eddie give you the skinny on their roles at Sex With Emily, how their parents feel about their risque jobs, and most importantly, what they’ve learned about themselves and sex. The team also reviews some of the most exciting new sex products on the market today.   So if you’ve ever wondered wha...more

  • Manatoriums, Moaning & First Message Mastery

    Oct 18 2016

    Brace yourselves, listeners, it’s the moment you’ve all been waiting for.  On this show Emily is taking your calls LIVE and answering your top sex and dating questions. What’s the right length of time to wait before having sex? Is there a formula for crafting the perfect online dating message? How do you know if it’s time to take a “manitorium?” And what is a manitorium anyway? Worry not, Emily and Anderson have the answers to these questions, plus so many more on this advice-packed podcast. Whe...more

  • Bondage, "Bang Checks," and Shaggin' Wagons

    Oct 14 2016

    Dating and communicating can be tricky to master. Should you divulge your sexual history? How do you tell someone you’re non-monogamous? What’s the best way to get over your partner’s specific porn preferences? In this show, Emily and Anderson have the advice you need for these and many more of your love and sex quandaries. The two also take a stroll down memory lane, get real about the best and worst parts of car sex and hear from a listener who shares the story of his “bang check” success. So ...more

  • How to LOVE the Penis

    Oct 11 2016

    On today’s show Emily is joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, makers of Promescent. Together, Emily and Jeff traverse a wide range of male issues, mostly revolving around, you guessed it: the penis! Chances are, if you have a penis, you’ve had some sort of insecurity surrounding it. Whether it be size, stamina or something in between, Emily and Jeff team up to help you tackle those phallus-related anxieties and answer emails on your most pesky penis problems. No matter what...more

  • Up Close & "Cliterate"

    Oct 07 2016

    On this show, Emily and Menace are reunited, to tackle a wide array of your sex and relationship quandaries. How do you know when it’s time to commit? What’s the best way to get your partner to step up their foreplay game? What do you do if you’re just not a natural born cuddler? These are just a few of the questions Emily and Menace address on their quest to help you have better sex. Also discussed, the importance of “date nights” and increasing your level of “cliteracy.” So whether you’re hitt...more

  • Cracking the Code on Female Sexuality with Dr. Drew

    Oct 04 2016

    On this show, Emily is joined by friend and colleague Dr. Drew Pinsky. Together, Emily and Drew work to crack the code of female sexuality and help listeners navigate complicated concepts around sex, love and true happiness. What kinds of questions should we be asking about our sexuality? How does a woman’s pleasure differ from a man’s? Is there an easy way to quell sexual insecurities? These are just a few of the hard-hitting questions Emily and Drew delve into. They also answer a wide range of...more

  • Live From SHE: Compliments, Confidence & Better BJ's For All

    Sep 30 2016

    Today’s show comes at you live from the Sexual Health Expo in New York City. Emily is joined by two special guests who help her deliver words of wisdom and lustful lessons to her live audience and you! Emily kicks off the show by breaking down the definition of “sexual health”, debunking societal myths and sexual norms. She then welcomes fellow SHE presenters Brandon B. and Tina Horn to the show to share their respective expertise on how to give the best full-body blowjob and sext like an expert...more

  • Dating Dilemmas: Is It Them or Is It You?

    Sep 27 2016

    Today’s show is all about getting back into the driver’s seat of your sex life! Are you worried you’re doomed to a G-spotless bedroom existence? Are your impossibly high dating standards holding you back from meeting Ms. Right? Does “eye for an eye” really apply when it comes to marital infidelity? Emily and Anderson share sage advice to help steer you towards sex and relationship bliss, and uncover which careers are more likely to land you a Tinder date. If you’ve wandered off the desired sexua...more

  • No Porn, No Problem: How to Think Yourself Off

    Sep 23 2016

    Are you struggling to sustain your solo sex life without your favorite visual aids? Looking for tips to help boost your lover’s sexual skills? How do you keep the “casual” in your casual sex relationship? In this podcast, Emily and Anderson give advice on an assortment of intimate inquiries and reveal which social networking site might be a gateway for infidelity—especially for women. Learn how to maintain your independence in the most intense relationships, ignite your erotic imagination and “f...more

  • Best Of: Forbidden Sex and Frisky Texts with Jake and Amir

    Sep 20 2016

    On this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily and Menace are joined by comedian BFF’s, Jake and Amir. They provide different male perspectives on a variety of topics, from sex toys to stamina to sexting like a pro, and even assist Emily in answering some listener emails. Emily and her male roundtable help a listener draw the line between dirty and degrading bedroom conversation, and give a lesson in sex toy etiquette to a single man with multiple partners. They even delve into the complicated ideas...more

  • How To Go From Casual To Committed

    Sep 16 2016

    When the mood strikes, it can be tempting to get down and dirty just about anywhere, but not so fast! In today’s show, Emily and Menace reveal why you might want to think twice about where you want to get frisky, and address some of your transitional trepidations. Is your romantic trip with your long distance lover being hijacked by her friends? How do you go from casual sex to a committed relationship? Do you feel like you’re second-rate compared to your partner’s pornstar ex? Emily and Menace ...more

  • Swinging, Strap-On's & the "New Squirting" with Sportsheets

    Sep 13 2016

    From a velcro wall to your bedroom, it’s no secret that Sportsheets has taken the sex world by storm. In today’s show, Emily and Menace are joined by CEO and founder of Sportsheets, Tom Stewart. With Tom as their guide, they unpack the evolution of the revolutionary bondage brand, in addition to providing you with you ample advice to satisfy all your carnal curiosities! Is monogamy slowly becoming a thing of the past? Are you begging for a pegging, but aren’t sure how pull it off? How do you cha...more

  • Shaming, Blaming & Somatic Sex Training

    Sep 09 2016

    Ever wonder how the experts improve their own sex lives? In today’s show, Emily and Menace check in with Emily’s Somatica coaches Celeste & Danielle to reflect on her experiences with somatic sex therapy so far. Then it’s on to your emails!   How do you keep yourself from getting stuck in the friend zone with a new crush? What’s the best way to share your STI status with a new partner? What do you do when the source of your relationship insecurities also happens to be a good friend? Emily and Me...more

  • Sex Obsessed: The Biggest Myth We’re Not Buying

    Sep 06 2016

    Does having a high sex drive equal sex obsessed? In today’s show, Emily and Anderson are busting through one of the biggest sex myths of our time—in addition to addressing your sexual confidence conundrums, of course!   Are you worried that your high libido may scare off your new beau? What do you do when you’re cohabitating AND uncoupling at the same time? Is your inexperience giving you a false start in the bedroom? Emily and Anderson answer these bedroom insecurities and more—plus, tell you t...more

  • Unconditionally Sexy with Elle Chase

    Sep 02 2016

    It’s September, and instead of going “Back to School,” we’re taking it Back to Sexual Confidence! Emily and Anderson are joined by sex educator, author and body confidence pundit Elle Chase to kick off this month of self love and acceptance. Together, they tackle your most troubling anxieties, tear down your insecurities and help you find your “inner sexy.” What are the best sex positions for curvier figures? Are you worried about the length of your labia? Where do you start when you’re rediscov...more

  • Face-Sitting, Fetishes & Foreplay Foibles With Joanna Angel

    Aug 30 2016

    We’re ending Anal Sex Month with a bang and revving you up for Back to Sexual Confidence Month! In today’s show, Emily is joined by punk rock porn darling Joanna Angel to give you tips on a plethora of sex and relationship predicaments.   Is your partner’s delayed ejaculation giving you lock jaw? How do you get your lover to comfortably climb on (your face)? What do you do when your vanilla partner keeps your inner freak from shining? Emily and Joanna answer these sexual inquiries and more, plus...more

  • Virgins, Cuckolds, and Unicorns

    Aug 26 2016

    Do men and women share the same fantasy when it comes to threesomes? According to science, definitely not. But that doesn’t mean they’re ruling them out… In this show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco friend Stacy to traverse a range of love and sex topics. Are you perplexed by your lack of success in the dating world? Is your inexperience causing your lover to enjoy sex less? The triad lends their honest advice on all this and more, and Emily gets real about her recent transition...more

  • Craiglist Crushes, Hand Jobs & Morning Wood(y)

    Aug 23 2016

    In today’s show, Emily and Menace are joined by surprise guest Woody from the Woody Show! Together, the three tackle a range of sex and dating topics that are definitely NSFR: Not Safe For Radio. Are you wondering how to turn your craigslist encounter into something more? Do you find yourself running out of steam mid-bj? How do you stop your relationship insecurities from becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy? Whatever your current struggle or strife, this show offers a variety of avenues to help ...more

  • Modern Dating & Menage a Trois Mix-Ups

    Aug 19 2016

    Are you struggling to navigate the minefield that is modern dating? Does the idea of true intimacy fill you with dread? If so, you’re not alone. Today’s show teaches you how to face those fears head on, whether you’re single and ready to mingle, or starting to settle down. Are you caught between commitment and playing the field? What are the rules when it comes to dating a best friend’s past lover? What’s the best way to close the door on an open relationship? Emily and Menace respond to these d...more

  • Sexual Selection: How to Pick a Better Partner

    Aug 16 2016

    Do you ever feel like you’re just not getting what you need, from your lovers to lubes to your masturbation routine? In today’s show, Emily gives you the tips you need to vamp up all of your sexual selections! Has a string of unavailable men led you to question your dating type? How do you get back into your masturbation mindset when it seems you’ve lost your way? And how do you revive your lukewarm relationship after a recent infidelity? Emily and Menace share their thoughts on these debacles a...more

  • Penises, Pineapples & Sex Life Revival

    Aug 12 2016

    We’ve been talking about it for months and it’s finally here. In today’s show, Emily and Menace are answering not only your emails, but your voicemails too! Are you perplexed by your partner’s refusal to reciprocate oral sex? Could your lack of sexual experience be considered a dating dealbreaker? How do you up the kink factor when your longtime lover is strictly vanilla? Emily and Menace help listeners navigate these predicaments with a mix of communication, literature & sexual confidence. They...more

  • Elevated Anal with Dr. Hernando Chaves

    Aug 09 2016

    Anal sex month is officially upon us! In this show, Emily is joined by sex therapist and backdoor enthusiast Dr. Hernando Chaves to help you navigate the waters of anal exploration! Emily and Hernando bust myths and quell fears surrounding the taboo sex act, discuss the best pre-anal preparation tactics and teach you exactly how to get the most pleasure possible out of your rear-end romp! Then, the two address your anal inquiries, with topics including pegging, polyamory, and pre-anal panic. Whe...more

  • Tinder Blunders & Threesome Dilemmas

    Aug 05 2016

    Relationships can be tough, especially when your most dire dilemmas are bedroom related. Luckily, in today’s show Emily gives you the tips to keep your love and sex life alive and well! Sick of always being the initiator? Want your partner to take the sexual reigns? What if your partner says “no-no” to a trip to the go-go bar? Will a threesome really reignite your passion? Emily and Menace tackle these tough debacles, and even give you an inside look at Emily’s Tinder messages. Whether you’re h...more

  • Taboo Sex Questions (You’re Too Shy to Ask)

    Aug 02 2016

    Some sex questions are harder to ask than others, but have no fear! In today’s show, Emily tackles a few of your most taboo sex questions and provides judgement-free guidance to quell your concerns. Is swinging really the best way to get out of a relationship funk? Should you take a step back from your grieving online match? What do you do when your partner cites a vaginal odor as the reason for not going down? Emily and Anderson debate the best way to work through these issues and examine a stu...more

  • Hot Bondage, Hygiene Hacks & Open Relationships

    Jul 29 2016

    Today’s show is packed with advice for singles, couples & self-lovers alike! Whether you need help forming a strategy for dating online, guidelines for your kegel workouts or some sweet sex toy recs, Emily’s got the answers you’re looking for. Emily and Menace discuss how drinking too much soda may be ruining your junk and answer your emails! How much is too much when it comes to Kegels? How do you get your partner on board with your masturbation needs? The two debate online dating dilemmas and ...more

  • Orgasms, Ghosting & Condom Confusion

    Jul 26 2016

    Today’s show is packed with tips to help you solve a range of communication conundrums, from broaching the topic of new toys to concerns with STIs to unease surrounding your partner’s orgasmic abilities.     Finding it difficult to keep up with the hot new digital dating lingo? Emily and Menace go over a glossary of trending sex and dating terms, from ghosting to benching to haunting—Oh my! Then it’s right into your emails about how to get past your partner’s sexual history, confusion surroundin...more

  • Hot, Wet Summer Sex

    Jul 22 2016

    Why waste the hottest season having sex at home? Today’s show is packed with tips to help take your summer lovin’ to the next level! Emily and Anderson discuss the latest digital dating trend. Who knew that the outrageously popular Pokemon GO app could actually help you catch a date? Next, Emily proposes three ways to spice things up during these sizzling summer months, and answers your emails on post-sex cleanup and how much is too much when it comes to dirty talk. From erotic ejaculation to su...more

  • Intimacy Issues & Porn Pitfalls

    Jul 19 2016

    On today’s show, Emily and Menace are here to help you through some of your most difficult sex and dating quandaries. What do you do when you’ve found a great partner, but lost your orgasm in the process? How do you get the sex talk started with a shy lover? And what steps do you take to regain trust after a heartbreaking betrayal? From dating after divorce to issues with intimacy and everything in between, this show comes packed with solutions to a variety of relationship roadblocks. Whether y...more

  • Sex Slumps & Vibrating Tongues

    Jul 15 2016

    Today’s show is all about YOU. From sex slumps to dating drawbacks and blow job tips for beginners, Emily and Menace are doling out answers to all your sex and relationship uncertainties. Have your reproductive goals dulled your once-spicy sex life? What’s the best way to conquer oral sex anxieties? And how the heck do you meet someone real in the age of dating apps and bar hookups? Worry not— Emily sheds light on these common sex and love situations and shares advice to get you on the right tra...more

  • Pubic Hair, Porn Habits & Relationship Pasts

    Jul 12 2016

    No matter where we’re at in our sex life, we could all use a push to be little better. Lucky for you, this show is packed with tips on how to grow, both as a lover and a dater. Emily and co-host Anderson help listeners navigate their most troubling coital concerns and drop some helpful sex tips along the way. First, the two dissect the best and worst words men and women can include in their dating profiles and discuss how online dating has changed in the past 10 years. Then, they take to your em...more

  • Sexting, Cheating & Summer Flings

    Jul 08 2016

    On this show, Emily and Menace are starting the summer celebration by letting us in on the many reasons why this season is the hottest—in more ways than one. What’s different about summer in California, sex-wise? Does sunlight make people more attractive? How do you beat the heat when you’ve got a hot July date? These are just a few of the topics Emily and Menace touch on before getting to your emails! They address questions from listeners about expectations with an age difference, finding the c...more

  • Relationship Recovery: How to Survive a Breakup

    Jul 05 2016

    You may recall my relationship spring cleaning show from earlier this year, about knowing when it’s time to call it quits. Well today’s podcast is all about what comes after the breakup! Emily provides some rock solid tips to help you ease back into the single life, and shares some interesting uncoupling facts. Which gender is most likely to do the dumping? And what’s the average recovery time for a broken heart? Also, Emily and Anderson reminisce over their Loveline days, respond to your emails...more

  • Ditch the Drama for Better Sex

    Jul 01 2016

    On this show, Emily and Menace take a call from Emily’s instructor and Somatica Institute founder, Celeste Hirschman to discuss the benefits of sensual intimacy training. Emily talks with Celeste about her experience with somatica training so far, from the first lesson to homework assignments to her most vulnerable moments. The two discuss how this training can help increase your self-awareness, leading to amplified arousal and more pleasurable sex! Also, Emily and Menace divulge answers to your...more

  • Oral Sex Hangups & Office Obsessions

    Jun 28 2016

    On this show, Emily troubleshoots tricky topics that could either make you hot OR hold you back in the bedroom. Are you crushing on your married boss? Having trouble getting a guy to go down? Maybe your partner has a fantasy that makes you a little uncomfortable. These issues are just the tip of the iceberg of advice that Emily is dishing out on this show. With Menace’s help, she tackles a plethora of sex and relationship problems and even shares some healthy break-up tips in the process. From ...more

  • Wild Sex, Scarves & Sexual Confidence with Chris Jericho

    Jun 24 2016

    On this show Emily welcomes her good friend and guest, 7 time WWE champion and fellow podcaster Chris Jericho. Together they traverse a multitude of topics from his pro-wrestling persona to the inherent sexiness of scarves and everything in between. Chris goes in depth about his path to success, shares his thoughts on wild sex, and discusses the importance of confidence in your dating life. He and Emily also help listeners with questions on mutual masturbation, leg cramps and what NOT to do wit...more

  • Best Of: Kinky Sex, Squirting & Bedroom Insecurities

    Jun 21 2016

    Today’s throwback podcast comes at you straight from the Sex With Emily vault to address one of your favorite sex subjects. It was a mystery in 2015...and still is today. That’s right, we’re talking female ejaculation!   Emily and Anderson hammer out the details of this hot topic with the help of a less-than-scientific study and answer an email about a conscientious squirter. Plus, find out what sex position may just leave you with more pain than pleasure, how porn may be affecting your sex life...more

  • The Best Sex Of Your Life with The LadyFreaks

    Jun 17 2016

    On this show, Emily is joined by the hosts of the UCB show LadyFreak, Grace Parra & Jen Bartels to talk sex, fantasies and what it’s like being a lady in the street but a freak in the sheets!   Along with Menace, the trio dissect the dating scene in L.A., discuss the different types of female orgasms and determine what exactly makes up the best sex of one’s life. They also answer listener emails on Facebook jealousy and office romances.   From the importance of penis size to what it really means...more

  • Dry Spells & Deep Throats

    Jun 14 2016

    In honor of Adult Sex-Ed Month, this show is focused on expanding your sexual health knowledge. Emily gives a crash course on STD’s and STI’s, from causes to symptoms to the importance of keeping yourself protected.   She also answers emails on a range of sex topics, including when to get tested in a committed relationship, how to improve your deepthroating skills and what to do when your partner withholds sex. She even shares a fun masturbation story, as per a listener’s request. Sure it’s not...more

  • Baby's Got Boundaries

    Jun 10 2016

    Boundaries: we all have them, but how many of us know how to effectively express them? And what should we do when someone crosses the line? On this show, Emily breaks down the importance of communicating your boundaries, all for the good of your relationship.   With Menace’s help, Emily answers listeners emails about discussing your desires with a partner, carefully navigating non-monogamy, plus what to make of your same-sex fantasies. Also: a startling study about how many people are crossing t...more

  • Selfish Lovers & Unreturned "I Love You"s

    Jun 07 2016

    On this show, Emily is joined by award-winning author, TV personality and podcaster Anna David. With the help of Menace, they address a slew of tricky topics, from bad sex to bad breakups and everything in between.   But first, the ladies recap their weekend get-a-way to Palm Springs and, in celebration of Anna’s newest podcast, open up about their most irritating issues and biggest pet peeves. Then they jump right into answering your emails! Anna, Emily and Menace share expert insight on what t...more

  • Sexy Submission with Skin Diamond & Ashlynn Yennie

    Jun 03 2016

    Today’s show is all about exploring your deepest desires! Emily is joined by the stars of Showtime’s steamy new late night show Submission to discuss love, kink and the erotic nature of consent.   Skin Diamond and Ashlynn Yennie share some of their most intimate stories, both onscreen and off, and reveal what really goes on in a Dom/Sub relationship. The stars open up about their own love lives, divulge details about their sultry shared sex scene and even answer Emily’s Top 5 Sex Questions.   Fr...more

  • Four Women, Four Orgasms

    May 31 2016

    Today’s sex toy review show comes with a twist! The Sex With Emily squad takes you through the four main types of orgasms women can experience and shares their favorite toys to help you get there. From clitoral to G-spot to blended and multiples, Emily breaks down these pleasure bombs and explains exactly how to achieve them. She and her trusty team trade toy tips and share naughty masturbation stories, some of which might just make you blush. Whether you’re a clit queen, a G-spot graduate or a...more

  • Oral Sex & Relationship Bed Death

    May 27 2016

    On this show, Emily has answers for your every sex and relationship question! From oral sex uncertainty to mismatched libidos, she’s doling out the tips you need to turn your troubles around. But first, Emily and Menace discuss a study suggesting that those engaging in illicit sexual affairs make more noise in bed— so much for keeping it “hush hush.” And speaking of cheating, Emily helps one listener address his urges to step outside of his marriage. She also gives guidance to a couple with desp...more

  • Best Of: Smooch, Suck & Pucker Up

    May 24 2016

    This throwback show from 2014 is all about the importance of kissing. From the first light peck to the full body make out, Emily tells you how to pucker up like a pro and sweep any partner off of their feet. Emily and Anderson discuss some important “frenching” do’s and don’ts, swap awkward first kiss stories, and Emily shares her number 1 trick for creating your own perfect smooch! She also answers some listener emails: topics include how to stay hard during long foreplay sessions, making missi...more

  • The Self-Love Experience

    May 20 2016

    We’ve all got our own ways of showing ourselves the love, so to speak, but sometimes we may need a little help getting in the mood. In this show, Emily takes us through her top tips for getting into the masturbation mindset! Are you rushing through your self-love sessions? Getting O-Blocked by stress? When it come to fantasizing, does your mind draw a blank? Whether you’re new to solo sex or would simply like to step up your self-love game, Emily has tips to help you create a sensual space, thin...more

  • Best Of: Back to Mastur-Basics

    May 17 2016

    Masturbation Month is still in full swing, and we’re continuing the self-love celebration with a throwback podcast from May 2015! Emily breaks down the benefits of masturbation, and explains how mastering your own pleasure will propel your sex life to a whole nother echelon. Get special self-love tips for both men and for women, and learn what’s new in stimulating yourself. So who came up with Masturbation Month anyway? Emily enlightens us on the origins of the month-long celebration, shares tip...more

  • Trans, Pan & San Fran-Sexual with Venus Lux

    May 13 2016

    On this show Emily is joined by award winning porn star, producer and all-around trans trailblazer Venus Lux. Hailing from San Francisco, Venus is a venerable pioneer in the LGBT community. She shares intimate details about coming out, transitioning and staking her claim in the adult industry. From dating to dominating to polyamory and pubic hair, Venus speaks passionately on a range of love and sex topics. Emily even employs her expertise in answering a listener’s email about post-op insecurity...more

  • Great Solo Sex-pectations

    May 10 2016

    It’s the season for pleasin’ yourself, but some of you may still have some masturbatory doubts. In this self-loving show, Emily addresses 3 of the most common masturbation questions she gets asked: how to do it, why we do it and where to find that elusive G-spot.   Self-loving sounds easy enough, right? Well, when you consider factors like clitoral hypersensitivity, G-Spot uncertainty and masturbation in a relationship, it can quickly become a confusing activity. Emily tackles these topics and m...more

  • Roleplay, Foreplay & Premature Choking

    May 06 2016

    On this show Emily is joined by the funny and talented ladies of the Wild Horses improv team. Together with Menace, they dive deep into their masturbatory memories and explore their sexual desires in a good old-fashioned Sex With Emily roundtable discussion. Mary, Lauren, Erin and Stephanie open up about their respective experiences dating in the L.A. comedy scene, weigh in on the worst parts of porn, and divulge some of their deepest fantasies. The ladies produce quick and dirty answers to Emil...more

  • Fake-Up Sex & Sexy Strangers

    May 03 2016

    Happy Masturbation Month! Summer’s right around the corner and the weather outside is heating up… but for some, things might be getting lukewarm in the bedroom. On this show, Emily offers one way to keep the sex in your relationship fresh and exciting, no edible undies or handcuffs required.   There comes a point in every relationship when it’s necessary to try something new in the bedroom. You may have heard of role-playing as an option...but never like this. Emily offers 4 simplified scenarios...more

  • Jealousy, Infidelity & Eggplant Emojis

    Apr 29 2016

    We’ve all got insecurities, both in the bedroom and and in our relationships. So how do you stop them from getting in the way of your happiness? In this show, Emily shares advice to help you overcome self-doubt and face your love and sex uncertainties head on! But first, she and Menace dissect PornHub’s new “text for porn” emoji campaign. Can you guess what texting an eggplant to the porn site will get you? How about a pair of scissors? Then it’s on to your emails. Emily tackles the topics of re...more

  • Drinking With Emily: Turn On’s, Turn Off’s & Tequila

    Apr 26 2016

    This special “drunk” edition of Sex With Emily comes at you live, straight from Emily’s living room! She, Menace and the whole team take a drink or two (okay, or three) in hopes of producing the first ever drunk podcast, but it’s not all fun and drinking games—They also go in depth on the topic of ghosting and take the “Sex Question Quickie” Challenge… Well, they do the best they can. Do you know the difference between the sex lives of dog and cat owners? Why do you keep getting ghosted? Is pizz...more

  • Spring Cleaning Your Love Life

    Apr 22 2016

    It’s spring, you know what that means! Animals are mating, flowers are blooming and for some of us, it’s the season for relationship spring cleaning. Whether it means rethinking bad relationship habits or breaking up for good, everyone’s love life could use a little de-cluttering now and then. So how do know if it’s time to go? Emily lists some tell-tale signs that your relationship is on the rocks, and gives advice to help you figure out if your situation is worth saving. She also answers your ...more

  • Best Of: Sex, Love & Bacon

    Apr 19 2016

    On this classic show from 2014, Emily sits down with Caleb Bacon, writer and host of the Man School Podcast. They trade relationship relationship tips, debate the benefits of Kegels for men, and Caleb opens up about how getting comfortable in his own skin led him to proposing to the love of his life! Emily also tackles your emails. Want to know how to give a great BJ, even with a nasty case of cotton mouth? Or how to go after the girl you really want? And what do you do if your boyfriend comes ...more

  • What Women REALLY Want with the LadyGang

    Apr 15 2016

    This week, Emily welcomes the three lovely ladies from the LadyGang podcast for an unabashed, no-holds-barred girl talk session. Together, the girls dish on their favorite things to do in the bedroom and share their advice on how to get everything you want from your partner, no matter what relationship stage you happen to be in. The female foursome (plus Menace) get down and dirty, divulging their sentiments on approaching anal, getting busy in the shower and the most underrated type of kissing...more

  • Best Of: 5 Bedroom Mistakes You Might Be Making

    Apr 12 2016

    On this throwback podcast from 2014, Emily wants all you fellas out there to be the best you can be.. Especially in the bedroom! She lists the 5 most common mistakes guys make in the sack, and gives advice on how to avoid them. But first, Emily and Menace start off with a discussion on dating and mating in the LA scene, and consider some questions of modern-day monogamy. Does your spouse have a secret Plan B? Then it’s on to mens’ most notorious bedroom mistakes! Emily teaches tricks to help ...more

  • Cheapskates, Cheaters & Sweaty Sex

    Apr 08 2016

    On this show, Emily and Menace are addressing a slew of sex and love topics ranging from sweaty sex to cheating and everywhere in between! The two also exchange steamy Mexico vacation stories— spoiler alert: only one of them gets lucky in the end. Next, it’s on to your emails! Emily helps a listener decide whether she wants to open up her relationship or if she’s just looking for an excuse to cheat. She administers advice on how to confront your boyfriend about a lack of reciprocity in the rela...more

  • Calling All Virgins: Your First Time Sex Guide

    Apr 05 2016

    This show is dedicated to all you virgins out there! No matter what your age or relationship status, Emily shares her “First Time Sex Preparedness Guide” to help you make your introduction into sex a positive one. She lists her do’s & dont’s for starting off your sex life, answers your most common virginity questions, and even shares her own first-time sex story… For science, of course.   Should you wait for that special someone or just get it over with? Will it hurt? Can you get pregnant the f...more

  • Dirty Talk & Dating Dilemmas

    Apr 01 2016

    What’s blocking you from finding satisfaction in the bedroom, your relationship and most importantly, in yourself? This show is all about breaking down those barricades, no matter what they may be! Whether you’re struggling with dating self-doubts, dirty talk or a long distance relationship that’s lost its spark, Emily helps you get to the bottom of these issues and so much more. When it comes to love, sex and dating, obstacles are all but inevitable. Finding the confidence to put yourself out ...more

  • Ghosting, Threesomes & the "Single Grunt Guy"

    Mar 29 2016

    This week, Emily and Menace come at you direct from the Gibson Showroom in Beverly Hills for the very first time and the theme of this show is one of Emily’s all time favorites: communication is a lubrication! She’s pulling out all the stops to ensure that by the end of the show, every listener becomes a venerable expert on this vital topic. Emily shares how communication (or lack thereof) has fared her throughout her romantic history and even helps Menace address some of his own relationship r...more

  • Best Of: Porn, Polyamory & Perfecting Anal Play with Nina Hartley

    Mar 25 2016

    In this classic episode of Sex With Emily, the iconic porn star Nina Hartley joins the show opens up about her start in porn, non-monogamy, feminism, and so much more. From handjobs to polyamory and everything in between, the nothing is off limits for this dynamic duo! Emily and Nina get into the nitty gritty details of uncovering your orgasm, discovering new fetishes and traversing the road to your anal pleasure. Believe it or not, there ARE wrong ways to go about sexual exploration, but these...more

  • Dating After Divorce

    Mar 22 2016

    On this show, Emily and Anderson discuss the do’s and dont’s of dating, and explore how to meet the right person no matter what your experience level. Emily also helps a listener take her BJ skills to new heights with an imaginative oral sex hack. But first, the pair weigh the positives and negatives of dating people in the service industry and explain why visiting your hometown is like visiting your ex. Then it’s time to answer your dating questions: From relying a little too heavily on liquid...more

  • Best Of: Tinder, Sidechicks & Twisted Love Triangles

    Mar 18 2016

    On this throwback show from 2013, Emily and Menace dissect the ever-changing dating rituals of love and sex in the 21st century. From the explosion of dating apps to the the birth of the sidechick, they weigh in on the positive and negative effects of these new trends on our collective dating psyche and success. They also answer answer emails about lying to your partner, office love triangles and making the difficult decision between the “safe guy” and the “bad boy.” She tells the listeners whe...more

  • Porn Facts & Foreplay Hacks

    Mar 15 2016

    On this show, Emily, Anderson and the newest edition to the Sex With Emily team, Ken, are dishing out advice to help solve some of your most salient sexual setbacks. The trio tackles a range of email topics from erectile dysfunction to position problems to long distance lovin’ and beyond. Plus, Emily gives a list of sex toy recommendations for newbies and tips on how to keep your masturbation routine off your roommates’ radar. She and her co-hosts also unveil some suspect statistics about porn...more

  • Are You Sexually Intelligent? with Amy Jo Goddard

    Mar 11 2016

    On this podcast, Emily welcomes guest and fellow sexologist Amy Jo Goddard to talk about her new book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence. Together, they delve deep into the concepts of sexual desire, empowerment and of course, share a few expert sex tips! Despite strides that our society has made in the areas of sex positivity and openness, there are still so many of us that have guilt and shame surrounding sex. Amy Jo and Emily discuss...more

  • Making Scheduled Sex HOT

    Mar 08 2016

    This show is dedicated to getting your sex life on the right track, whether that means scheduling your erotic rendezvous, sticking to your bedroom boundaries or expanding your expertise into “other” sorts of oral pleasure. Sometimes life gets busy, relationships get stale, and sex drives suffer. Emily explains why scheduling time between the sheets with your partner just might be the key to keeping your romance alive and thriving, and shares tips to help make scheduled sex just as hot as the sp...more

  • Compliments, Confidence & First Date Faux Pas

    Mar 05 2016

    On this show, Emily welcomes back Brian Howie from the Great Love Debate to pick up where they left off on the topics of love and sex. Together with Menace, they share personal dating experiences, pose provocative questions and try to get to the bottom of how to make sex and love better. How has dating changed in our app-driven social scene? What makes it so hard for people to get to the 2nd date? How is the dating climate influenced by the environmental climate? These are just a few of the top...more

  • Oral Sex, Return of the Ex & Relationship Red Flags

    Mar 01 2016

    As we get older and wiser, our dating situations are bound to evolve along with us. From discovering new sexual horizons to being honest with yourself and strong in your goals, this show is all about pointing you in the direction of pleasure and satisfaction. First on the docket: how to orally please a woman. Going down on a woman can often be a baffling labyrinth of lady-parts, and some guys need help to get it right. Luckily, Emily is here to impart the 3 most important cunnilingus component...more

  • Hot Past The Honeymoon with Celeste & Danielle

    Feb 26 2016

    Emily welcomes back two of her favorite guests, sex and relationship therapists Celeste and Danielle! The sexpert pair speaks passionately on the topics of intimacy, communication and keeping your love hot past the honeymoon phase and also treats us to an inside look at their new book Making Love Real: The Intelligent Couple’s Guide to Lasting Intimacy & Passion. Whether we’d like to admit it or not, all relationships take hard work and often come with disappointment. Celeste & Danielle teach ...more

  • Dating, Mating & Pulling Out

    Feb 23 2016

    On this show, Emily addresses everyone’s favorite fly-by-night contraceptive practice: the pull-out method. Is it really as reliable as people think, or have we all been withdrawing for naught? Emily answers a listener’s request to get in depth about the effectiveness of the “pull and pray” and tells us what she really thinks about bailing before you bust. Then, she and Anderson serves up suggestions on how to find your dating “home base,” how to approach a third for your fantasy threesome, and...more

  • The G-Spot Journey: A Sex Toy Review

    Feb 19 2016

    It’s everyone’s favorite day at Sex With Emily: Sex Toy Review Day! And this round, they’re all about the G-spot. If you’ve been searching for yours, or would love to locate your partner’s, we lay out the roadmap (and the tools) to get you there. Emily, Madison, Laurie and Jamie dissect the mystery behind this enigmatic erogenous zone, sharing their experiences, techniques and G-spot goals. The team also details their respective masturbatory journeys with the brand new Rave and Nova by We-Vibe...more

  • Let's Talk About SEXTS, Baby

    Feb 16 2016

    On this show, Emily and Anderson are doling out tips to increase your chances of finding success in sex and love post-Valentine’s day, starting with your digital flirting skills! It’s no mystery that texting has become an integral part of today’s communication landscape, so when it comes to winning someone’s affections, a well-worded sext can be seen as the modern day love letter. To make sure you’re saying all the right things, Emily gives her 5 top tips to guide your sextual encounters, incl...more

  • Red Flags, Green Lights & the “Death” of Dating with Brian Howie

    Feb 12 2016

    On this show, Emily welcomes host of The Great Love Debate podcast, Brian Howie. Together they traverse the tricky terrain of dating, commitment and communication. Brian and Emily cover a range of topics, from first dates to first impressions to the ways that most of us go about finding real love. Emily reminds us why relationship practice makes perfect and Brian offers insight on how to communicate through the ever changing love landscape. They dismantle the idea of “type,” define the dating p...more

  • Candy, Flowers & V-Day Foreplay

    Feb 08 2016

    Valentine’s Day is less than a week away and Emily, Menace & Producer Madison have got the international day of love on the mind. From advice for picking the perfect flowers for your partner to tips for keeping your Valentine’s night as hot as possible, this show is a veritable grab-bag of all things V-day. The approaching holiday isn’t the only topic of discussion, however. The group mulls over a smorgasbord of sexual subjects! Menace share’s his feelings about foot fetishes, Madison shares a...more

  • Valentine's Day Sexpectations

    Feb 05 2016

    Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, which means romance is in the air! Whether you’re in love, are looking for love, or are single and lovin’ it, February 14th means something to all of us. On this show, Emily, Anderson and Producer Madison take this Hallmark holiday by the horns and examine all of the expectations, experiences and attitudes surrounding it. The three dissect V-day facts and statistics, share stories of Valentine’s present & past and even ponder their plans for Valentine’s to c...more

  • Jealousy In Retrograde

    Feb 02 2016

    If you’re looking to get ahead in your career, enhance your love life or improve things between the sheets, communication is the key! This show is all about improving your communication skills in the dating world, in your long term relationship, and of course, in the bedroom. Emily tackles your questions about how to appropriately and effectively address your concerns with your partner, whether you’re dealing with jealousy, orgasm dishonesty, or opening your partner’s eyes to something new in be...more

  • Live From SHE: Kink, Play, Love

    Jan 29 2016

    In this show, brought to you live from the Sexual Health Expo in Los Angeles, Emily welcomes 3 guest sex experts to cover a smorgasbord of sex and love topics. From bedroom communication to play parties and more, this show is full of tips to help you strengthen your relationship, turn up the kink, and explore alternative lifestyles. In the course of an hour, America’s favorite sex geek Reid Mihalko gives his number one blowjob tip, certified MFT Jennie Steinberg leads a crash course in Love La...more

  • What Not To Do In Bed

    Jan 26 2016

    This show is all about sexual etiquette! What does it really take to be a considerate lover? Emily and Anderson discuss a recent article and express opposing opinions regarding the 6 things that men should never do in the bedroom. Is being body shaming gender exclusive? What’s the golden rule of successful sex? From unauthorized spitting to selfish sex to surprise anal, they dissect the different ways NOT to behave between the sheets. Emily also answers emails regarding sexual insecurity ste...more

  • DoppleBangers & PostBoners

    Jan 22 2016

    On this show, Emily answers a host of your emails on a wide range of topics.  including how to get rough in bed, how to make it work with a larger-than-average member, backdoor bleaching and beyond. For those who are worried about keeping their sex talk current, Emily and Menace provide a lesson in sex slang terms for 2016. From “dopplebanger” to “thirst-trap” and “masturwait”, they teach you how to work this “hip” new sex slang into your conversations this year — Just use them at your own ris...more

  • Sexy Show & Tell

    Jan 19 2016

    On this show, Emily tackles your emails all about improving and enhancing the sexual side of your relationship. She provides guidance on the best ways to communicate your bedroom needs to your partner, determining the right time to get intimate in a new relationship, and how to help lift your partner up when their confidence is waning. Emily and Anderson also plunge into polyamorous territory when they discuss OKCupid’s new feature for finding threesome partners. Find out just how many online ...more

  • Fashion Do's & Dating Dont's with Jac Vanek

    Jan 15 2016

    On this show Emily welcomes guest blogger, fashion designer and host of the Fempire Podcast, Jac Vanek! Together, Emily and Jac trade Tinder horror stories, debate dating faux pas and break down the components of “perfect sex”, and answer an email from a listener who isn’t quite sure how to make contact with her crush. The two dish on all things fashion, Facebook stalking and first date outfit ideas! They also discuss a study on sexting that shows us exactly how much we all get freaky with our...more

  • Face-Sitting, Libido Boosting & Other Sex Goals for 2016

    Jan 12 2016

    Today’s show is dedicated to improving your sexual health in the new year! Emily lists her top 5 sexual health goals and explains how to put them into practice in your everyday life! She and Anderson also go over a study about reducing the risk of prostate cancer and tackle emails about position problems, date ideas and lengthy refractory periods. If you haven’t chosen your resolution yet, this podcast may be able to help. This show will teach you all about the wonders of kegels, handling new s...more

  • Finding Your Foreplay & Catching Your O's

    Jan 09 2016

    It’s a fresh new year and on this show, Emily helps tackle your resolutions to make all of your new year dreams come true! Whether you want to expand your orgasmic horizons or you’re trying to find your foreplay sweet spot, Emily’s got the answers to set you on the path to a sexy and successful 2016! But first, Emily and Menace go over some Sex In the News about the BEST time of day for sex, and a new invention designed for pregnant women to play music inside the womb! Then, Emily answers your ...more

  • Live From the Improv: A Decade of Sex With Emily

    Jan 06 2016

    This special podcast comes to you from the famous Hollywood Improv theater! It’s a podcast of the live celebration of 10 great years of the hottest sex (talk) with Emily. Emily kicks off the party with a walk down memory lane and looks back at the journey that made Sex With Emily what it is today.  Emily brings her two co-hosts Menace and Anderson onstage (both of them together for the very first time!) Dr. Drew Pinsky joins Emily to take live sex and dating questions from the audience and dis...more

  • Casual Sex vs Making Love with Jessa Hinton

    Jan 01 2016

    Happy New Year, lovers! To ring in 2016, Emily welcomes fellow blogger, podcaster and former Playmate Jessa Hinton to the show. The two talk about their sexual pasts and relationships present, and discuss better dating practices for the new year. Emily and Jessa also take to your emails, providing advice to help you find success in sex and dating in 2016. Whether you’re dealing with attachment issues, oral sex fears or detecting flirtation from a possible love interest, Jessa and Emily have the...more

  • Have A Happy & Horny New Year

    Dec 29 2015

    With January 1st just around the corner, it’s time to start lining up all your sex and dating resolutions for the new year — How can you be the best lover you can be in 2016? Whether you’re single or in a relationship, today’s podcast provides tips to help you handpick your goals for a year of better sex and love, and even help you accomplish them. From making dating your second job to creating and conquering your sexual bucket list, Emily goes over her sexiest resolution ideas for couples and ...more

  • Swinging All The Way with Holli & Michael

    Dec 22 2015

    In this podcast, Emily is joined by married couple and real-life swingers Holli & Michael! This sexy twosome is used to sharing all the intimate details of living the “lifestyle” on their number one Playboy Radio show SWING, and today they’re bringing all their romantic and sexual wisdom to the Sex With Emily studio. Emily and the pair talk tips for healthy relationships and healthy threesomes, discuss how to squash jealousy for good and explain how to go from ‘icy to spicy’ in the bedroom. Th...more

  • Hotter Sex For the Holidays

    Dec 18 2015

    Have the stresses of the season put a damper on your sex drive? On today’s show, Emily is full of advice to help you de-stress and sexually connect during the hectic holidays. Whether you’re single or in a committed relationship, she reminds us why it’s important to prioritize pleasure, maintain intimacy with your partner and treat yourself to something special this time of year. She also answers your emails on the best sex toys for holiday gifting, escaping extramarital affairs and unearthing e...more

  • The Cheating Curve

    Dec 16 2015

    On today’s podcast, Emily and Menace are tackling your top sex and relationship questions. Whether you’re looking to explore new bedroom activities, are feeling cheated by your partner’s oral sex embargo or are trying to channel your inner sex goddess, they cover the many ways to better communicate your sexual needs to your partner. They also tackle a question on lady-scaping — Do men really trip out over a little down-there stubble? Also, a Sex in the News story on mistress-shaming opens up a ...more

  • First Loves & Freaky Fetishes

    Dec 11 2015

    With the holidays just around the corner, it’s the time of the season to think of our loved ones… or lack thereof, as the case may be. In this podcast, Emily and Producer Madison are taking to your emails and answering some of your top sex and relationship questions to help you get to where you want to be in your love and sex life. For all you online daters out there, how do you handle getting ghosted by a seemingly promising prospect? And for those already in a relationship, what’s the best w...more

  • Orgasmic Holiday Gift Ideas

    Dec 08 2015

    ‘Tis the season for giving and in this week’s show, Emily and her team are here to help you select the sexiest items to give every “special someone” on your list. Whether you’re shopping for a toy for him, searching for the perfect present for her, or are looking for something you both can share, this holiday gift guide has the perfect mix of products you’ll need to keep things hot through those cold winter months, and every month that follows! We’ve also got some small yet sexy toys and product...more

  • Sex Toy Hacks & Masturbation Mishaps

    Dec 05 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes sex shop staffers Kate and McKenna to the studio to share secrets, hacks and tricks of the trade from their experience working in the sex toy industry. With the holidays just around the corner, you might be considering making some sexy purchases but don’t know where to start. McKenna, Kate and Emily are here to help you find the hottest toys for the season whether you’re looking for yourself, for your partner or something for the two of you to enjoy together. Fr...more

  • Best Of: Phantom Os and Breastgasms

    Dec 01 2015

    In this throwback podcast from 2013, Emily and Menace are here to help you discover new ways to experience pleasure that you might not have thought of before. Whether you’re having difficulty climaxing coitally or communicating your sexual concerns, Emily has answers for your every sex issue! From nipple nibbling to breast cupping to light pinching and licking, Emily provides detailed directions on how you (or your partner) can achieve the elusive breastgasm. It might take practice, but it’s wo...more

  • Happy Endings & Kiny Beginnings

    Nov 26 2015

    In the newest Sex With Emily podcast, we’re talking about how to find the happiness you’ve been seeking in your relationships, your sex life and, most importantly, in yourself! Emily opens up about two practices she feels passionately about that can enhance your overall wellness, and tackles your emails on mismatched libidos, pegging and happy endings. Erotic massage parlors: Socially acceptable or totally illegal? Emily lays down the law on the topic of paying for “happy endings” and shares a...more

  • Thanksgiving Throwback: Sexy & Thankful

    Nov 24 2015

    This special Thanksgiving throwback podcast from 2014 is all about strengthening your relationship through gratitude. Emily teaches you the importance of appreciating your partner, not just for Thanksgiving, but all year around. Between talk of Thanksgiving plans and one night stands, Emily shares some of the things she is most grateful for and reminds us why we all should be thankful for sex. Then, get ready for a lesson in partner appreciation. Emily explains how little things, like saying t...more

  • Sexploring a New You

    Nov 19 2015

    The only thing constant in life is change, which is why you should constantly be taking steps to expand your sex life. In this week’s show, Emily provides guidance to help you evolve your bedroom routine, whether it’s with a new toy, some new moves or new ways to get intimate with your partner. Mike, a loyal fan from Cleveland, calls in to share his and his wife’s experience with the Intensity by Pour Moi. He explains how the sexual health device has helped boost his wife’s bedroom confidence ...more

  • Best Of: Charm Her Pants Off with Jordan Harbinger

    Nov 17 2015

    On today’s Best Of podcast from 2013, Emily talks sexual confidence and charm with dating coach and Art of Charm co-founder Jordan Harbinger. From discovering your own self-assuredness to finding the courage to approach that woman at the bar to making a stellar first impression, Jordan gives step by step advice to help you blossom into the ladies’ man you always knew you could be. He also breaks down some of the worst first-date faux-pas. How much touching is too much touching? Do you HAVE to pa...more

  • Freakier Friday

    Nov 13 2015

    On today’s Best Of podcast from 2012, no sex tip is left unturned! Emily and Menace are joined by special guest, sex educator and co-author of Emily’s book Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, Jamye Waxman, to talk sex toys, dating debacles and everything in between. Fresh from her trip to the Xbiz retail show, an annual sex toy expo, Jamye has tons of tidbits and toy tips to share, from couples’ toys to bondage kits and even a little electro-play. She, Emily and Menace dissect the pea...more

  • Fast Track To O-Town

    Nov 10 2015

    Today’s show is all about helping you effectively find your sexual bliss in the bedroom. No matter what issues are holding you back, Emily has the answers you need to get on the fast track to O-town! Are you struggling to serve yourself up some satisfactory self-loving? Are you having trouble enjoying your partner’s best oral sex moves? Perhaps the sex is so great that you wish it could last a bit longer? We all want to find enjoyment in bed, and your secret to maximum fulfillment could be righ...more

  • Sexy Playtime with Skin Diamond

    Nov 06 2015

    Today’s podcast comes to you straight from the 2014 Sex With Emily archives. Emily and Anderson welcome guest Skin Diamond, a nude model and decorated adult film star, to the show to trade tips and tricks in all areas of our favorite topic: sex! Have you ever wanted a porn star’s advice on how to be better in bed? You’re in luck! Whether you’re interested in improving at cunnilingus, fellatio, anal or even DP, Skin Diamond has plenty of advice to share. She gives instructions on how to utilize ...more

  • November's Naughty Bucket List

    Nov 03 2015

    Today’s podcast comes to you straight from the Sex With Emily vault. This blast from the past is all about adding some SEX-citement to your life and trying new things both in (and outside) the bedroom. So strap on your time-travel boots, ‘cause we’re taking you back to November 1st, 2011 to get acquainted with your new naughty bucket list! A wet t-shirt contest: degrading or liberating? Giving a hickey: intimate or immature? Sex in the rain: wet and wild or totally not worth it? Emily and Menac...more

  • Fantasies, Fetish & FUNgasms

    Oct 30 2015

    October is coming to its end, and Sex With Emily is here to help you close it out with a kinky, freaky bang! On today’s show, Emily is doling out tips and techniques for how to take your existing sexual inclinations the the next level of naughty. If you’re looking to spice up your sex life but aren’t sure where to start, Emily’s got a great formula for finding your hot spot. How do you turn your fantasies into erotic reality? What steps can you take to heat up your sensual massage? How can you...more

  • Awkward, Single & Ready to Mingle with Fred Stoller

    Oct 27 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes comedian, actor and author of “Maybe We’ll Have You Back: The Life of a Perennial T.V. Guest Star,” Fred Stoller, to the studio. He, Emily and Menace talk about sex, dating and the funnier things in life, and discuss what it’s really like to be always the bridesmaid, never the bride. In between jokes and hilarious anecdotes, Fred shares some of his dating anxieties, makes sexual confessions and teaches us what he’s learned about cultivating your self-confidence ...more

  • LackLUSTer Love: Should You Stay or Should You Go?

    Oct 23 2015

    In this week’s podcast, Emily welcomes to the show two of the most important and influential people in her life: her parents. Emily’s mom Susan and her step-dad Ed join the team to provide an inside scoop on the life of Emily, from her youth all the way into her uniquely adult-themed adulthood, and assist her in answering your love, sex and relationship questions. Are you struggling to find solid ground with an emotionally inconsistent partner? Has your sex life become lackluster, with an emph...more

  • Guess Who's Having Sex With Emily

    Oct 20 2015

    Today, Emily has a special show in store for you. For the first time ever, Sex With Emily welcomes a guest who is actually HAVING sex with Emily. Dr. Ross Grant, musician, medical doctor and Emily’s special friend, joins her and Menace to answer your emails and take calls from a couple of our loyal listeners. Have you ever wondered what it’d be like to find yourself at a real live “Eyes Wide Shut” style swingers’ soiree? You’re in luck! Emily and Ross share their recent experience at an LA pla...more

  • Sex & Relationship Interruptions

    Oct 16 2015

    Have you been harboring a handful of pertinent sex and relationship questions? Today’s show might just have the answers you’re looking for. Emily is doling out advice on a wide range of hot topics including guidelines for fostering friends with benefits, curiosity about extramarital sex, interruptions during intercourse and so much more! What are the rules for keeping it casual? How can you avoid coming off as desperate with a new date? Whether it’s a new tinder hook-up or a friend you’re getti...more

  • Getting Intimate & Orgasmic with Dr. Ava Cadell

    Oct 13 2015

    Today, Emily welcomes professional speaker, writer and sex therapist Dr. Ava Cadell to the podcast. Together, Ava and Emily traverse a wide range of topics, including keeping the intimacy alive in your marriage, dealing with sexual guilt and exploring your erogenous zones. From her charming definition of intimacy to the best ways to find your nipple orgasm, Ava has a wide range of tips for pleasure and fulfillment, and shares hard-hitting hints on how to have a satisfying sexual and romantic l...more

  • Spicy Sex Tips & Nipple Tricks

    Oct 09 2015

    Could your sex life use a little extra spice? In today’s show, Emily is answering your top questions on sex & intimacy and provides step-by-step guidelines to help you turn your bedroom troubles around. How do you keep the sex hot in your routine-based marriage? What if you’re uncomfortable with your spouse’s new fantasy? Between sexual spontaneity, dirty talk and honest communication, Emily offers the perfect guidance to activate and amplify your bedroom activity. And if you happen to be wait...more

  • Mixed Sex Signals & Missing Orgasms

    Oct 06 2015

    On today’s podcast, we’re tackling the issues of mixed signals, the missing orgasm, and mischievous sex fantasies. How do you manage problems in the bedroom and keep your relationship in good standing? Learn how to navigate mismatched libidos, carefully communicate your sexual needs and put those potentially problematic fetishes to bed in order to keep your relationship safe. Also discussed, the top and bottom sex positions for HER pleasure, tips to make Missionary anything but boring, and a Sex...more

  • Sex Toy Secrets with Sunny & Chad

    Oct 02 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes hosts of Playboy Radio’s popular “Ask the Doc” podcast, Chad Braverman and Sunny Rodgers. Emily, Sunny and Chad jump straight into swapping secrets and stories from the sex industry, and share tips on how to step up your sex toy game for maximum pleasure! If there’s one thing that this trio of sex aficionados have in common, it’s their expertise in the area of sex toys, from personal favorites to hottest up-and-coming toys and helpful hacks. The gang also answer...more

  • Sexual Frustrations & Bedroom Bummers

    Sep 29 2015

    In this show, Emily is breaking down a variety of sex tips and topics to help you step up your bedroom routine. Today’s topics include the right way to give oral, the wrong way to get busy and tricks to keep your sexual confidence going strong in a long term relationship. Does your partner’s jackhammer habit leave you sexually unsatisfied? Feeling fed up with lackluster foreplay? Has your confidence in the bedroom taken a recent dive? If any of these issues ring true for you, then Emily has to...more

  • SEXtra Credit Foreplay Tips

    Sep 25 2015

    All September long, Sex With Emily is taking us back to sex ed basics, and on today’s show Emily is  answering some of your top sex questions, and she’s handing out plenty of sex-tra credit. Are you falling short when it comes to handies and BJs? Having trouble finding your phallic foreplay forte? Whether you’re struggling to find your sexual confidence or you’ve just lost your sexual rhythm, Emily gives detailed explanations of specific steps you can take to remedy these carnal conundrums. Also...more

  • O-Shots & Orgasm Hacks

    Sep 22 2015

    It’s a widely accepted fact that sex feels good. But for so many ladies out there, it could feel so much better. Today’s podcast is all about different ways for women to amplify their sexual pleasure, from sex toy hacks to orgasmic new medical advances! Emily takes a call from Dr. Lisbeth Roy, an expert on the new non-surgical procedure called the O-Shot that stimulates the vagina and clitoris to positively impact libido, arousal and orgasm! Dr. Roy breaks down the details and benefits of the i...more

  • Sexy, Nude and Not Sorry with Moxi Cox

    Sep 18 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes Suicide Girl and unapologetic sex-enthusiast Moxi Cox to talk everything from sex toys to nontraditional relationships to new levels of kink!   Moxi is a blogger, sex educator, radio personality and psychology student, not to mention a model for the popular Suicide Girls site. From sexually conservative beginnings to the world of nude modeling, Moxi chronicles her journey to sexual discovery, opens up about her favorite sex products and shares tips on what it t...more

  • Casual Sex, Condoms and Communication

    Sep 15 2015

    September at Sex With Emily is all about getting back to sex basics and on today’s show, Emily is giving a lesson on the most essential principle of sex, love and dating: communication! Are you trying to find the perfect way to express your sexual needs and desires to a partner? Are you struggling to be the lover you know you can be? From sexual stamina to FWB’s to an unfulfilled craving for rough lovin’, all roads lead to better sexual communication and Emily has tips to guide the way.   Thi...more

  • Two Is Company, Threesome's a Fantasy

    Sep 11 2015

    This week, Emily is joined by guest co-host Lynette Carolla from the For Crying Out Loud podcast. Together, the dynamic duo ponder some of the most popular yet puzzling sexual predicaments and dive into a veritable variety of sex topics, including sex toys, g-spots, the best oral sex methods, and the appeal of threesomes! It might be one of the most popular fantasies, but can your twosome handles the addition of a third? Emily shares some helpful hints to quench your threeway thirst.   Also d...more

  • Fetishes, Fantasies and the "Ten Text Rule"

    Sep 08 2015

    On today’s show, Emily addresses some real relationship hardships regarding fantasies, sexual hangups, marriage and more.   How do you keep your partnership happy and healthy when the sex is the elephant in the room? What’s the difference between a fantasy, fetish and obsession, and how do you cope when your partner can’t satisfy yours? Or what if your fiancee just plain “isn’t into sex?” Emily gives thoughtful advice on tackling these difficult issues, and shares tips on how to take the firs...more

  • The Juicy Scoop on Married Sex with Heather McDonald

    Sep 04 2015

    This week, Emily is joined by guest host Lynette Carolla of the For Crying Out Loud podcast, as well as comedian, actress and best-selling author Heather McDonald. Together, this powerhouse trifecta of female podcasters dish on the latest celebrity scandals, secrets for having a lasting marriage and, of course, sex!   What does it mean if you and your partner are “bread and butter boners?” And how often should a married couple be getting it on? Heather, Lynette and Emily discuss how to handle ...more

  • Sex Toy Review: Intense & Unplugged

    Sep 01 2015

    Today is everyone’s favorite day at the Sex With Emily podcast. That’s right, it’s Sex Toy Review Day and the gang’s all here! Emily and her trusty team are reviewing innovative new products, and providing new insight on some old favorites. From the game-changing “kegel exerciser meets Rabbit vibrator” to the newly liberated Magic Wand rechargeable, and even a Fleshlight or two, the SWE team members share their individual experiences and give helpful hints to guide you to your sex toy success! ...more

  • Ladies Talk Sex & Backdoor Secrets

    Aug 28 2015

    August is Anal Pleasure Month and Sex With Emily is celebrating on today’s show with a panel of women who are ready to talk sex and get frank about the naughty nitty gritty of backdoor play. This group of ladies have a wide range of sexual experience to share and nothing is off limits in this steamy sex talk session. Have you ever wanted to knock on your guys backdoor? How can you know if he would be open to the idea? Emily offers tips and tricks for introducing the idea of backdoor play to you...more

  • Sex, Love & Lubricant with Carmen Electra

    Aug 25 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes Baywatch babe turned full blown pop culture icon Carmen Electra into the studio. Carmen takes Emily on a trip down memory lane and dishes on her road to success, her turn ons and turn offs, not to mention some of her steamiest sex fantasies. What makes this international sex symbol feel the sexiest? What’s her biggest sexual pet peeve? Carmen and Emily talk all these dirty details, get into some important dating do’s and dont’s, and trade insider tips on how to us...more

  • Rules for Playing the Dating Game with Patti Stanger

    Aug 19 2015

    On the latest podcast, Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger joins Emily to talk dating, relating and waiting for the right one. Not one to hold anything back, Patti  shares saucy stories, gives top notch dating tips and offers some million dollar advice for meeting your match.     Can a Beta man and an Alpha female make a good marriage? How do you get your “on again, off again” relationship to stay on for good? Does sex with an ex ever end well? Patti and Emily tackle a couple listener emails ...more

  • Best Of: Let's Play Balls

    Aug 18 2015

    In this Best Of podcast, circa June 2012, Emily and Menace explore the wonderful, exciting and often overlooked world of ball play. They share tips to help you overcome your ball-related fears and get gungho for gonads, and tackle a few of your emails along the way. Does your lack of experience in the bedroom have you questioning your sex skills? Are you ready to get into the world of kink, but don’t know where the start? Emily shares advice on sex toys and sexual confidence, and gets filled in ...more

  • Lovers and Friend Zones

    Aug 14 2015

    On today’s show, Emily and her team dive into some serious subject matter surrounding sex, dating and friendship. Do you consistently find yourself stuck in the friend zone? Can blow jobs cure a bad day? How long should you wait after an unrequited “I love you?” With the help of producer Madison and assistant Alyssa, Emily gives advice on how to navigate those tricky situations in your love life and explains what to do if you get caught somewhere in the in-between. Whether you’re looking for th...more

  • Condoms, Communication and Office Flirtations

    Aug 11 2015

    Today’s show is all about traversing the trails of communication, flirtation and, you guessed it, sex! Emily and Anderson take on a few of your most pressing sex questions, including emails on office romances, condom conundrums, sex positions and more!  They also share and discuss some of the most interesting findings from SKYN Condom’s Millennial Sex Survey, revealing what those twenty somethings are really up to between the sheets!   We all know that communication is the key to a happy and ...more

  • Opening Up the (Back) Door to Anal Pleasure

    Aug 07 2015

    August is Anal Sex Month and in this show, Emily is ushering in the season with special guest author, sexologist and anal sex expert Dr. Charlie Glickman!   Dr. Charlie offers expert insight on everything from anal anatomy to buttplug tips to how to locate and effectively stimulating the prostate. He and Emily clear up common misconceptions and straighten out negative stigma surrounding back-door play, and even get into the hot new topic of pegging! How do you bring it up to your partner? Wha...more

  • Best of: Sausage Wraps, Pleasure Tunnels & Other Pickle-Pleasing Tips

    Aug 05 2015

    Today, we’re throwing it back to 2013 with this old school podcast, straight from the Sex With Emily vault. Emily welcomes a special guest, fellow sexpert and author of “Tickle His Pickle,” Dr. Sadie Allison. The two offer adept advice about sex, relationships and how to make your partner’s “pickle” feel amazing.   Dr. Sadie shares different grips, tips and techniques to employ while giving your man the old rub & tug, from the “Sausage Wrap” to the “Pleasure Tunnel” and more. She and Emily als...more

  • Flashback Friday: All of the Orgasms

    Jul 31 2015

    Happy National Orgasm Day! In honor of the big “O,” today’s throwback podcast from 2012 is all about getting yourself past the pleasure point of no return, in more ways than one! If you think there’s only one kind of orgasm, get ready to have your mind blown. Emily gently, but not too gently, guides you through the many types of orgasms a woman can experience and provides steps to help you achieve whatever O you’re aiming for. Also discussed, multiple paths to multiple O’s, finding your G-spot,...more

  • Real Women Talk Sex

    Jul 28 2015

    Today, Emily welcomes three lovely ladies to the podcast to dish, discuss, and dissect all things sex and dating. From early sexperiences to porn picks to Pubic Grooming 101, Harriet, Atara, Chloe hold nothing back as they share sex stories and personal preferences revolving around everyone’s favorite topic.   From different walks of life and different stages of love, these ladies have an expansive collection of experiences to pull from and they’re laying it all out for your listening pleasur...more

  • Cheaters, Chokers & Sneaky Sex Tips

    Jul 24 2015

    In today’s Sex With Emily podcast, we’re tackling a handful of complex sex issues, from mismatched libidos in your relationship to sex tips for lovers who still live at home to what to do if your partner’s choking fetish makes you feel uncomfortable. Any of this sound familiar? She and Anderson address some Sex in the News stories on strip clubs and cheaters, and Emily shares a story from her recent girl’s trip that you DO NOT want to miss. Whether you’re you’re itching to hear about a real li...more

  • Love, Lust & the Art of the Handjob

    Jul 21 2015

    Today’s throwback podcast is straight out of San Francisco circa 2011. So what was happening in the Sex With Emily world EXACTLY 4 years ago? Emily covers a wide spread of topics including the dangers of comparing your ex to your current partner, age gaps in the dating world, and the real difference between love and lust.   Also discussed: Are you having trouble getting your boyfriend to perform oral? One listener needs help guiding her guy to cunnilingus town, and Emily knows the best route ...more

  • Sex, Sleep & Fun with Facials

    Jul 17 2015

    Today’s show is filled with advice to help you spice up your sex life! Emily answers your emails on blowjob complications, sleep orgasms and the fascination with facials, and shares tips to help you sex up your next vacation. Plus, from revenge porn to horny sleepers to words that make everyone uncomfortable, this week’s Sex in the News has something for everyone. Having you been itching to give your girl an ejaculate face mask? Does your sex initiation game need improvement? How do you develo...more

  • Girl Talk With Emily, Anna & Danielle

    Jul 14 2015

    Girl talk: a holdfast of female friendships and a complete mystery to most men. But if you’ve ever wanted to listen in on a bonafide girl talk session, today’s Sex With Emily podcast is making your eavesdropping dreams come true! Emily welcomes real-life friends and fellow sex & dating aficionados Anna David and Danielle Stewart to enjoy some good old fashioned girl (sex) talk!   In between trading taboo fantasies, masturbation stories, and even a couple embarrassing anecdotes, Emily and her g...more

  • The Truth About Size & Sexual Peaks

    Jul 10 2015

    On today’s Sex With Emily podcast, we’re talking penis size, sexual peaks, and making the most of your favorite sex positions. Learn how to get what you want out of your partner, and gain sexual confidence at the same time!   So we’ve all heard that women reach their sexual peak later in life, and later than men, but does anyone actually know why? Emily breaks down the real, physiological answer about sexual peaks and explains why women have better sex in their 30’s. She also helps a listener ...more

  • Different (Sex) Strokes for Different Folks

    Jul 07 2015

    In this Sex With Emily podcast, we’re talking cuckolds, fetishes, orgasms and so much more. Emily is taking to the emails to answer all of your most pressing sex, dating and relationship questions. No matter what you’re into or how you like it, she’s bringing you the tips you need to embrace and enjoy a full sex life!   Are you confused about your orgasm? Does your husband dislike blowjobs? Are you really really into pantyhose? These are just a few of the emails Emily tackles from our loyal l...more

  • Flashback Friday: Everything Anal

    Jul 03 2015

    Are you open to anal? In this classic throwback podcast from Anal Sex Month 2013, we’re getting deep into the world of backdoor pleasure. If you’re new to anal play, this show will help you get comfortable with the idea of having something up your bum. Don’t worry, it’s not that scary. It’s actually quite delightful if done correctly. Emily provides a handful of anal sex pointers to make the back door poke more pleasurable and shares the three most important elements of anal sex: Relaxation, l...more

  • Break Ups, Hookups & Open Relationships

    Jun 30 2015

    At one point or another, all relationships run into problems and this podcast is here to help guide you along the sometimes perilous path to relationship happiness. Is your relationship working? Should you stay or should you go? And how do you get over an unexpected breakup? Emily offers advice on some of your trickiest sex and dating troubles.   How happy are you with your relationship? Emily and Menace help 5 listeners figure out the next steps to calming their unique relationship qualms. Ar...more

  • Casual Sex With Emily

    Jun 27 2015

    Today’s show is about casual hookups, friends with benefits, and all different types of non-committal sex.   What exactly constitutes casual sex? Emily and Menace welcome a panel of four single Los Angelenos to navigate the seas of sex without commitment! Together, they share and compare unique personal stories, experiences, and opinions about making love sans the love part. The table offers up their own take on how to hang in this new hookup culture, as well as the quality of one night stand...more

  • Blowjob Embargos & The Year of Pegging

    Jun 23 2015

    On this episode of Sex With Emily we’re talking about the wonders of pegging, oral sex, adventurous sex and so much more! Emily and Anderson cover some trending Sex in the News topics including sex dolls that can talk dirty and the recent rise of the strap-on -- yes, you read that right.   Are you interested in jumping on the pegging train, but don’t know how to get your partner on board? Is your long-time lover not into trying new things between the sheets? Emily answers a handful of listene...more

  • Threesomes, Rabbits & C.A.T. Sex

    Jun 19 2015

    If there’s one thing we can be sure that everyone wants, it’s better sex. This show is all about elevating your sex life, finding out what makes you (and your partner) feel good in bed! Whether you’re in search of the perfect position, having toy troubles, or are just looking to spice it up, Emily’s got the answers for you on today’s Sex With Emily podcast!   Do you know how to prime yourself for sex toy play? Are you hesitant to turn your twosome into a threesome? Are you a little bit curiou...more

  • Sexy Selfies & Fireman Fantasies

    Jun 16 2015

    On this show, Emily welcomes guest erotic photographer, director and host of Playboy TV’s “Adult Film School,” Holly Randall. Along with Menace, the two talk sex tapes, sexual confidence and the tricks to taking the perfect selfie.   What’s your wildest fantasy? Ever thought of filming it? Holly shares her experiences helping couples create their own erotic movies and breaks down the most popular on-screen fantasies, including the ones that most turn her on. She also helps Emily answer an ema...more

  • For the Love of Oral

    Jun 12 2015

    Oral sex. Everyone loves getting it, but how good are you at giving it? Do you know how to eat from her honey pot? Do you give homerun head? Whether you’re a man or a woman, an expert or a novice, everyone could get better at going down, and in this podcast, Emily is here to help! She tackles your most pressing sex questions, from oral sex insecurities to tips for sensitive gag reflexes to A to V etiquette, and gives her #1 oral sex tip for both men and women.   This show is your one stop, al...more

  • Sizzling Summer Sex

    Jun 10 2015

    Have you ever wondered why things seem so much sexier in summer? In this podcast, we’re getting into the topic of sizzling summer sex -- Emily breaks down actual scientific facts and statistics to explain why we’re all so turned on and ready to mingle during the hot-weather months and provides tips to help you turn up the heat on your bedroom routine. She also answers emails from a couple listeners who are looking to improve their relationships on both emotional and sexual levels, and shares her...more

  • Safe Sex & Naughty Texts

    Jun 05 2015

    In today’s show, Emily’s getting down and dirty with advice for people who LOVE sex, and want to have more of it! Emily shares some startling statistics on STD’s, discusses her favorite things about fellatio, and tackles some of your emails.   Is your relationship ready for anal sex? When you lose your orgasm, where does it go? Can sex ever be 100% safe? Emily addresses these listener questions, and shares some tried and true ways to overcome your “O-block”.   Whether you’ve been worrying ...more

  • How to Succeed at Online Dating

    Jun 03 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes fellow podcaster and dating expert Anna David to tackle the topic of online dating. Together, Emily and Anna dish on personal preferences, dating disasters, and uncanny coincidences they’ve come across while perusing the cybersphere for romance.   Why does every guy on Hinge play guitar? What’s with all the tigers on Tinder? Why isn’t anyone responding to your messages? Emily and Anna have answers to these questions, plus tips and tricks to help you find succes...more

  • Flirting, Squirting & Talking Dirty

    May 30 2015

    In today’s show, I’m talking sex positions, orgasms, and great sex toys to try this summer without breaking the bank. Ever wonder about the difference between squirting and orgasms? How about between male and female orgasms? This podcast fills in the blanks!   From a deflowering professional to a sex-positive “smart mattress”, this week’s Sex in the News goes international. Emily tackles emails on a number of sexy subjects, from 69 position hacks to squirting advice to how to develop sexual co...more

  • Kinky Fun Sex

    May 26 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes super-sexologist couple Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg, creators of the popular Showtime series “Sex With Sunny Megatron.” These sex-educating pleasure advocates are experts on BDSM, alternative sex styles, and all kinds of kink, and are more than happy to share their knowledge. Emily, Sunny and Ken share tips on how to expand your sexual scope and explore fun new ways to get freaky! Topics include prostate play, oral sex tips, squirting, erotica and so much ...more

  • Meet Your Sex Toy Match

    May 22 2015

    Three women, one epic sex toy review: Can you handle it?   In this show, we're keeping Masturbation Month going with the best sex toy review day yet! Emily, her producer Madison, and new intern Laurie all open up about some of their favorite new sex toys, share their experiences with the hot new programmable Flex vibrator, as well as some of the buzzworthy classics. Want to know what pleasure-packed product will help you find your G-spot? Or what toys are best for play for two? These ladies h...more

  • Dating Dilemmas & Blowjob Dealbreakers

    May 19 2015

    Today’s podcast is all about getting what you want in the bedroom and in the dating world. Whether you’ve been running into blowjob barriers, having sex position problems or dating drawbacks, Emily has the advice you need to turn your sex, relationship and dating luck around.   Are you and your partner stuck in a sex position rut? Does he/she have a fantasy you’re not comfortable exploring? Emily provides guidance on these sexual questions and concerns and  also helps a couple guys with their...more

  • Mastering Masturbation for Better Sex

    May 15 2015

    Masturbation Month marches on and the celebration continues in this Sex WIth Emily podcast! Hear some eye-opening self-love statistics, and interesting facts about whackin’ it, not to mention some titillating tips on how to take your masturbation to the next level.   Do you have a sexy masturbation playlist? Have you been neglecting your nipples? How can men use vibrators during solo sex? Whether you’re a man, a woman, or a couple, get all the hot tips you’ll need to have a successful Masturb...more

  • Magic of Masturbation

    May 12 2015

    It’s Masturbation Month, and today’s podcast is all about that magical act! Emily breaks down why masturbation is so important, and how it will blast your sex life into a whole new level! Get special Masturbation Month tips for men and for women, as well as expert sex toy advice, and learn what’s new in pleasuring yourself.   So how did Masturbation Month come to be? Emily explains the origins of this month-long celebration and lets us in on ways that playing with yourself is good for your men...more

  • Sex Drive, Doggie Style & Bad Sex Impressions

    May 08 2015

    On the latest “Sex with Emily” podcast, Emily helps you through some of your biggest sexual hangups. From bad first-sex impressions to troublesome sex positions, she tackles your listener emails, gets into some internet porn tips, and debunks a common myth about her show: Does she really get tons of creepy listeners? Plus, do you prefer morning sex? Or are you a late night lover? Emily and Anderson explore a study on men and women’s sexual preferences, and discuss the benefits of both lovemaki...more

  • Blow Job Blunders & Sex With Friends

    May 05 2015

    This episode of Sex With Emily is about all different kinds of sex. From threesomes to sex with friends to sex with your boyfriend’s friends, Emily guides us through the in’s and out’s of these different sexual endeavors. Is a dreaded Ikea trip in your relationship future? Have you tried using sex to reduce stress? Are you horny and having trouble letting go of a lost loved one? Well, you’re in luck! All these topics are tackled this week in Sex in the News. Emily gives some pertinent advice t...more

  • Unfiltered & Frisky with Brandi Glanville

    May 01 2015

    On today’s show, Emily welcomes fellow podcaster, television personality, and best-selling author Brandi Glanville. Together, the two get in depth and personal about social media’s influence on the dating world, cell phone etiquette, the correct way to approach a threesome, and of course, SEX!   What does it mean if your partner is too secretive with his/her phone? Do romance and mystery still exist in this share-crazy world?  What do you do if you want to have a threesome? What is a “micro-re...more

  • Adventures in Foreskin

    Apr 28 2015

    On this episode of Sex With Emily, we’re tackling some of your most personal sex concerns. So you’ve begun to experience adventurous sex. What are the next steps to keeping it fun and hot after you’ve started? Are you worried that your uncircumcised penis deters women from sleeping with you? Is it all that bad being a virgin at 25? Emily uses her personal experiences to calm these listeners’ worries and answer their sex questions. Also, how does different music affect your sexy time mood? And ...more

  • Best Of: The Break-Up Break Down

    Apr 24 2015

    This classic episode of Sex With Emily is all about breakups.  Emily welcomes licensed therapist and author Dr. Rachel Sussman who wrote the book on getting over break ups - No seriously, she wrote a comprehensive guide to ending relationships called The Breakup Bible! Emily and Rachel get into the nitty and gritty of breaking up, including the RIGHT and the WRONG way to deal once the relationship has ended. From Facebook stalking to overtexting, Dr. Rachel addresses some of the common post-brea...more

  • Sex Outside the Box with Dr. Chris Donaghue

    Apr 21 2015

    On this week’s Sex With Emily podcast, Emily welcomes New York native, sex & relationship therapist, author, and television personality Dr. Chris Donaghue to discuss some common questions in sexuality and intimacy. Is it okay to be a little extra kinky?  What is normal (sexually speaking)? Together, they go in depth about our sociosexual obsession with being “normal,” and brief us on the importance of sexual deprogramming. Dr. Chris talks about his new book Sex Outside The Lines and how he got i...more

  • Penis Mischief & Pretend Orgasms

    Apr 17 2015

    In this classic throwback episode of Sex With Emily from 2012, Emily and Menace address birth control and penis mischief in the news, and answer emails from a few girls with orgasm problems. Also, is your man overstaying his welcome in your home? Have you fallen into a “reverse cowgirl” pattern? Emily and Menace explore the wonders of “handjobs performed on women,” Dunkin’ Donuts, and an unsettling, but comprehensive set of statistics and facts about the ever-present issue of CHEATING.   Fresh...more

  • Madonna/Whores and Jesus/Gigolos

    Apr 14 2015

    On this show, Emily welcomes guest comedian and reality TV personality Danielle Stewart!  Together they discuss past relationships, hookups, and Danielle’s recent hosting gig on the relationship-focused show Sex Box. Emily helps a newly divorced male listener get back into the dating field, and offers some insightful DO’s and DON’TS of online dating. She and her guest also give advice on how to watch for signs of sexual compatibility early on in a dating relationship.   This episode is chock-fu...more

  • Adventurous Sex: Hot New Things to Try Tonight

    Apr 11 2015

    Tonight’s episode answers the question on many monogamous couples’ minds: How can we spice up our sex life? With the help of Anderson and her assistant Madison, Emily gives tips on how to get adventurous and try new things with your partner, from new sex positions to switching up locations to the lost art of phone sex. The gang also gets into some fun sexting stats: How often are Americans getting freaky with their phones?  Sure the sex was wild and crazy in the beginning of your romance, but h...more

  • No Strings Attached & Vagina Facts

    Apr 08 2015

    In this show, Emily and Menace are here to answer of all your sex and relationship questions! Can a Friends With Benefits situation succeed if one person catches the feels? What do you do when you’re both grossed out and turned on by your partner’s porn collection? Can you judge a partner’s sexual performance by the first BJ? And why are women so freaked out about masturbation? Plus, Emily shares some free swingin’ sex in the news and provides a very important PSA on vagina shaming.. Basically, ...more

  • I'll Take My Sex "Animal Style"

    Apr 04 2015

    On today’s show, Emily tackles some of your top sex and relationship relationship questions, including a few you may be too scared to ask. She and Anderson break down the appeal of doggie style (or as Anderson calls it “animal style”), and get into the topic of mutual masturbation - Why are women so afraid of putting on a show? From brothel testers to office ejaculators to a domestic dispute over eaten salsa, Emily shares some Sex in the News that will make you laugh, cringe and more closely g...more

  • Sex Scandals & Penis Problems

    Apr 01 2015

    Today’s podcast covers two things everyone loves talking about: penis problems and crazy sex laws! Emily and Menace tell you what scandalous sex acts will get you arrested (or worse) around the world, including a few that are pretty close to home, and discuss some trending penis news. They also tackle a few of your emails on paying for dates, coming clean about faking orgasms and, you guessed it, penis size. This show is full of fun facts and advice to help you get the most out of your sex and...more

  • Redefining HER Orgasm with Nicole Daedone

    Mar 27 2015

    Ready for another Sex With Emily classic? This week, we’re changing everything you know about the female orgasm. Emily is joined by Nicole Daedone, author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm and CEO of One Taste. This lovely lady has made your pleasure HER business, and in this show, she is ready to share her orgasmic knowledge! From the secret to the perfect stroke to the magical art of OM (orgasmic meditation), this podcast will teach women how to unlock new realms of pleasur...more

  • How to Blow Like a Pro

    Mar 24 2015

    Did you miss your chance to celebrate Steak & BJ Day the right way? Consider this show your own personal blow job workshop! Variety is the spice of life, and is definitely the key to a mind-blowing blow job. With the help of “Married Anderson”, Emily shares some advice on how to mix up your BJ routine and use all the tools at your disposal, including your lips, tongue, hands and possibly even a toy or two!  Emily also reads a couple scintillating blow job stories submitted by real-life listener...more

  • Married Sex vs. Single Sex with Lynette Carolla

    Mar 21 2015

    When it comes to married sex versus single sex, is the grass really greener on the single side?  In this show, Emily welcomes Lynette Carolla, the host of the hilarious podcast For Crying Out Loud, not to mention wife and mother of two. She and Emily swap stories from their very different dating lives, and Lynette shares her candid opinions on sex, marriage and single-person envy. Plus, after 20 years with the same man, Lynette knows a little something about keeping the sex hot, and is ready to...more

  • Best Of: Ejaculation Etiquette

    Mar 18 2015

    In this throwback podcast, fresh from the Sex With Emily vault, we’re taking it back to the San Francisco days! Emily is joined by good old Menace to discuss/debate a variety of topics, from robot sex to awkward sex toys to the least embarrassing word for the female anatomy, and share some science-proven secrets to hot sex. Together, Emily and Menace tackle some of your emails on sex, dating and ejaculation etiquette. At a listener’s request, Emily breaks down the many sexy erogenous zones tha...more

  • Flashback Friday: Sex Klass with Porn Star Kayden Kross

    Mar 13 2015

    In this throwback podcast Emily is joined in the studio by the very sexy Kayden Kross, award-winning adult film star, writer, and best-selling Fleshlight model. This bombshell bookworm opens up about her journey into the porn industry (which involves secret stripping and a douchebag pony), her relationship with a fellow adult film star, her mind-blowing oral sex techniques and so much more. She and Emily also take a few call-in questions, and share some important vagina facts. Don't miss it!

  • Penis Captivus & Other Sexual Hangups

    Mar 10 2015

    Are your sexual hangups stopping you from having the sex and relationships you’ve always wanted? In this podcast, Emily and Menace answer your emails and give advice to help you overcome your sexual obstacles. Today’s topics include sexual stamina, unexpected bisexual fantasies, fake orgasms, a lack of orgasms and a relationship lacking in sexual chemistry. Plus, a sex in the news story that has everything: Cheating, witchcraft, public fornication, an angry mob, and the medical term for a penis ...more

  • CamGirls, Exes & Sex Tips From Spiders

    Mar 06 2015

    In this podcast, Emily and Menace answer your top sex and relationship questions and tackle some current events in the world of sex. Today’s email topics include open relationships, bondage, communication with the Ex and yet another question (or two) on anal play! Also, from public indecency to Penthouse star, Emily and Menace discuss Kendra Sunderland and the rising trend of college webcam girls. Is camming the new American dream? Plus, a firsthand lesson in Sexting With Emily and a story of ho...more

  • Married & Sexless

    Mar 04 2015

    It’s one of the top searched relationship problems on Google and it could be happening to you.. Today’s podcast is all about sexless relationships! Emily breaks down some of those pesky problems that may be hindering your sex life and provides guidance to help you through them. From mismatched libidos to opposite sex schedules, Emily covers some of the most common sexless relationship questions that she gets asked, and shares tips on how to break through those sexual barriers. She and Menace a...more

  • Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell: The Sex Number Rule

    Feb 28 2015

    In the latest podcast, Emily and Menace tackle some of your emails and give advice on how to stop getting in your own way, and get the sex and relationships you deserve. Email topics include how to relax for anal sex, sexual insecurities, long distance relationships and how to cope with a partner’s not-so-magic number. Plus scandalous Coachella sex stories, an upcoming workshop that will blow you away (Literally!) and some scintillating sex in the news! Whether it’s a high sex number, a lack of...more

  • Go Down On Her Like You Mean It

    Feb 24 2015

    In this episode, Emily answers listener emails and dives into one of your favorite topics: Oral sex! Plus she shares what she really thought of the Fifty Shades of Grey film, discusses some kinky sex in the news and recounts her latest near-death experience.. And no, it wasn’t from eating her first meal at Carl’s Jr. Whether you hate doing it, you’re not great at doing it, or you think you’re doing it well but you could still use some guidance, Emily breaks through your oral barriers and teach...more

  • Foreplay and Orgasms for All

    Feb 21 2015

    Now that the excitement of Valentine’s day has passed, you’re probably thinking, “what’s next”? In this show, Emily shares tips on how to keep your sex and dating game going strong all year long. She and her assistant discuss the results of Timeout.com’s “World of Dating” survey, which gives an inside look into the dating habits of 11,000 singles in 24 cities, and Emily shares her top tip for dating success: Be the person you want to find. She also answers emails on porn problems, quickies and m...more

  • Fifty Shades of Kinky Sex

    Feb 17 2015

    Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past two years, you know that 50 Shades of Grey has been taking over the world. In this show, Emily is bringing you your 50 Shades of Kink education and telling you the little things you can do to bring BDSM into the bedroom.   First Emily breaks down the appeal of BDSM, tackles some common myths surrounding the lifestyle, and shares the secret to a successful powerplay relationship: Mutual trust. She explains how to take elements of the popular ...more

  • The Best Sex (Toys) of Your Life

    Feb 14 2015

    It’s that magical time of year again - Sex toy review time! In this show Emily gives you her picks for the best sex toys on the market. She and her assistant Madison give you an in depth review of their newest favorite, that has the power to turn your penis into a human vibrator. Intrigued? You should be! Emily also tackles some of your hottest sex questions on vibrators, backdoor play, friends with benefits, and the politics of trading sex for gifts. Plus, what unexpected texting habit might ...more

  • Getting Shameless & Sexy With Shanola Hampton

    Feb 11 2015

    In this show, Emily is joined by actress Shanola Hampton from the hit show Shameless to talk relationships, love and kinky sex - both on and off screen. From her thoughts on masturbation to large penises, Shanola holds nothing back! She shares her secrets for making a marriage last, keeping things sexy post-baby and even gives us her greatest tip for being good in bed. Plus, after 19 years with the same penis, Shanola can’t wait to hear all about Emily’s active sex life, and has plenty of quest...more

  • V-Day & V-Steams

    Feb 06 2015

    Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, meaning the perfect time to spoil the ones you love.. And that includes yourself! In this podcast, Emily is giving you her top picks for the perfect sexy Valentine’s Day gifts. Whether you’re shopping for your lover, your friend, or your sexy self, she and her assistant tell you which toys will be bringing you nothing but pleasure all year long. Emily and Menace discuss the steamiest new trend in celebrity “health”, swap V-Day stories and tackle some...more

  • Smokin' Hot Sex

    Feb 03 2015

    On today's show Emily is joined by Menace and together they are answering your emails. Topics include lingering ex-girlfriends, long-distance sex, and how to sex up a sexless marriages. Emily's friend Josh from CraftVapery.com stops by the studio to reveal the link between vaping and sexual stamina.. After all, the only smoke that should be in the bedroom is that of you and your partner after super hot sex. Emily and Menace tackle some scintillating sex in the news, and Emily wraps it up with so...more

  • Talking Dirty With Jake and Amir

    Jan 31 2015

    On today’s show Emily welcomes Jake and Amir, the hilarious BFF’s known for their popular CollegeHumor webseries and advice-giving podcast “If I Were You”. They provide commentary and a male perspective on a variety of topics, from sex toys to stamina to sexting like a pro, and even assist Emily in answering some listener emails.   But first, Emily gives the sex toy newbies their vibration education. Between the Dua by Je Joue to the wireless Oh-Mi-Bod, Jake and Amir ponder the possibilities o...more

  • Sex Talk With Adult Film Star Conner Habib

    Jan 27 2015

    In this throwback show, Emily sits down with gay adult film star, writer and lecturer Conner Habib to talk porn sex, real sex and the best blow job tips (from someone who knows best!)   Think being an adult film star is all fun, games and orgies? Think again! Conner gives us the inside scoop on what it’s like behind the scenes on the porn set. He explains the big difference between being good at porn and being good in bed, and shares how his career has helped him to be less superficial in the ...more

  • To Squirt or Not To Squirt

    Jan 24 2015

    Today’s episode of Sex With Emily is about everyone’s latest obsession.. Yes, we’re talking female ejaculation! Emily and Anderson discuss this hot topic, share the latest sex in the news, and answer your listener emails that you sent to Feedback@SexWithEmily.com. Topics include getting into kinky sex, bringing new toys into the bedroom, how porn may be affecting your sex life, and more. This episode tackles answers some of the key sex issues and gives tips to move past those sexual hangups. G...more

  • Ready, Set, Oral

    Jan 21 2015

    You’ve got sex questions; Emily and Menace have answers.. And then some! From the politics of sex and dating in the workplace to a quest for the missing orgasm, in this show I’m answering your emails and giving you tips to ease your sexual anxieties, and help you step things up in the bedroom. Also discussed: One very sassy swedish pop star who proved just how accommodating condoms can be. And how did a husband’s good intentions result in a “noxious dildo blaze”? This podcast has tons of ente...more

  • Sexless Marriages, Men & Meatballs

    Jan 16 2015

    Are your issues with self-esteem and body-image weighing down your sex drive? In this show, Emily addresses some of these key sex-killing issues, and shares tips to help you get your sex life right back where you want it. Special guest Alex Jamieson, author of the book Women, Food and Desire, stops by the studio to weigh in on the curious relationship between body image, diet and desire, for both men and women.

  • Dating Survival Podcast

    Jan 14 2015

    Is your fear of rejection holding you back from fully embracing the dating scene? In this show, Emily teaches you how to handle rejection and how to bounce back an even better person because of it. So that cutie at the bar didn’t want to trade numbers? Or that guy on Tinder pulled the ghost maneuver? Emily gives advice on how to shake it off, stop the obsessing and view each rejection as a blessing in disguise. Plus, for those who have trouble just saying no, she shares guidance on how to rejec...more

  • Text Your Way to Sex-Cess (And Other Charming Tips)

    Jan 10 2015

    On tonight’s show, Emily welcome back Jordan Harbinger, host of the Art Of Charm podcast, to talk the rules of love and dating in the 21st century. In between bouts of witty banter, they address the topics of body language, confidence and communication skills for the texting era. They also answer a couple of listener emails on dating with no chemistry and a troubling relationship discovery. This show has the advice you need to date like a pro, and charm the pants off of anyone (dating or otherw...more

  • New Year, Better Sex

    Jan 08 2015

    In Emily’s first podcast of 2015, she’s making her New Year’s resolution all about you. She and Menace answer your questions on love and sex that you sent to Feedback@SexWithEmily.com - Topics include trying out sex toys with a significant other, balancing a sex life and busy schedules, dating someone with a crazy family and jealousy after infidelity. They share some secrets for making a relationship work, and stress the importance of compromise in intimate relationships.   Emily explains why...more

  • Random Acts of Sex

    Jan 02 2015

    In this show, Emily provides you with a random selection of sex and dating tips to bring you into the New Year. She shares the ingredients for the perfect date, something you do not want to miss, and answer some listener emails that you sent to Feedback@SexWithEMily.com. She gives tips on how to go down on like on a woman like you mean it, and helps a listener suffering from a stagnant sex life. From hand-jobs to blow-jobs to how to make the most of your penis, this show is full of random tips t...more

  • Step Up Your Sex Life in 2015

    Dec 30 2014

    It’s a new year, meaning a new chance to change your life for the better! Sure you can promise to hit the gym or floss your teeth everyday but why not commit to something that will bring you pleasure all year long? This show is all about making a commitment to have better sex and better relationships in 2015!   This year, take responsibility for your own sexual pleasure, say goodbye to sexual ruts and leave those post-sex regrets in 2014.  Emily explains why you should move on from relationshi...more

  • Sticky Sex Situations

    Dec 26 2014

    Just in time for the new year, Emily answers the top questions that have been asked in 2014. Maybe your boyfriend has an uncut member and you don’t know how to ‘handle it.’ Or you want to increase your sexual stamina, but don’t know where to start. From preparation to penetration, Emily gives you the “How To”s of anal sex and gives advice for a listener in a tricky dating situation.. When does a porn obsession become a deal breaker? She and Anderson discuss both sides of the matter. With the n...more

  • Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

    Dec 23 2014

    Have you ever wanted to have a sex-related conversation, but didn’t know how to get things started? In this show, Emily teaches you how to approach your partner for what you want in bed, and gives tips to guide you through the big sex talk. With the help of Menace and her assistant Madison, Emily role-plays some sample sexual scripts, including how to ask your partner for a threesome, how to introduce the idea of anal sex and how to bring sex toys into the bedroom. As Emily always says, comm...more

  • Sex With Loveline Hosts: Drew and Mike

    Dec 20 2014

    Tonight’s show marks a couple of very important firsts: It is Emily’s first time in a Santa Hat (gasp) and it is the first official Loveline/Sex With Emily crossover podcast. Can you handle it? Emily is joined by Dr. Drew Pinsky and Mike Catherwood, the dynamic hosts from the popular syndicated radio show Loveline, to talk sex, relationships and Loveline over the years! Together they address a variety of topics, including marriage, pornography and the impact Tinder is having on our sex lives. T...more

  • Single for the Holidays

    Dec 18 2014

    This show is all about helping you have better sex & better relationships over the holidays. Emily answers some listener emails on one night stands, sexual confidence and how to make sex better with an inexperienced partner. Plus, New York columnist Annie Daly calls in to talk holiday hookups, relationships and dating trends. Are you suffering from mistletoe syndrome? Emily explains why it’s okay to fly solo this time of year, and shares tips to help you embrace being single for the holidays. ...more

  • How to Sex Up Your Holidays

    Dec 13 2014

    In this week’s show, Emily is dishing out tips to bring you more sex and less stress this holiday season. Not sure what present your partner would be most happy to see under the tree? Emily has got you covered, with her top gift picks to bring you and your partner pleasure all year long. She also shares the best way to survive time with the in-laws and teaches you how to step up your sexual routine (as a form of stress-relief, of course!) For some, it’s the most wonderful time of the year. For ...more

  • First Step to Better Sex with Lady Cheeky

    Dec 09 2014

    Today’s show teaches you how to feel better about yourself, paving the way to stronger self-confidence and a better sex life. Emily is joined by Elle Chase, a sex educator and leader in the body-positive movement. Together, she and Emily explore the topics of body image, erotica and the importance of self-love, and provide tips you need to get the sex life you’ve always dreamed of. From the best sex toys on the market to the hottest porn to share with a partner, Emily and Elle share multiple...more

  • Better You, Better Sex - How to Have It All

    Dec 06 2014

    Tonight’s show is all about helping you learn what sex can be at it’s very best. Emily welcomes two guests with a very unusual profession: Tamar and Raymond Reilly are a happily married couple who also happen to be sex surrogate therapists. Together they address some common sexual roadblocks people experience and give tips to help you improve your life, both in and out of the bedroom. Emily and her guests share some of their top tips to help couples enhance their sex lives and explain why you ...more

  • Make Sex Fun (Again)

    Dec 03 2014

    In today’s show, Emily’s dishing out advice to help you have the best sex and relationships. Topics include how to last longer in bed, how to make scheduled sex fun, and how to get back into the dating scene after being hurt. She gives tips for a listener on how to master mutual orgasms despite a lagging libido, and helps a guy get over his past relationship traumas to start dating again. Menace offers some controversial tips on how to land the prettiest girl in the room, while Emily questions t...more

  • Gratitude Is Sexy

    Nov 27 2014

    Ready for a lesson in partner appreciation? This very special Thanksgiving episode of Sex With Emily is all about strengthening your relationship through gratitude. Emily’s teaches you the importance of appreciating your partner, not just for Thanksgiving, but all year around. Between talk of Thanksgiving plans and one night stands, Emily shares some of the things she is most grateful for and reminds us why we all should be thankful for sex. Plus, how to sidestep those awkward questions from fam...more

  • The Best Dating Advice You've Never Heard

    Nov 26 2014

    Tonight’s podcast explains why taking your dating OFFline into the “real world” will increase your odds of finding a match. Emily and Menace reveal the best places to meet people offline, and hot tips for meeting people wherever you go, even at the car wash.   Dating no longer has to be an either/or situation where you only date online or offline. Developing the skills to meet people in our daily life, outside of our computers and phones, is one of the key ingredients to success in life and i...more

  • Sex Toys & "Sext" Offenders

    Nov 22 2014

    This podcast is about sex toys and “sext” offenders.  Emily's first guest is Alicia Relles, designer and head “vagina” of the sex-positive retailer Je Joue, here to give us an exclusive sneak peak at the latest tech trends in vibrators and buzz-worthy goodies coming soon to Je Joue. Then Emily welcomes her second guest, Alexandra Tweten, creator of “Bye Felipe”, an Instagram account chronicling angry responses from rejected men over dating sites, which after a month has managed to attract almo...more

  • Dirty Talk, Dealbreakers & Disappearing Dates

    Nov 19 2014

    On tonight’s show, Emily answers your most pressing sex and relationship questions that you sent to Feedback@SexWithEmily.com. Topics include: how to rock the missionary position, the right lube for you, and what to do when the dirty talk gets too dirty. Emily and Anderson discuss a surprising fact on millennial dating, tell you what two qualities you need for a successful relationship and answer the question on everyone’s mind: Where do all the disappearing daters go? Life is too short to have...more

  • The Myth of Sex Addiction With Dr. David Ley

    Nov 15 2014

    On tonight’s show, Emily has clinical psychologist Dr. David Ley in the studio to discuss his book “The Myth Of Sex Addiction” - Is it real? Or do  we live in a world addicted to addiction? Emily and Dr. Ley explore the difference between healthy and unhealthy sexual behavior, the urgency of sexual communication, the psychology of porn and the cryptic cuckold lifestyle. This Podcast will teach you how to approach sex in a healthy way. The secret to having an amazing sex life is all about balanc...more

  • How to Please A Penis Princess

    Nov 13 2014

    Today we're talking all about those picky penises in your life. I give tips for both men and women to help you please those high-maintenance members, and make sure both parties leave happy. Also, why don’t more women carry condoms? Why are so many millennials stuck in relationship limbo? And what 11 lessons should you never learn from porn?   All this and more in the latest Sex With Emily podcast.

  • Love, Lust & Other Addictions

    Nov 08 2014

    These days it seems like everyone is addicted to something. Whether it’s a substance, a relationship, hot sex, or even our cell phones, we all have those habits that hold us back. On today’s show, Emily sits down with addiction expert Tommy Rosen to discuss the different forms of addiction, recovery and the path to better sex and better relationships. Together, they touch on some common relationship issues that couples face, and provide advice for a listener on how to recover from a recent brea...more

  • Make Out Like You Mean It

    Nov 05 2014

    This show is all about the importance of kissing! From the first light peck to the full body make out, Emily tells you how to kiss like a pro and sweep any partner off of their feet. She gives you the simple steps for delivering one hell of a kiss and answers some common kissing questions: How much is too much in the tongue department? How do you pull off the lip nibble? And what the heck do you do with your hands? Emily shares her #1 trick for creating your own perfect kiss and even gets into s...more

  • Your Freaky Sex Survival Guide

    Oct 31 2014

    In honor of Halloween, this show is all about those freaky sex situations you may find yourself in, from unusual kinky sex requests to inappropriate dirty talk to the unwelcome wandering backdoor finger. Emily the Orgasm Fairy, armed with her Magic Wand, provides guidance to help you survive even the scariest sexual mishaps! She and Anderson swap spooky sex stories, share a few unusual euphemisms for lady parts and discuss some unsettling Sex in the News. Plus, tips to help you recover from awkw...more

  • Tease Your Way to Even Better Sex

    Oct 30 2014

    In this podcast, Emily shares the necessary art of teasing. Those delicious moments that lead to sex, the heightened sexual tension and the sizzling anticipation is a huge part of what turns good sex into mind-blowing sex. Also, diid you know the breastgasm is the 2nd most common orgasm for women? Emily teaches you exactly how to master the breasts for her ultimate pleasure. Emily and Anderson talk about why people are having sex in the airport before they even join the mile high club. Emily exp...more

  • The Best Oral Sex Tips You’ve Never Heard

    Oct 24 2014

    This week Emily shares the best oral sex tips you’ve never heard, why you should date multiple people at once, how to approach a person successfully and why your phone might not only be ruining your relationship but also preventing you from finding one. Also, watch us record live at sexwithemily.com every Thursday night, 8:30-9:30pm, sexwithemily.com

  • Mistakes Men Make in Bed (and How to Fix Them!)

    Oct 22 2014

    This week’s Podcast is all about how being the best you can be.. Especially in the bedroom! Emily recaps on the 5 mistakes guys may or may not be making in bed, and gives advice on how to avoid them. She and Menace discuss some new developments in sex and dating, and help a listener improve her dirty talking skills.   Emily and Menace start off with a discussion on dating and mating in the LA scene, and consider some questions of modern-day monogamy. Did you know that more than half of women h...more

  • How To Meet Your Match

    Oct 17 2014

    On today's episode, Amy Laurent, relationship expert, matchmaker, and Emily’s co-star in Bravo’s Miss Advised calls in to share her best tips for meeting your perfect match. They discuss first date dating mistakes, how long you should wait to sleep with someone new, and who should make the first move. Emily answers emails from listeners. Topics include: advice on how to best compliment a woman, the best way to flirt, and how to tell when your relationship doesn’t have a future. All this and mu...more

  • Be Direct for Better Sex

    Oct 14 2014

    In this very special episode of Sex With Emily, a reunion takes place.. Emily and Menace are back again, and they discuss some recent sex trends, engage in a little reminiscing and dish out some much-needed listener advice.Today's email topics include: A question on Kegel Exercises for men; How to recover from a bad oral experience; How to handle dubious boyfriend behavior; How to tell if she's really interested; How to deliver multiple O's.Then it's on to your listener emails! How do you get pa...more

  • Sexy & Trending

    Oct 11 2014

    Emily explains how to have better sex by going back to basics, and this round she is talking kissing, hand jobs, oral and more! Joined by Shira Lazar, host of the interactive daily show “What’s Trending”, and all-around cool girl, Emily discusses some of the key cornerstones of great sex.   The ladies start off with a discussion on what it’s like to be single and trending in Los Angeles. They dish on a couple celeb-fan scandals, get into a little sex toy talk, and share their mutual gratitude...more

  • Game-Playing, Check-Splitting & Other Dating Cliches

    Oct 07 2014

    Today’s show is all about helping you through your sex and dating troubles! Emily and Anderson answer your feedback emails, and give advice to help you get what you want, both in the bedroom and out of it. Topics covered include how to communicate with your partner about bedroom needs, how to get your partner excited about sharing sexual fantasies, how to cope with stagnant sex lives and a quick lesson on confidence. First, they start out with three tried-and-true dating commandments that you s...more

  • How to Master the Bedroom Basics

    Oct 03 2014

    Do you ever feel like we get so caught up on being great lovers that we’ve forgotten some of our most basic bedroom moves? I mean sure, you can twist yourself into a pretzel during doggie style, but if you can’t give a good hand job, what’s the point? This show is all about taking you back to the basics, to the things you think you learned in middle school, but forgot along the way. Between talk of self-loving and selfish lovers, Emily gives some much-needed masturbation education and shares w...more

  • Random Acts of Masturbation

    Oct 01 2014

    This Podcast is all about keeping it classy.. Just kidding! Emily is joined in the studio by a surprise guest who is no stranger to talking sex. Mike Catherwood, well-known radio personality and one half of the Loveline dream team, stops by to talk love and masturbation.. Among other things. Emily and Mike discuss following your passions and what it takes to give a really good Podcast. Emily tells the story of how she came into the Podcast game, and Mike shares the epic tale of his most recent...more

  • How To Kink It Up

    Sep 26 2014

    It happens to the best of us: We get caught in a sexual rut and can’t seem to wriggle ourselves free to a more exciting sex life. This show is all about embracing the kinkier side of sex, and opening your mind up to new realms of sexual adventure!   Emily is joined by Rhune Kincaid and Lindsay Floyd, fellow members of the Loveline family, and the hilarious minds behind the Pretty Oddcast - a fresh new Podcast that takes a look into alternate lifestyles & fringe sub-cultures. So what IS kinky ...more

  • A Sexpert Threesome: Your Questions Answered By the Experts

    Sep 24 2014

    In this week’s Podcast, Emily takes her show on the road.. Literally! Joined by two leading experts in the sex therapy field, Emily records this show live from Catalyst Con, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Whether because they are the uneducated or just plain uncomfortable, people treat sex like the elephant in the room. No one talks about what’s going on between the sheets. But if you can’t talk about it with your doctor, or even with the person you’re...more

  • Sex Appeal: Why You Need It & How To Get It, With Robin Antin

    Sep 24 2014

    Today’s show is all about sexual confidence: How do you get it, how do you work it, and how do you become a star in the bedroom? Emily is joined in the studio by Robin Antin to talk dancing and sex appeal, two things she knows all about! So what IS sexy? Emily and Robin share their personal secrets to sexiness, and tell us how to discover our inner sex appeal! Emily gets to know her guest, the founder of the “Pussycat Dolls”, choreographer, producer, director, designer, entrepreneur and all-aro...more

  • How to Tell A Naked Man What To Do with Candida Royalle

    Sep 13 2014

    Emily has special guest Candida Royalle on the show, a sex-positive pioneer in the adult film industry and the original inventor of couples’ erotica. They cover a variety of topics, including Candida’s ground breaking company, Femme Productions, the ever-changing adult industry, the benefits of couples’ porn and tips to becoming sexually empowered. From female insecurities to male’s penis complexes, Emily and Candida discuss recurring conflicts surrounding mainstream pornography. Men love it, b...more

  • How to Be A Sexual Superhero

    Sep 09 2014

    This week’s show is all about the secret to your sexual powers, your sex drive! Emily talks about how to get the amount of sex you crave and what to do when your libido takes a dive. She covers some of the lesser known sex issues, including a woman with a secret porn habit, a few ladies whose husbands aren’t into sex, and a man who divorces his wife over her insatiable sexual appetite.   Throughout the show, Emily tackles common misconceptions and gives you the real sex drive facts. Whether yo...more

  • "The Fappening": How to Avoid the Dangers of Selfies and Social Media

    Sep 05 2014

    Do you really want to send that nude selfie? If you don’t want the “The Fappening” happening to you, you better tune in.  Emily and Samantha Schacher from Dr. Drew HLN dive right into the mass exposure of A-List celebrity nude pictures hacked from the cloud and what we can all learn from this debacle. With our heads buried in our phones, have we become social media zombies? Samantha tells the story of how she literally ran smack dab into her husband when they first met, but if she had been on h...more

  • Just the Tip: How to Succeed in the Dating Game

    Sep 03 2014

    In today’s Podcast, Emily and Anderson are teaming up to help you succeed in the dating game, and satisfy your sexual needs! They answer listener emails, cover some of the do’s and don’ts of dating, and address some common dating misconceptions. Before they jump into some sex in the news, Emily has some news of her own. She’s ready to take her own advice and jump back into dating, which means you can look forward to more tales from the Emily dating files. Speaking of which, Emily recounts her m...more

  • The Orgasm Gap: How to Last Longer in Bed

    Aug 29 2014

    Today’s episode answers the age old dilemma for men and women: How can I enjoy a more fulfilling sex life? Flooded by listener emails about dissatisfying sex lives, today’s show focuses on the “orgasm gap” between men and women. Men tend to arrive to the party earlier than women (on average) so how do we close this gap so everyone can have their fair share of orgasms? Women can have multiple orgasms, so why do men have 3 orgasms for every 1 that women have? So what is the exact definition of P...more

  • Overcoming Jealousy

    Aug 26 2014

    Emily shares four important steps for overcoming jealousy. You can get past jealousy in most situations if you can let go of your insecurities. (Unless they really are cheating on you with that young thing down the street). Also… Find out why she’s really moaning during sex. Is it because you’re a sex God? Or is she just faking it? Do shiest people really moan the loudest? Is there a platonic dating site for those who don’t want to get down? What if you just want to ride bikes with someone ...more

  • How to Stay Penis Positive

    Aug 23 2014

    This show is all about having great sex and great relationships, no matter what you’re packing down below. Emily and Anderson swap sexting stories, answer listener emails, discuss topics such as lingerie, lesbians and what NOT to do at a strip club.   Emily opines about the rising popularity of dick pics: Is this the new American pastime? Or just a frisky form of digital foreplay? The two also discuss the latest sex in the news stories, including a man with no penis who has the secret to se...more

  • Facing Your Backdoor Fears

    Aug 21 2014

    Happy Anal Pleasure Month! This show is dedicated to helping you explore the world of pleasure located right at your backdoor! Whether you’re male, female, single or in a relationship, gay or straight, this podcast addresses your questions and helps you to face your backdoor fears! Along with her trusty assistant, Emily provides tips and tricks on how to make anal sex a fun, pleasurable time for everyone! Also on the show, master of prostate play, Dr. Charlie Glickman, calls in to give his his e...more

  • How To Make Her Moan with Joanna Angel

    Aug 16 2014

    On this podcast we have the tattoo’d darling of the adult industry, Miss Joanna Angel, back in the studio to educate us on all things SEX. Joanna shares tips learned on the job, from tricks to taking the sexiest selfies to how to make a woman REALLY moan! Joanna and Emily talk firsts: First sexual encounters, first orgasms, first girl crushes and more! They swap stories of one-night-stands gone wrong, and sex so bad, it makes you wish you had stayed home and ordered a pizza! What’s this sexy l...more

  • Inside Bunny Ranch: The Tale of Dennis Hof & the 37 Orgasms

    Aug 13 2014

    Today’s show is all about thinking outside of the sexual box, and here to help is owner of the Moonlite Bunny Ranch and all-around sexual dynamo, Dennis Hof! Along with beautiful Bunny, Miss Ava Adora, Emily leads Dennis through a lively discussion on sex, legal prostitution, and how to really please a woman - and that’s just the tip! From a self-described sexual square to the Cathouse King, Dennis shares his epic journey that led him to become one of the most successful and knowledgeable men i...more

  • What’s Your Safe Word? Anna David Talks Addiction and Sex

    Aug 09 2014

    Do you find intelligence a turn-on? Well, you're in luck this week because THE Anna David is in the studio with Emily and Anderson to talk all about her writing career, new podcast, her journey through addiction and recovery, and of course -- sex! Addiction specialist and relationship guru Anna dishes out what it was like writing multiple novels and creating her podcast After Party Pod. Bonding over writing triumphs and failures Anna shares with Emily her experiences through the years of her ev...more

  • Up the Heat or Get Out of the Kitchen

    Aug 05 2014

    In this week's podcast Emily is back in the studio with, you guessed it, Menace! In this hilarious podcast Emily and Menace discuss the real story behind Hustler stores, glass dildos, and answer listeners' emails that may shock even the most avid listeners! We've spent a lot of time talking about going above and beyond in your relationship. Any relationship takes work - especially in the bedroom - which is why it is so important to embrace and explore your own sexuality with no shame or regrets...more

  • Social Media: Changing How We Date, Mate & Relate

    Aug 02 2014

    Social media is here to stay but how is it affecting your relationships?. In the studio tonight is freelance writer Annie Daly who lends her expertise on sex, dating, health and millennial trends for New York Post, Women's Health, SELF, Elle, Shape, Health and Time Out New York to name a few.   Emily and Annie talk about why social media does matter (even if you dislike it), Generation Validation and the rules of online dating. But first, will Anderson give up what he’s learned from Sex With Em...more

  • Couples and Toys: Tales From the Intern Sex Drawer

    Jul 30 2014

    It’s that magical time of year again, INTERN SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! But first, Emily shares hilarious adventures from her LA kitchen. Spoiler alert: This one ends with a smoke alarm and a honey bee. Then we move on to talk about sex and interns! Along with her assistant Lauren, Emily’s newest intern Madison is in the studio to tell tales from her sex drawer, including the story of how her boyfriend accidentally stumbled upon her first vibrator (it’s funny one!), and how it opened up their already ...more

  • Spitting, Swallowing

    Jul 26 2014

    Emily and Menace are back in the studio and cover a lot of ground from body image to sexuality to learning to love the blow job, this Podcast is sure to educate and entertain you. The two catch up on recent developments, including Menace’s visit to the Taco Bell mecca and the blessed return of Emily’s Facebook page. Wondering what caused our three week Facebook hiatus? Emily explains her struggle with social media censorship. Also in the studio are Cyan and Nadya of Zivity.com, here to talk er...more

  • Sex, Poptarts & Threesomes with Comedian Adam Ray

    Jul 23 2014

    Comedian Adam Ray stopped by the studio to talk sex (of course) and share other stories of debauchery with Emily and Anderson. From dropping out of football to play the lead in Grease to getting kicked out a comedy club for dropping the C-Word, to landing the role of lead villain in the popular comedy The Heat, Adam tells the tale of how he cracked his way into show business to his new release Poptart Suicide. The gang discusses Emily’s world of sexual innuendos (and everything in between). Ada...more

  • Emily in Swingland

    Jul 18 2014

    Did you know that there’s an estimated 15 million swingers in the world?  This week, Emily interviews Daniel Stern, author of Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle. Listen in on how a single man learned to navigate “The Lifestyle” and pick up some specific tips on how you can add a little spice to your sex life. Daniel shares his insider experiences and tips that we can use in any relationship - whether swinging, married, datin...more

  • Sex Toy Testers Tell All!

    Jul 15 2014

    This week’s Podcast is chock full of sexual information, all aimed to improve your sex life and make you feel good! Emily’s special guest, Coyote the woman BEHIND the sex toys, and is head of purchasing for GoodVibes.com, which pretty much makes her the expert! In this episode, Coyote and Emily talk sex toys of all shapes and sizes! Want to know what toys are best for singles, couples, anal, g-spot, waterproof, etc? These ladies have the answers. Coyote uses her expert knowledge to guide newc...more

  • Sex Talk with Super Pornstar Siri

    Jul 11 2014

    On the latest podcast Emily interviews adult film star Siri, the all-natural beauty who has swiftly skyrocketed to success. Listen in as this self-proclaimed “late bloomer” turned sex-positive bombshell give specific tips for performing oral sex on women (and men), anal sex, the truth about faking orgasms - on and off camera, her favorite position and her fantasy role as Power Girl in the world of cosplay.  Siri shares why her biggest turn on is dirty talk, how to deal with jealousy in a non-mo...more

  • Sex, Swinging & Squirting

    Jul 09 2014

    In the latest podcast Emily and Menace are talking all about pushing the boundaries of your relationship. Whether or not you’re wondering if your friends-with-benefits situation will ever become something more, questioning if you should introduce your true love to swinging, or concerned about how to acquaint a new partner with your favorite sex toy- this show is for you. Emily is here to give you her tried and true advice! Looking for a surefire way to escape the friendzone, want to know how to...more

  • Freaks of The Week

    Jul 05 2014

    In this week’s podcast, Emily and Menace are back in action, ready to answer listener emails and talk sex, love and relationships. Emily had a rough morning and shares the gory details. Plus, we cover the recent  developments in Emily’s social life.  Menace announces his BIG Taco Bell news and he and Emily embrace their brother-sister relationship with a little sibling squabble, followed by a quick makeup. Next Emily and Menace move on to some freakier subjects, including freaky sex ads on Crai...more

  • Communication is Lubrication: Scripts For Your Sex Life

    Jul 02 2014

    On today’s show, Emily demonstrates her top mantra: communication is lubrication. Emily compiled a list of the most popular questions she gets asked from listeners and teaches communication skills those sticky situations. If communication is a tough subject for you, don’t worry, she give you a script for that. Subjects include: How do I talk about anal sex?, How do I talk about erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation?”Emily shares the most effective ways to ask for more oral sex and encou...more

  • Addicted to Love (and Other Drugs)

    Jun 27 2014

    This show is doubly great because there are not one, but two, very special guests: The first is DeAnna Jordan, relationship & addiction expert. The second is Emily’s big brother, Michael! Today’s show is all about rules for healthy relationships across the board! DeAnna explains the facts behind love addiction. How do you protect yourself from getting in too deep, too fast? Follow DeAnna’s “No Sex for 90 Days” rule, which is so crazy it just might work.. if you can last that long! Next, DeAnna...more

  • Intern Sex Toy Review: Finding the G-Spot

    Jun 26 2014

    Today’s show is all about improving your sex life, and discovering the elusive G-Spot orgasm! That’s right, I’m in the studio with my awesome assistant and one of my new interns to give you the low-down on that magical little button that you’ve heard so much about. I give tips for men and women how to find it, how to stroke it, and what toys to use to heighten your G-Spot pleasure. But first, we’re popping my new intern’s Podcast cherry! Carolyn tells us about her night with her first ever G-Sp...more

  • Relationship Roadblocks: Less Ruts, More Sex

    Jun 21 2014

    This week’s podcast is all about relationship and sexual roadblocks and how to move through them so you can have the best life all around. Emily gives advice about which sex toys you must have to start your toy collection, the best erotica, where to find female and couple friendly porn, and remedies for premature ejaculation (including exercises and Promescent!)   Emily and Menace answer (and debate)  listener’s questions including: what to if you can’t orgasm with your  husband, why women need...more

  • Going the distance: Keeping sex alive no matter what

    Jun 17 2014

    In today’s show Emily sits down with Menace to answer your most pressing sex and relationship questions sent to feedback@sexwithemily.com. Including what to do in a long distance relationship when your partner refuses to send sexy texts, have Skype sex, or engage in dirty talk. How to make your wife feel beautiful and why this is crucial for long lasting, amazing sex. Emily advises a woman in the middle of a sexual awakening whose boyfriend is experiencing delayed ejaculation among other penis i...more

  • Breaking Bad: Sexual Habits, Dates & Relationships

    Jun 13 2014

    On this week’s podcast, Emily’s answering your questions with her buddy Anderson, host of The After Disaster podcast. Emily and Anderson get into manscaping, sugar daddies, and how to gracefully exit a bad date. Emily gives advice on having a successful threesome, sexual pleasure on the road and how to find the penis ring that’s right for you. Emily also answers a callers question: Is it possible to create a monster after introducing a ‘Vanilla’ partner to kink? Have you heard of the “horsey h...more

  • Mental & Sexual Health for Better Sex

    Jun 11 2014

    Emily and Menace reunite to answer your most pressing questions. Today’s topics include epic stories of sex-gone-wrong, a married couple with mismatched libidos, and that age-old dilemma, how to get a girl to warm up to back door sex. But first, Menace and Emily make a drunk show pact! Vegas, anyone? The two share some developments in Emily’s dating life and revisit the question- when will Emily be ready to settle down? Also, how do you break the pattern of dating the abusive guys? And do blow j...more

  • The Master Of O

    Jun 06 2014

    Director, editor and author Ernest Greene visits Emily to talk about his new novel Master of O, power play, and collars and cuffs. He’s here to give you his straightforward advice for getting your partner to participate in kink and just how to keep things interesting- whether you’re casually dating or in a long-term relationship. Greene has been a member of the BDSM community for 40 years. He’s talking bondage, flogging and what it’s like to be married to Nina Hartley, sex-positive pornstar, di...more

  • Sexual Confidence

    Jun 04 2014

    Today’s show is all about confidence. Why? Emily believes you should make it your life work to cultivate confidence and tells you how to do it. Hands down men and women say confidence is the sexiest trait in and out of the bedroom. What’s preventing you from having it in the first place? Menace shares tips on how he got through his insecurities in the dating world and built his confidence. Confidence and self esteem are not about the way you look, how much you earn and definitely not how much yo...more

  • Sex Klass With Pornstar Kayden Kross

    May 31 2014

    This week, I’m talking to Kayden Kross, the award winning porn star, writer, and model for the best-selling Fleshlight.  This bombshell bookworm and I get into everything from how the brain can be a powerful turn on to some exciting hands on (literally) oral sex tips. Kayden has tricks for both guys and girls and she’s also talking about how a douchebag pony got her into the adult entertainment industry, so you don’t want to miss out! Ever wonder what the number 1 thing is that you need to know...more

  • Foreplay All Day

    May 24 2014

    This week, I’m talking spanking, sexual confidence, and swingers with award winning adult entertainer Chanel Preston. This is Chanel’s second appearance on my podcast, you can listen to her first visit here, and this time we’re exploring Naked with Chanel, her new sex education based web series. I’m giving you tips for clean anal sex, how erotica can bring you and your partner closer together and how doing Kegel exercises (especially with the Kegel Camp app) can give you stronger ejaculations. ...more

  • Clean Up For Dirty Sex

    May 21 2014

    In this week’s podcast, Emily reunites with Menace for a show to answer all of your most burning questions. Today’s topics include hygiene and why it matters more than you think, tips for enhancing masturbation that will make sex better (remember, May is Masturbation Month!) and what to do if your wife doesn’t like performing oral sex. Emily checks in with Menace (and his penis) and the two discuss Emily’s experience of including sex toys with her sexual partners. Guess what toy was on Emily’s ...more

  • Sex And Bacon

    May 16 2014

    This week Emily sits down with Caleb Bacon, Host of the Man School Podcast and an LA-based writer, to talk relationship tips, Kegels for men and how getting comfortable in his own skin led him to proposing to his love just last week! Emily also answers emails from you including how to give a better BJ even with that pesty cotton mouth, how guys can go after the woman they want, even if she seems out of his league. How complimenting and appreciating your partner is one of the main tips to a succ...more

  • How to be The Cowboy of Her Dreams

    May 08 2014

    On today’s show Emily sits down with Garren James, the founder of Cowboys4Angels.com, the male escort service for straight women. The service has become so successful that Showtime’s hit series Gigolo is based on his business. Why would women pay for a date with a hot, hunky, educated man? The service is for straight, successful, busy women who are looking for the “boyfriend experience” on their time and their terms. Garren explains that it’s not about sex, it’s about companionship with a man w...more

  • Lubricate, Masturbate, and Then Communicate

    May 07 2014

    On today’s podcast, Emily answers your most pressing questions about the benefits of masturbation, tips for first time anal sex, and how to deal with the anxiety when you’re with a more experienced lover. May is masturbation month! Make sure you celebrate as often as possible, Emily reviews ways to exercise your PC muscles by doing Kegel exercises (Kegel Camp app will help you) while you masturbate to help you have better sex. You’re really going to get to know yourself this month if you take t...more

  • Learning the Ropes with Porn Star Kelly Shibari

    May 03 2014

    This week Kelly Shibari, the BBW Performer of the Year and Penthouse Forum’s first-ever plus-size cover model, joins Emily to talk squirting, her secret blowjob tips and the history of Shibari- the ancient Japanese art of rope bondage. Emily interviews this media producer turned groundbreaking porn superstar about what it’s like to be the only plus-sized Fleshlight model, tentacle porn and who her favorite erotica writer is. Learn why Emily loves bondage tape and how having a false eyelash fall...more

  • Masturbation, Manscaping and Mismatched libidos

    Apr 29 2014

    This week Emily and her, Anderson of The Film Vault podcast and technical producer for Loveline, get into mismatched libidos, masturbation and manscaping!   Emily and Anderson discuss exactly what kind of person keeps a “sex list” and whether or not being attractive means you’re bad at giving oral. Emily also talks about why it’s important to have sex as often as possible in a longterm relationship- even if you have to pencil it in.   Emily also lets us in on an unexpected flower delivery fr...more

  • Erik Griffin Has Sex With Emily

    Apr 25 2014

    Emily’s guest tonight is comedian Erik Griffin from Comedy Central’s show Workaholics.   Emily and Erik talk about the reality of digital dating today. They discuss the art of flirting on the Tinder dating app, sex myths, mismatched libidos and women that “collect men like comic books.” They also debate whether or not sex is the most important thing in a relationship.   The talk about “Friends with Benefits,” relationships,  the importance of communication in bed and the thrill of pleasing y...more

  • Porn Star Lisa Ann: The MILF On Top

    Apr 21 2014

    Emily’s guest is Lisa Ann, the most popular porn star in the world 2 years in a row according to the New York Post. Why is she so famous? You might recognize her as the star of the hit porn parody, Nailin’ Palin or because she’s been voted the hottest MILF porn star and the #1 Fleshlight by AVN. They discuss why the MILF trend is so popular, how secret trick for mentally preparing for porn scenes and her own psychology for dating. Lisa Ann gives her top tips for performing oral sex on a man a...more

  • The Casual Pick Up & How To Last All Night

    Apr 12 2014

    Tonight on the Sex WIth Emily show former pornstar and best-selling author Shy Love, gives her best oral sex tips for men and women, shares the ingredients for a successful marriage and offers some interesting tactics on how to approach women including the “casual pick-up.” Emily also gets the ex-pornstar to reveal what good sex really is and the real importance of foreplay. Then the esteemed Dr. Lawrence Levine,  a lead contributor to the study of male sexual dysfunction,  joins the show to t...more

  • Nice Guys, Sluts & Fetishes

    Apr 09 2014

    Emily answers emails from listeners with topics including: sexy vs. slutty, friend zoning, Kegel exercises and fetishes.  Menace grills Emily for slacking on pop culture. Emily breaks down what Gwyneth Paltrow meant when she described her split as "conscious uncoupling". Menace questions the audience on dealing with dating celebrities and their famous Ex's. Emily recaps her live, in-studio date from the popular dating app Tinder. Emily confesses how she avoids talking about sex on the first dat...more

  • Dealbreakers: The Fatal Flaw

    Apr 05 2014

    In this episode, Emily breaks down Dealbreakers, what they are and how to avoid them. Emily and Menace catch up starting with sharing their stories from Las Vegas in anticipation for Emily's upcoming sex toy show. Emily's listeners rave about the Fleshlight - yes there are amazing sex toys for guys. In sex in the news, a golf tee in butt stunt goes wrong for a playboy model. A new walk of shame kit saves women from humiliation from the stride of pride or maybe sets a man up to deal with those r...more

  • Getting Into Jenna Haze

    Apr 02 2014

    Her first interview in 3 years, award-winning pornstar, Jenna Haze comes into the studio to give you an inside look on the makings of the porn legend. Emily gets into the past and personal parts of Jenna's life. Jenna tells the story of how she lost her virginity. Have you ever wanted to experience Jenna? Fleshlight molded Jenna's intimate parts and Jenna's excited to share it with you! Emily and Jenna take calls from listeners asking about what Jenna's up to now, Jenna's new website, how to get...more

  • Escaping the Friend Zone

    Mar 28 2014

    We've all been placed in the dreaded "Friend Zone',  but consider this your last time. This weeks show is about how to get out of the Friend Zone, because let's face it, you'd rather be lovers than BFF's. Emily and Menace give tips about how to create distance, confidence and how to let her or him know that it's a date not a hang out. Menace talks about his time spent in the friend zone and how he got out of it.   Emily and Menace don't miss San Francisco that much, and the share the perks and...more

  • Emily's Blind Tinder Date: Live!

    Mar 24 2014

    Emily's been spotted on the popular Tinder dating app. The app is all the rage as you swipe left of right to "like" or "reject" a prospect. If they like you too, it's a match. Some call it 'the hook up' app and yet others have found true love.  Too busy with work, yet always with her iPhone Emily joins the app and brings in her Tinder date to the studio for the first live date ever during the podcast. Anderson comes up with a code phrase in case the date's a bust. Her date, "Chad", isn't afraid ...more

  • SWE: Look Who's Back In Town...

    Mar 20 2014

    Menace is Back! Emily and Menace are back together in the studio and happy to be in Los Angeles. Emily answers listener emails including questions regarding mismatched libidos - what to do when your partner wants more sex than you, a man who has trouble with older women, and trying to speed up the pace of a relationship- good or bad idea? Tinder is the dating app (some say it's a hook-up app) and Emily has been spotted on it! They talk about the rules of the explosive new app. Menace opens up ab...more

  • SWE: Steak and BJs for the Soul

    Mar 14 2014

    English professor turned gay pornstar, Conor Habib, visits the Sex With Emily show to celebrate Steak and Blow Job Day with tips on how to give the best blow job and overall insights on how to be a great lover. Conor tells us about his first gay experience on and off set. They talk about the rise in anal sex in college co eds. Conor talks about his petition against censorship in the popular app Vine (is Twitter next?). The scientfic hoax behind masterbation shame is revealed.  Conor interjects i...more

  • SWE: How to Flirt

    Mar 12 2014

    If you're still figuring out how to flirt, you're not alone. WingGirl Marni Kinrys and Comedian Kristen Carney from the Ask Women Podcast join me on this podcast episode to breakdown the art of flirting. Marni is a professional wing girl- she teaches men how to flirt and start successful relationships. She reveals secrets from her Wing Girl Method, which will make women want you.  Kristen is a professional sketch comedienne, actress and host whose work has apperead on Comedy Central, Funny or D...more

  • SWE: Mr. Skin Presents the Best Full-Frontal

    Mar 07 2014

    Today, we fast-forward to the good parts with Mr. Skin! Mr. Skin came into inform you about the best of the best from the 15th annual Anatomy Awards. We talk about 1930s porn, why we love naked celebs, what makes a good sex scene, and the best nude scenes to look forward to in 2014. We find out which unexpected American sweetheart won the best nip slip of 2013 and the best lesbian scene you've ever seen. We close our session together with talk of faux clam in film, the best "back burger", monste...more

  • SWE: Let's Get Rough...

    Mar 05 2014

    Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings. Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my ...more

  • SWE: How to Attract Women

    Feb 28 2014

    How do you attract women? You have less than 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be aroun...more

  • SWE: The Best Sex Toys for Men and Women.

    Feb 26 2014

    I'm talking about my favorite topic- masturbation and the best sex toys for men and women. In a word filled with crazy, awesome, vibrating sex toys, it can be hard to choose a sex toy. Are you a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl or a G-spot gal? Are you a size queen or are you looking for something cute and discreet? Do you want a couples toy or do you want it all to yourself? Of course, sex toys aren't just for the girls (check out the Fleshlight guys at sexwithemily.com/Fleshlight!). My gues...more

  • SWE: Porn Star Skin Diamond

    Feb 22 2014

    Porn Star Skin Diamond dishes about having sex like a porn star... and having sex like a cat. You'll have to listen to the show to hear about her sexual kitty play.   Skin Diamond grew up in Scotland with a passion for Christianity and a huge crush on Jessica Rabbit. Although she no longer believes in organized religion, her love for the female form developed beyond cartoons. Skin Diamond identifies as bisexual and has a rare ability to orgasm on command (perfect for porn!). Skin Diamond prove...more

  • SWE: Friends with Benefits

    Feb 19 2014

    People say that Friend’s With Benefits (FWB) never work, but that's simply not true. You might just be the perfect candidate for a Friends With Benefits situation if you're at the right place in your life to have unabashed, no strings attached sex. I'll tell if you can handle a Friends with Benefits and how to get one. Hint: It doesn't actually have to be someone you're good friends with. Sometimes it's better to turn a sexy acquaintance into your FWB.  It's important to realize Friends With Ben...more

  • SWE: Her Orgasm

    Feb 15 2014

    Most men: "Oh my god I'm the greatest lover in the world!" Most women: "I faked another orgasm." Men are clueless about female pleasure and women are not communicating their dissatisfaction. Tantric Master Lawrence Lanoff and Emily break down all the myths about female pleasure. It's a myth that women do not want sex. Women are just fed up of having bed sex and are starving for touch. Lawrence teaches men how to stop grabbing and start touching, and how to turn your touch into her mind-blowing o...more

  • SWE: In a Relationship or Single?

    Feb 13 2014

    A show on why it’s great to be in a relationship or single on Valentine’s Day. It’s a perfect night to go out and meet someone, or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you’re wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Masturbate your night away!  Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash for Val...more

  • SWE: Allie Haze: Bisexual Porn Star

    Feb 08 2014

    Allie Haze is the coolest, most down-to-earth girl ever, and she's also a really hot bisexual porn star! Allie Haze gets into the G-spot and how you need to get over your fear of peeing during sex. Plus, if you have a killer orgasm, who cares what happens? Allie Haze talks about squirting, outrageous, messy sex. "Your body makes the most hilarious noises when you're doing it right," Allie says. Allie talks about her transition from being a preacher's wife to a porn star. Growing up she realized ...more

  • SWE: 50 Shades Christian Grey Valentine's Day

    Feb 06 2014

    Emily and Australian Sexologist Dr. Nikki G talk about the pressure of Valentines Day and how you don't have to embody 50 Shades' Christian Grey in the bedroom... at least at first. Emily shares how to take baby steps towards 50 Shades of Grey sex. By the end of the episode you'll have your leather chaps strapped on and whips ready. Emily and sexologist Dr. Nikki G talk about Valentine's Day-- what you should do and what you should buy. Hint: the best things to do don't have to cost money and th...more

  • SWE: Why People Cheat & Best Valentine's Day Gifts

    Jan 30 2014

    This episode is about why people cheat and the best Valentine's Day Gifts to buy her. (Heck, if you're single, I'm talking about the best gifts to buy yourself.) There are many theories about why people cheat, including fear of intimacy, unfulfilled desires in a relationship, and the need for validation from others. Some people think they can get away with it and have no intention of sleeping with one person, no matter what they committed to their partner. Ultimately, a lot of people cheat becau...more

  • SWE: Mia Isabella - Transexual Porn Star

    Jan 24 2014

    Mia Isabella is a transexual porn star with a lot of great sex advice. She’s known as the “Cutest Little TS Chick with the Biggest Candy Stick.” How big is Mia Isabella's Candy Stick? 10-inches long. Mia Isabella is a transexual that dates straight men. Most people are under the misconception that only gay men date transexuals. Mia Isabella does not define her sexuality in such narrow terms. She answers questions on the show about her sexual identity, dating, and of course- sex.Use coupon code E...more

  • SWE: Threesomes

    Jan 22 2014

    Everyone has been asking me about threesomes. What rules should you follow to have a successful threesome, and how do you even have one in the first place? What divine intervention needs to take place to end up with two hotties in your bed? Other topics: Reverse cowgirl, using the magic wand during sex, and your penis (or lack there of). Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY ...more

  • SWE: Penis Size

    Jan 15 2014

    85% of men are under the misconception that the population’s penis size is larger than it actually is. An average erect penis is 5.5- 6.2 inches. No matter what penis size you're packing, you can find sex positions that work with your willy. I'll tell you what to do with a small, medium, bendy, large, or gargantuan penis. Other topics: cyber sex, robot hand jobs, men who hate condoms, male-male-female threesomes, overly sensitive penises, internal orgasms, antidepressants, and cunnilingus. Use c...more

  • SWE: Guest Comedian Brad Williams on Having Crazy Sex

    Jan 11 2014

    Comedian Brad Williams is a little person with a very big and crazy sex life. Brad Williams is on a mission to change the way people think about little people with his comedy and his penis. He’s out to prove that little people are wonderful, well-endowed, lovers. Here’s what we cover on the show: How to pull her hair completely pain-free, how to spank with style, how to explore choke play during sex without completely freaking her out, how big are little people’s penises? Why doggie style is the...more

  • SWE: The Male G-spot

    Jan 06 2014

    The male G-spot is the prostate. Yes, men have a G-spot too and it’s in their butt. The time has come to leave your fears behind, and go on an adventure through the backdoor. My guest Charlie Glickman, author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners, explains how to pleasure the prostate, from finding it to stimulating techniques. Before you Poo-poo the idea of prostate pleasure, have an open-mind (and a open behind). If men stopped resisting ever...more

  • SWE: Better Sex & Relationships in 2014

    Dec 30 2013

    2014 is all about having better relationships, and of course having better sex. Here's what I cover on the show: tips for having a successful threesome, how to communicate proactively with your partner/lover, how to bring up issues with your partner, how to plan fun and romantic dates, and how to kiss… it's new years after all. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% of...more

  • SWE: Sexual Resolutions

    Dec 28 2013

    Get organized. Start exercising. Stop drunk texting your ex. It’s a new year, which means it’s time to make some changes in your life- especially in your love life. So let the sexual resolutions begin. For better sex in the new year: tips for more foreplay, better make-out sessions, different positions, toy play, and more adventurous sex. Also, how to have tantric sex, what to do if you want sex less/more than your partner, and why you should take a man shopping. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% of...more

  • SWE: Morning Sex, Naked Pictures, and Orgasms

    Dec 21 2013

    I'm answering your biggest sex and relationship questions on my show. What do you do when you just can't give your girlfriend/wife/lover an orgasm? How do you ask someone to be in a polyamorous love circle?Should you send naked pictures of yourself to anyone? Are swingers healthier than monogamous couples? What do you do when you're partner loves morning sex and you just want to sleep forever/chug coffee? Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon cod...more

  • SWE: Dr. Sadie Allison: Tickle His Pickle

    Dec 14 2013

    Dr. Sadie Allison, Pleasure Coach and author of best sellers Tickle His Pickle, Ride 'em Cowgirl, and Tickle my Tush, gives hands-on sex tips. Her books are extremely straight-forward and are filled with illustrations on how to pleasure your partner with proven techniques. Get her books at Good Vibrations: www.sexwithemily.com/goodvibes and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off (some exclusions apply). Expect detailed instructions on how to give a blow job, how to find her "other" erogenous, how to ...more

  • SWE: She's Never Had An Orgasm

    Dec 12 2013

    My new intern who has never had an orgasm talks about her sexual experiences thus far. I give her (and all the men in her rotation) advice on how to achieve orgasm. And not just any orgasm- a delicious cocktail of clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Women are sold the fantasy from the time they're young that "someday my prince will come and I'll come too." Forget the prince in shining armor and get a shiny new vibrator. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: www.sexwithemily.com/good...more

  • SWE: Porn Stars Samantha Saint & Chanel Preston Share Sex Secrets

    Dec 07 2013

    This year the incredibly sexy Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston are hosting the AVN awards, where I will be giving the keynote speech. AVN is the Oscars of porn and both adies are nominated for best female performer of the year. I'll be giving away tickets to the AVN show on January 18th in Las Vegas (worth $200 a piece) . Follow me on Twitter @sexwithemliy to participate in the upcoming contest. Also, use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code E...more

  • SWE: Breastgasm

    Dec 04 2013

    Some women can have orgasms from breast stimulation alone. The same part of the brain that brings sensations to the vagina brings sensation to the breasts. I'll show you how to give her immense pleasure with nipple nibbling, breast cupping, light pinching, and licking. Don't twist her nipples, jiggle them, or slap them, unless she's into that sort of thing. It's time to play with breasts like a grownup (motor-boating being a sometimes fun exception). I also answer an email from a guy who can't o...more

  • SWE: Surviving 21st Century Sex

    Dec 01 2013

    Sex has changed dramatically in the 21st century. Midwestern housewives are reading 50 Shades of Grey and half of all women own vibrators. Social media and online dating has created a lot more dating options, making monogamy a less desirable option. People are getting married later and more and more couples are making up their own relationship rules. It's a crazy, exciting world out there. Here's how to survive 21st Century sex with your dignity and hopefully an orgasm...or three. Special Discou...more

  • SWE:Get your Sex Life Back with Guest Susan Pinsky

    Nov 24 2013

    Tonight’s special guest is Susan Pinsky, the First Lady of Loveline, and host of the new podcast Calling out with Susan Pinsky. Susan gets intimate about her sex life with her husband, Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, and Dr.Drew on Call. Although they have an amazing sex life now, it wasn’t always that way. After having triplets(!), Susan completely lost her sex drive. Her hormone levels plummeted after giving birth and she couldn’t figure out how to reinvigorate her sex ...more

  • SWE: Manscaping

    Nov 21 2013

    Manscaping is perhaps the most underrated beauty ritual. No Shave November is coming to a close, gentleman. While women are told over and over again to have hairless bodies, most men traipse around like hairy beasts.A man might say his hair makes him masculine and rugged. Don’t get me wrong, I want to pet Jon Hamm’s chest hair all night, but a lot of women aren’t into hairy balls.I’m not saying you should shave yourself bare or shave an arrow leading to your penis (please don’t), but I recommend...more

  • SWE:BDSM with Guest Sex Nerd Sandra

    Nov 16 2013

    BDSM means six things: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. My guest, fellow sex podcaster Sex Nerd Sandra, and I are ironing out the kinks in your relationship, whether you’re new to the BDSM or waiting for the perfect time to whip out the ropes and assless leather. First, we discuss women having less orgasms than men during one-night-stands. SHOCKER. We talk about why women aren’t orgasming like crazy, and why some guys don't know how to please women... y...more

  • SWE: Kinky Massage

    Nov 12 2013

    Pro Dominatrix and Author Jaeleen Bennis shows you the ropes on bondage play. She mixes massage with kink, showing couples how to have more adventurous sex. She created the practice of Bondassage, which mixes erotic massage with bondage. Start by lighting up my Emily & Tony Massage Candle (when lit it turns into the most luxurious, warm massage oil) and pour it onto your partners body. Relax them with a back massage... and then the real fun begins. Bring out the straps and floggers, and start ex...more

  • SWE: Threesome, Anyone?

    Nov 08 2013

    So you want to have a threesome? I'm laying down the law on how to do it right. It has to be her idea, and I'll tell you how to make that happen. Do not casually suggest that you have a threesome with her best friend. She's not going to like it. If you want to have a threesome, you must be extremely strategic and cunning. I'll show you how to do it without having it end in a jealous hot mess. Next, I talk about men who prefer to wear women's panties (have no shame, women's undies are just better...more

  • SWE: How to Lick It

    Nov 04 2013

    A guy calls into the show for some advice on how to perform cunnilingus. He realizes that every woman is different and he shouldn't go straight for the clitoris, but wants to know specifically how to lick it. Also, do heels prevent women from having orgasms? Does sitting in chairs turn you on? Is the clitoris actually bigger than a penis? Does having a hang-over make you want to do it, or just curl up in the fetal position and question your existence? Some food for thought while you're waiting f...more

  • SWE: Single & Ready to Mingle?

    Oct 30 2013

    How to navigate your sex life as a single person, because single people want to have sex too…sometimes more than people in relationships.  I'll also tell you how to find the right person whether you are looking for casual sex or a committed relationship.

  • SWE: Make Sex Last Longer

    Oct 26 2013

    Everyday someone asks me how that can last longer during sex, or how they can get their BF to last longer during sex. Everyday I get an email from a woman who wants to orgasm during sex, but doesn’t have enough time or clitoral stimulation to do so. This podcast will get your/his penis in gear and ready for sex. No matter if you’re a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation, or just someone who wants to have longer, more intense sex, this podcast is for you! My guest Jeff Abraham, CEO of Prome...more

  • SWE: Freaky, Naughty Sex

    Oct 23 2013

    Naughty and freaky sex can be fun. Embarrassing sex? Not so much. Awkward and strange things will happen during sex that you will have no idea how to react to. I'm here to tell you how to navigate this strange and confusing world of queefs, moans, howls, blood, and liquid explosions. Here's how to survive with your dignity and an orgasm. I think you'll have a good laugh as well.

  • Joanna Angel's Anal Sex Seminar

    Oct 19 2013

    Porn Star Joanna Angel gives an Anal Sex Seminar with pointers on how to make it less painful and scary. Then she talks about double penetration, because apparently that makes anal sex less scary? This punk princess has really done it all. She gives tips for dominating men and women, and tying them up. Then she gives tips for giving both him and her amazing oral sex. Lastly, she tells you how to talk to your partner in bed. Dirty talk doesn’t work if you censor yourself. You just have to let all...more

  • SWE: Porn Star Kiara Mia Shows You How To Have Sex

    Oct 12 2013

    Porn Star Kiara Mia, "the Kim Kardashian of porn", gets intimate on the podcast, sharing her best moves for having sex with men and women. Naturally, she starts with oral sex on a woman (how every great relationship starts) and describes how to lick a woman to make her orgasm. Start by kissing and licking around her clitoris. Once she’s really warmed up, her clitoris is hard and she’s thrusting her hips up, go in for her clitoris (Kiara tells you exactly what to do to pleasure her clitoris and G...more

  • SWE: Sexually Confident Woman

    Oct 09 2013

    Are you a sexually confident woman... or man? If you aren't instantly seducing men and women with your piercing eyes and sly smile, this podcast is for you! I'm going to transform you into a Sex God(dess). First, I give advice to a woman who wants to try S&M (Sadomasochism). I'll teach you how to be the dominant or submissive, and how to talk to your partner about trying S&M. The next time you have tea and crumpets with your partner, I want you to look them in the eye and say, "bend me over the ...more

  • SWE: Beautiful Girls, Bicurious Men, and Baby Mamas

    Oct 05 2013

    Questions answered: Are you bicurious? Should you give up your marriage because you aren’t having sex? What happens when his baby mama catches you having sex with him in his trailer? How do you date if you have social anxiety? Should you tell women they are beautiful when you first meet them? Why do some people  seek relationships with people who are unobtainable?

  • SWE: Kinky Sex

    Oct 03 2013

    I don't think you're having enough kinky sex. When I say kinky sex, I don't mean you have to do it chained to a spinning apparatus. I just think you should leave your bed once in a while and experiment. This podcast will show you how to have sex outside your comfort zone and try new things with your partner, from butt slapping to sex in the bar bathroom. Okay, maybe you should just start by having sex in your bathroom at home... then you'll be ready for some serious sexcapades. I'll show you how...more

  • SWE: This Charming Man

    Sep 29 2013

    Become charming and confident, even if you no idea what to say and have no confidence whatsoever. Jordan Harbinger is a lifestyle coach. He teaches men the art of charm (no natural charm required). He starts by identifying any situational confidence a man may or may not have. If a man is extremely confident in his work as a doctor, Jordan shows him how to channel that confidence into talking to women. Talking about your favorite band and alcoholic beverage of choice will become as easy as talkin...more

  • SWE: Nipple Pinching, Finger Sucking & Penis Rubbing

    Sep 27 2013

    I’m giving tips for changing up your sex life. I’m going to turn you into a finger sucking, nipple pinching, penis rubbing, sex machine. Or at least I’ll inspire you to do something other than missionary position with reruns of 7th Heaven playing in the background. Do men like getting their nipples pinched? There’s only one way to find out. The next time you feel like pinching his cheeks, go straight for his nipples. nipple pinching Also, what if people were completely honest on their Match.com ...more

  • Nina Hartley: Porn Star, Activist, and Hand Job Expert

    Sep 19 2013

    The iconic Porn Star Nina Hartley talks about making porn, feminism, non-monogamy, and how to give a woman the perfect hand job (there is some light pulling and pinching involved). Nina Hartley also talks boldly about the butt. Nina says, “Butts are like cats. They have to be coaxed and seduced every time. They are moody and you can’t fool a butt into liking you, or feeling relaxed. Butts know when the thing touching them is paying attention, or being a jerk.” In other words, if you want to get ...more

  • SWE: Freak in the Sheets

    Sep 14 2013

    Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. I'm helping out a small-town girl find her inner freak in the bedroom. She's also looking for some sexy companions to practice with *wink wink*. Getting freaky is all about pushing the boundaries and letting down your inhibitions with someone you trust. If you want your sex life to get a little freakier, tell your partner you're ready to try some bondage, or bring a sex toy into the bedroom. I'm sure you can find some way to convince them to get freaky w...more

  • SWE: Cheaters, Selfish Lovers & Fake Orgasms

    Sep 13 2013

    Things that I don’t tolerate and you shouldn’t either: cheaters, selfish lovers, and fake orgasms. Don’t fake orgasms! Don’t try to put on a sexy face and give a porn star moan when you don’t mean it. Instead of faking orgasms, find out how you can really enjoy sex. It helps if you have a tall, dark, and handsome companion, but you need to do the work on yourself to find out what feels good. Show him what you like, instead of putting on a show to satisfy his ego.How do you know if your boyfriend...more

  • SWE: Real Men Give Oral Sex- Loveline Host Mike Catherwood

    Sep 09 2013

    According to Loveline Host Mike Catherwood, real men give oral sex (if only all men shared Mike Catherwood's definition of a real men *sigh*). If you don't genuinely want to please women and you don't want to give them multiple orgasms, listen to another podcast! Real men: Don't become irrationally angry about their girlfriend's sexual history. Instead of obsessing about your partner's past sexual experiences, focus on making your present relationship pleasurable. Just like you've desired other ...more

  • SWE: Female Ejaculation

    Sep 05 2013

    Female Ejaculation- it is intense and it is real. With your finger on her G-spot and your thumb on her clitoris, give her a crazy, squirting orgasm. I’ll tell you how to warm her up, find her G-spot, massage her G-spot, and pleasure her clitoris until she gets to the point of female ejaculation. Before I bequeath you with the secrets of female ejaculation, I give listeners advice on how to have the sex and relationships they want. I help: The guy who needs a new sex position. The husband who won...more

  • SWE: Living Sexy: Swingers Holli & Michael Tell All

    Aug 31 2013

    Swingers Holli and Michael from Playboy Radio’s SWING share everything about living sexy— The swingers parties, dealing with jealousy, and of course the sex. Almost everyday someone asks me, "so what's the deal with swingers?" No, they don't all have ponytails, and they aren't all "crazy." Unless your definition of crazy is having open communication with your partner, and admitting that monogamy doesn't always work for you. Swingers put everything out in the open— they share their fantasies with...more

  • SWE: Chasing vs. Waiting for Sex

    Aug 28 2013

    I'm answering Sex With Emily listener's relationship questions, with a few sex questions sprinkled in for good measure. In this show, Menace and I debate the male and female perspective on people's most common relationship issues. We tell you when to move on from an unhealthy relationship and when to stop licking your wounds in a bad breakup. We also teach how to have courage to change, and have better relationships. Sex with Emily listener's Relationship Questions: When should you let down your...more

  • SWE: Porn Star Sex (It's Not What You Think)

    Aug 24 2013

    How does a porn star have sex when he's not on a porn set? Does he pump away for hours with his chiseled abs glistening with sweat? According to porn star Joey Ray, porn star sex isn't all it's cracked up to be. No one wants it to last that long, that hard. Porn focuses on performance, not pleasure. You might learn some fancy moves from porn, but you're not going to learn how to truly pleasure a woman. So, how do you please a woman? Ray is all about female pleasure. He talks about how to last th...more

  • SWE: Your Sex Questions Answered

    Aug 22 2013

    I get tons of sex questions in my inbox everyday. Trust me, everyone has their sex issues, from orgasming too soon to not orgasming at all. And let's be honest, you don't want to ask all your Facebook friends how you can go about losing your virginity (unless you get some takers). That's why I'm here to answer your biggest, most embarrassing, sex questions on my podcast. Sex Questions Answered Does penis size really matter? Is a big penis too much of a good thing? How do I brave his gargantuan p...more

  • SWE: Anal Sex Tips

    Aug 16 2013

    Anal Sex Month is here and I'm celebrating with a bunch of anal sex tips. If you're new to anal pleasure, this show will help you get comfortable with the idea of having something up your bum. Don't worry, it's not that scary. It's actually quite pleasurable if done correctly. Relaxation, lubrication, and communication are the three most important elements of anal sex. Although anal sex might not be the most peaceful activity, it will go a lot smoother if you move slowly and do it with someone y...more

  • SWE: How to Please a Man In Bed

    Aug 11 2013

    Let's talk about how to please a man in bed, because I'm always talking about how to give women orgasms. I know that making a man orgasm isn't exactly Rocket Science, but women could be a lot more creative with his penis. I interviewed the author of Tickle His Pickle, Sadie Allison, on how to please his pickle AKA his penis. Allison was the girl in her friend group that taught all her girlfriends how to have their first orgasm. Then she showed them the ropes on how to please a man in bed. Alliso...more

  • SWE: Spanking, Hair Pulling, and Biting

    Aug 03 2013

    Are you spanking, hair pulling, and nibbling your partner as much as you want? Or are you playing it safe, scared to reveal your true desires? Well, they probably don’t want to do it in the missionary position every single time either. Get some balls and talk to your partner about your sex life. Instead of proclaiming, “you don’t slap my butt enough” over tea and crumpets, have a casual conversation about sex. Calm down, take a deep breath, and share your desires with your partner. I’ll tell you...more

  • SWE: Multiple Orgasms

    Jul 27 2013

    I interviewed sex coaches Celeste and Danielle on how to have multiple orgasms. Because seriously who doesn't want to have multiple orgasms? If you want to give and receive multiple orgasms you have to work on your moves and your mental state. You can’t have one without the other, unless you’re one of those lucky women who orgasm while riding a bicycle. Many sexual problems stem from not telling your partner what you want. Sometimes you want to be cuddly and cute and other times you want to be t...more

  • SWE: Spice Up Your Sex Life

    Jul 26 2013

    Signs you need to spice up your sex life: Your idea of a great night is watching TV and then doing it in missionary position, you haven’t had oral sex since your birthday, you don’t remember the last time you had sex, and you’re pretty sure the best sex of your life happened a long, long time ago. Well, don't despair, sex can get better over time. You can reignite the spark in your relationship if you’re proactive about your sex life. Your relationship isn’t going to magically transform overnigh...more

  • SWE: Foreplay Tips

    Jul 18 2013

    A show on foreplay tips and getting married. Because nothing says commitment more than waiting a whole half hour before trying to take their clothes off. Emily interviews Alex Wellen, the author of LoveSick. Alex addresses the question, why don’t men want to tie the knot? Is it the daunting divorce rates or are they just scared of commitment? Emily and Alex discuss whether monogamy is even compatible with human nature. Do we really just want to get it on with everyone? People call into the show ...more

  • SWE: The Vagina Lady

    Jul 15 2013

    Emily gets up close and personal with The Vagina Lady. What’s the Vagina Lady's mission? To help women overcome any shame they experience for having a vagina. Women are extremely self-conscious about their, um, lady parts. They're so ashamed they don't even want to say the word vagina! But vaginas are awesome for so many reasons. I mean, they have about twice as many nerve endings as the penis. So the next time you feel like vaginas are the inferior genitals, just think about that! This podcast ...more

  • SWE: Dating Deal Breakers

    Jul 09 2013

    Emily shows you how to tell his or her endearing flaws from dating deal breakers. It's easy to ignore the red flags and dating deal breakers when you're sipping on a Margarita and someone sexy is telling you about their summer villa. But the fact that they just got out and/or prison or keep staring at that bosom of the woman in the corner, is probably not a good sign for your future together. You're not going to be able to change anyone. People have to want to change on their own first. The only...more

  • SWE: Best Places to Meet Someone

    Jul 06 2013

    Emily shares the best places to meet someone, because sometimes it feels like there's no one to meet anywhere. Where are all the single hotties at? If you want to meet someone, get ready to drink a lot of coffee, get sweaty, and climb a mountain! You will be rewarded with lots of sex (hopefully). Emily also talks with Dossie Easton, author of the Ethical Slut about relationships. People go from one relationship to the next, without giving themselves time to grieve the person they broke up with. ...more

  • SWE: Online Dating Lies

    Jul 02 2013

    Emily explains how to navigate through all the online dating lies out there! If he seems too good to be true, he just might be. He's probably not as rich, handsome, tall and dapper as his profile suggests. Here's how to tell the online dating lies from the truth. Also, how to create your own amazing online profile without telling any online dating lies. Can men and women really be friends? Should you ever talk about your ex? Should you send a naked photo to someone? Do men care about lingerie? O...more

  • SWE: The Family Jewels

    Jun 23 2013

    The time has come to stop ignoring the balls! Emily shows you how to gently and lovingly caress him. Here's what you should and shouldn't do with the family jewels. Also, how to expand your sexual boundaries by pleasuring his taint! If you are interested in the family jewels and you want to change your love life, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. And, even more ...more

  • SWE: Orgasm Obsessed

    Jun 21 2013

    Almost everyone is orgasm obsessed. But it's hard to enjoy everything else when all you're thinking about is getting to that wonderful feeling at the end. It's all about the journey! Stop obsessing about orgasms! Calm down, slow down and listen to these tips on how to enjoy sex more and yes, learn how to experience orgasms all around. Also, how long do you have to make out with her before you can touch her vagina? If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to give a woman an ...more

  • SWE: Attract Women

    Jun 17 2013

    You have about 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be ...more

  • SWE: Backyard Sex

    Jun 15 2013

    The sun is shining, the flowers are blooming, and you’re getting it on in the backyard. Emily talks about having sex outside, whether you want to get down in the public bathroom or at the beach. Good luck not getting sand or dirt in your junk once you get off the beaten path! Emily talks about women who want sex more than men, because that actually happens all the time! Forget all the stereotypes about women not wanting sex. Also, how to keep an erection and how to get rid of your crazy ex. If y...more

  • SWE: How to Have Sex Again

    Jun 10 2013

    It might have happened once, but how do you have sex again? Emily asnwers the question: Why isn't she having sex with you anymore? Is it the teddy bear collection? Or is the sex just boring? Find out on today’s show. Emily also talks about how to keep the fire alive while living together and how to fight the urge to cheat. If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to have sex again, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at ch...more

  • SWE: 7 Deadly Daters

    Jun 08 2013

    Forget gluttony, sloth, and lust, if there’s seven things to avoid, it’s the seven deadly dating personalities. Emily shows you how to avoid cringeworthy dates. Also, why Emily goes stag to weddings, how women set the price of sex, sperm facts, and if sexting can make you a sex offender. Emily discusses why it’s riskier to send your man to a wedding than a bachelor party, fun tips for sex during pregnancy, the basics of tantric sex, and why we date people like our parents. Finally, as a big gift...more

  • SWE: Overcoming Jealousy

    Jun 06 2013

    Emily shares four steps for overcoming jealousy. You can get past jealousy in most situations if you can get over your insecurities. Also, find out why she's really moaning during sex, what to say in your first online dating message, how to deal with body image issues, and if there’s a platonic dating site for those who don’t want to get down. If you're interested in overcoming jealousy and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon ...more

  • SWE: Breast Orgasm

    Jun 03 2013

    It's time to play with breasts like a grown up (motor-boating being an often fun exception). Emily breaks down the do's and don'ts of playing with the breasts. Don't twist her nipples, slap her breasts, or jiggle them, unless that's what she wants. Why does this matter? If you do touch them the right way she could have a breast orgasm.Emily also analyzes emotionally detached men and gives advice to a virgin in need of some loving. Emily talks about how to get out of your shell and start meeting ...more

  • SWE: Casual Relationship

    May 31 2013

    How do you know if someone wants your babies or if they just want to do it? Emily talks about casual relationships and the resurfacing guy or girl. You know, that one elusive guy/girl that texts you "Hey" out of the blue. How to change your expectations and come out on top in all your relationships. Then there's the guy who doesn't understand why his girlfriend doesn't explode with orgasms after a couple of thrusts. Women need clitoral stimulation and this podcast will show you how to give her w...more

  • SWE: How to Move During Sex

    May 30 2013

    It doesn't matter how big your penis is or how long you can last, if you don't know how to move those hips during sex! Emily shows you how to shallow thrust, swivel, and screw. Next, Emily explores some common questions from listeners: Is sex with a virgin hot? Does masturbation inhibit your ability to orgasm with your partner? Is 69ing too much work? And is paying for sex ever okay? Also, Emily reveals the “chin trick” for giving women amazing oral sex. If you're interested in learning how to m...more

  • SWE: How to Tease and Please

    May 27 2013

    Ease into teasing. Make sex a hundred times more satisfying by building up the tension until you can't stand it anymore. Emily shows you how to tease and please your partner. It's not a bad thing if they're begging you to do them already! Also, a criminal way to dispose of penises, erectile dysfunction drugs, Hitler’s connection to sex dolls, and Mormon soaking sex. If you're interested in learning how to tease and please and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masq...more

  • SWE: The Best Sex Tips

    May 23 2013

    In this "best of" episode, Emily navigates you through your love life from first date to the post-orgasm experience. She talks about the most popular dating ideas, a mathematical equation for good sex, and why some people black out from orgasms. Emily also shares the best and worst things to do right after sex. Why do women want to cuddle and guys just want to sleep post-orgasm? Emily asks everyone she knows the best sex tips they've ever given or received. Then she offers her own two cents on t...more

  • SWE: Dating Mistakes

    May 22 2013

    People are always asking Emily, “how do I get my wife to have sex with me?” Emily shares how to reignite the spark in your relationship (I hope you’re good at poll dancing!)... Emily and her cohost Menace discuss Facebook etiquette after a breakup and why self-love is the most important thing for your life (masturbation and loving yourself). Emily ends the show by breaking down the biggest dating mistakes people make, from talking about your past sexual partners to hooking up with a sibling of s...more

  • SWE: Backdoor Sex

    May 15 2013

    Emily talks about cheap date ideas, from the childhood activity of flying a kite to slugging back some beers at a pub. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a good time and try something new. Speaking of trying something new, Emily discusses people’s obsession with anal sex. If you’re interested in having backdoor sex, Emily shares how to talk to your partner about trying it and how to make it pleasurable (not painful!) for you both. If you're interested in backdoor sex and improving yo...more

  • SWE: Missionary Position

    May 13 2013

    Missionary position is anything but mundane when her legs are flailing in the air and his penis is hitting all the right places. Emily breaks down variations of missionary to turn the ordinary position into an orgasmic position.Emily also shares secrets for picking up women in bars (none of them include buying her a drink right off the bat).Also, penis rings with spikes, glow in the dark condoms, and the Viagra condom.If you're interested in good clean sex and improving your sex life, check out ...more

  • SWE: Masturbation

    May 10 2013

    I know you probably don't need a month to remind you to masturbate. But May is masturbation month! In honor of self-love, Emily tells you how to masturbate in way that actually makes you better at sex. Emily keeps on getting emails from women who aren't orgasming during sex! They have no problem getting it done on their own but can't get there with their partner. Emily shows you how to have an amazing orgasm whether you're on your own or sharing the love. If you're interested in good clean sex a...more

  • SWE: Good Clean Fun

    May 08 2013

    One of the biggest turn-offs for both men and women is poor hygiene. Emily shows you how to get squeaky-clean before getting dirty.Then she talks about threesomes cheating, and female ejaculation, and how to acquire a taste for semen. Things get messy in sex, but it's better if you start off with good breath, clean body, and good taste.If you're interested in the hip moves and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at check...more

  • SWE: Wing Woman

    May 05 2013

    There are three types of wing women: the matchmaker, the introducer, and the reconnaissance woman. Emily tells you how to be all three and how to use your friends to get dates (and get laid). Men need to get comfortable talking to women. Don’t put her on a pedestal, rather talk to her like a real person and friend. Emily and her cohost Menace talk about the easiest conversation starters.If you're interested in wing women and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and...more

  • SWE: The Hip Moves

    May 03 2013

    Emily instructs listeners on the hip moves to be better in bed, whether you like to shallow thrust, swivel, or screw. Instead of the old in-out, Emily offers alternative hip movements to help men and women get their pleasure groove on. As Shakira puts it, “hips don’t lie.” And we’re fairly certain Shakira is good in the sack. As the show moves along, listener’s get oral with their questions, wondering if women also do the dreaded head-push and why some men refuse to reciprocate oral sex. Also, l...more

  • SWE: How To Be Confident

    Apr 29 2013

    Everything in sex comes down to confidence. Sex is awkward. Two naked bodies with pubes and protruding flesh, bouncing around and making strange noises. Not to mention, finding someone to bounce around with can be even harder. Emily breaks down how to be confident: what you should say when you meet someone, how to always avoid the friend zone, and how to get back in the game. If you're interested in how to be confident and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and G...more

  • SWE: How To Talk To Women

    Apr 23 2013

    Emily interviews Marni Wing Girl on how to get the girl. You don't have to be really good looking, have an expensive car, or be in a band. But you do need to know how to talk to women. Marni tells you what to say and what not to say when talking to women. She breaks down her Wing Girl Method: observe, share, and then ask questions. No women wants to be interrogated while she's sipping on a vodka tonic. Marni teaches how to approach her and give her a feel for who you really are. Women actually l...more

  • SWE: Sex Video

    Apr 17 2013

    Press record, have sex, watch, delete, and repeat. Emily talks about how to make a sex video, no matter if you're directing a Star Wars porno or just want to watch yourself do it. Emily, talks about three important elements in a sex video: lighting, lingerie, and letting go (maybe with a little liquid courage). Emily even shares how she wants her own sex video to unwind. If you're interested in making a sex tape or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrati...more

  • SWE: One Night Stand

    Apr 15 2013

    Just because it's casual sex, doesn't mean it has to be bad sex. Emily talks about one night stands-- the excitement, build up, and anticlimactic finish. Emily shows you how to have casual sex that won't disappoint.Emily also talks about how to tell if someone is looking for a one night stand or a relationship, because sometimes it's hard to tell when the champagne is flowing.Also, how to get a power back in your relationship, little penises, and asking out a friend.If you're interested in casua...more

  • SWE: Bondage

    Apr 11 2013

    Forget the whips and assless leather chaps, Emily is breaking down the basics of bondage. Make them beg for it. Tie them up, tease them, and then give them incredible oral sex with Emily's ice cube trick. If you're interested in trying out bondage or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrat...more

  • SWE: Nice Guys

    Apr 08 2013

    Do nice guys always finish last? Not in bed at least. Always try to make her orgasm first, especially if you're calling yourself a "nice guy." Why do people stay in bad relationships? Emily explains why you should never date someone and expect them to change. Emily shares how to reject people without busting out a knife and stabbing them in the heart. Also, having sex in a freezer, sex with your ex, slump busters, whip cream, road head at a car wash, and falling asleep mid-ejaculation. Sex with ...more

  • SWE: Her Fantasy

    Apr 06 2013

    When an Adult Film Star is sexually frustrated, you know there's a problem with how men are doing it, or should I say not doing it? Adult Star Krista Ayne has created a program where she actually shows men how she and other women want to have sex. Her female friend helps her demonstrate.She starts with kissing, works her way down to her erogenous zones, and even teaches you the right technique for cunnilingus. Then she shows how to have sex in 50 different positions. You can take an ordinary sex...more

  • SWE: More Oral

    Apr 04 2013

    Are you a spitter, swallower, or avoider? Michael Guilfoyle, Oral Sex Specialist and President of Masque: Sexual Flavors talks about semen. Michael explains how men can taste better so their partner enjoys giving it more. Emily breaks down how to get more oral sex, because it's kind of the greatest thing in the world.

  • SWE: Where to Orgasm

    Apr 01 2013

    Emily tells you where to orgasm because some men have no ejaculation etiquette. Now that you know where to orgasm, you just have to find someone to orgasm with... Emily talks about whether you should stalk your date on Facebook before going on a date. Also, rejection can ironically help you get a date. Nothing horrible is going to happen because you got turned down, except you don't get any action tonight. Emily tells you how to get some tomorrow. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longe...more

  • SWE: How to Last Longer

    Mar 29 2013

    Man's biggest fear: do I last long enough in bed? Well, if your partner has an orgasm in one minute it might not matter if you're a minute man. But let's be honest, that's probably not going to happen... Emily breaks down how to last longer in bed including pre-gaming, exercising your PC muscles, not having sex like a machine gun. And if all else fails, how to give her amazing oral sex.Emily explains how to be real with people you want to sleep with and why the last thing you should do is put th...more

  • SWE: Sex Challenge

    Mar 27 2013

    When Emily actually commits to someone for 30 days, she plans on doing the 30 Day Sex Challenge. For 30 days you have to have try something new with your partner in bed. If you're not sure what the hell to do for 30 days, that's what Emily's Sex Drive app is for. Emily talks about how to tell your partner what you want, how to open up on dates and why you should never be too clingy. Also, Emily talks about dating men with ponytails, dating Jewish men, orgasmic monks and Kurt Cobain’s penis. Sex ...more

  • SWE: Morning Sex

    Mar 21 2013

    A podcast on morning sex, afternoon sex, shower sex, sex with virgins, bed breaking sex, sex on private jets and sex that makes you faint. Also, what you can tell about your partner from their friends.Sex with Emily is a free podcast. I no longer have the paid Friends with Benefits program because I want everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily.Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEm...more

  • SWE: Relationship Status

    Mar 18 2013

    Not only is Facebook sucking up all your time, but it is also going to ruin your relationship if it hasn't already. Your relationship status, compromising photos, and lack of cyber affection might contribute to the demise of your relationship. But all hope is not lost! Emily tells you how to survive a relationship on Facebook. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at c...more

  • SWE: Ask Someone Out Already

    Mar 15 2013

    Men do not ask women out enough. They are terrified that they will get rejected. Well, you might get rejected but you'll survive if that happens and you'll find someone else to ask out. Emily's cohost Menace demonstrates how to ask someone out by calling up a woman he's interested in and asking her out. You're never going to get out of the friend zone if you don't ask them out! Menace also shares he's secrets for lasting longer in bed. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibra...more

  • SWE: Embarrassing Sex Stories

    Mar 13 2013

    Emily is Las Vegas bound and wants to go to the shooting range. Strippers are the best talkers, orgasms at the gym while using the thighmaster, and your first time having sex will probably be horrible. It’s perfectly normal. Guest Barbie Davenporte, writer for LAWeekly's sex blog AfterDarkLA, tells embarrassing stories about balls and a threesome with two men: one gay and the other engaged.  Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkou...more

  • SWE: How to Seduce a Woman Tonight

    Mar 09 2013

    Emily interviews dating and relationship coach David Wygant on how to have confidence and talk to women, even if you have no confidence whatsoever and have no idea what to say. David tells you how to walk up to a woman at a cafe and hit on her without having her ruthlessly reject you. She'll even want to talk to you, go out with you, and then sleep with you. David demonstrates how he would pick up Emily at a cafe and slowly seduces her. The show turns to sex and how to cultivate the "power of th...more

  • SWE: What Men & Women Want

    Mar 06 2013

    1,000 women tell you what they want in bed. Emily breaks down men and women’s biggest sex insecurities and the single most important thing to them during sex. Emily tells you what they want and how to give it to them. In other news, Emily edits all her friend’s sexts before they send them and shares how to cultivate good sextiquette. Then she explains what happens to your brain when you orgasm and how to date people you actually want to be with. Emily also answers listeners emails about complime...more

  • SWE- How to meet someone

    Mar 04 2013

    Emily gives you the low-down on lube and why it makes sex that much better. But before you lube up, you may or may not need to find a partner. Emily and her cohost Menace give tips for meeting someone outside the bar. You might just find your next GF/BF at the laundromat. In other news, Menace tried Viagra, got waxed, and now it’s time for him to get his penis P-jazzled (decorated with rhinestones). Emily tells you how to send a naked photo, how to count condoms to see if he's cheating, and when...more

  • SWE- Slow vs. Rough

    Feb 27 2013

    This show will teach you how to make sweet love or how to tie up your partner, depending on what kind of mood you're in. With a little butt slapping here, a little shallow thrusting there, and a little neck nibbling, Emily shows you how to have slow and rough sex. You have to mediate on her vagina and cultivate the perfect butt slap-- two of the most important skills in life.Emily also discusses how women can have orgasms. Once you learn how your own body works and buy a vibrator, you'll be read...more

  • SWE- Titillating Tips

    Feb 25 2013

    A show overflowing with titillating sex tips and talk about Emily's cleavage. Emily wants to know why men don't undress women anymore. Gentleman, you need to change your lackluster ways. Emily gives tips for how men can be less boring in bed and tips for how women can initiate more sex. Emily also talks about jealousy, how Facebook has changed relationships, and your glorious inner-thighs.

  • SWE- Sex for Grownups

    Feb 20 2013

    Sex is your birthright, use it forever. Emily interviews celebrity psychologist, "sexpert," and wise elder Dr. Dorree Lynn about how to have amazing sex after 50. While you might not be able to do it on the kitchen table anymore, you can still have sex on the floor. Emily and Dr. Dorree give advice for men and women with low libido, sex after menopause, and talking to your partner about changing your sex life. Do not settle for a life without sex. The golden years are for getting it on.

  • SWE- Recharging Women's Sex Drive

    Feb 19 2013

    43% of women experience low libido. Whether it's menopause, stress, anti-depressants, medical problems or something else, women often blame themselves for their slumping sex drive. Emily talks with Rachel Braun Scherl, President of Semprae Laboratories (the creators of the revolutionary female product Zestra), about why so many women experience low libido and what they can do to get their sex drive back.

  • SWE- Romantic or Repulsive?

    Feb 13 2013

    Emily talks with women about what they think is cute or cliche on V-day. Emily breaks down the most romantic and repulsive date ideas, from reading each other poetry in the tub to fancy fast-food, from heart-shaped boxes to shamelessly selling yourself on eBay. Emily also talks about robberies at sex stores, elitist penises, sex with virgins, men who don’t want sex, and men who do want sex but don't know how to get it.

  • SWE- Singles Awareness Day

    Feb 11 2013

    Valentine's Day, commonly known as “Singles Awareness Day” for many Americans, is a day for laughter, tears, and double shots of whiskey. Emily answers important questions like, should you use your electric toothbrush as a vibrator? Why or why not? And what the hell should you do on V-day if you're single? Don't worry, you're going to have fun if you follow this advice.

  • SWE- How to get some

    Feb 08 2013

    Emily talks with pickup artist Brad P about how to approach women at a coffee shop... and end up doing it in the Starbucks bathroom. Brad P breaks down the biggest mistakes men make while hitting on women and how to have an edge over all those other "nice guys." Don't just ask her where she's from or what she does for a living. Here's what you should say if you really want to get some.  Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners: free book reveals how to approach hot women, open up a conversatio...more

  • SWE- Single or Taken?

    Feb 04 2013

    A podcast on why it's great to be single or taken on Valentine's Day. It's a perfect night to go out and meet someone or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you're wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash in her Valentine.

  • SWE- How to Screw

    Jan 30 2013

    Tips and topics include: Cloning your willy, crooked penises, Christ for Kegels, the oral sex "chin trick," and the oral sex "screw trick." Emily goes on to teach people how to function during sex. Stare lovingly into your partner's eyes without looking psychotic, have loud, ravenous sex whenever possible, and remember to breathe (yes, people forget). Emily also explains what to do if someone stops functioning during sex. People have a better chance of having a heart attack during sex than most ...more

  • SWE- What Works & What Doesn't

    Jan 28 2013

    A show on breast play, friends with benefits, dirty talk, and threesomes-- when they work and when they don't. Emily answers listener's questions: How long should you make out before going for the breasts? How long can you play with her breasts before it gets creepy? Do friends with benefits ever work? How do I talk dirty without offending her? And last but not least, can I have a threesome without completely destroying my relationship?

  • SWE- Porn Star Guest Conner Habib

    Jan 25 2013

    ay Adult Film Star, lecturer, and writer Conner Habib talks about making gay porn and how it's changed the way he thinks about sex. Habib talks about how porn has made him less superficial about choosing mates. Once you have sex with all the conventionally attractive macho men, you start to realize who you're really attractive to.He also talks about how being good at sex is not the the same as being good at porn (although he assures Emily he's pretty good at sex too). Habib reveals the most sear...more

  • SWE: Guest Dan Abrams

    Jan 23 2013

    Emily discusses why women are simply better than men with television host, legal analyst, and best-selling author Dan Abrams. Abram uses research to invalidate sexist cliches about the differences between men and women in his book, Man Down: Proof Beyond a Reasonable Doubt That Women Are Better Cops, Drivers, Gamblers, Spies, World Leaders, Beer Tasters, Hedge Fund Managers, and Just About Everything Else. Emily corroborates Abrams findings while her co-host Menace is skeptical, wondering if Abr...more

  • SWE: Random Acts of Sex

    Jan 21 2013

    Random acts of sex are a great way to brighten you and your partner's day. Emily presents a random mix of sex tips for men, including oral sex humming, side-to-side hip movements, and how to french kiss. She also tells men how to impress women without the help of their penis. Emily also answers listeners questions about hand jobs, asking someone out, and morning sex.

  • SWE: Why You're Bad in Bed

    Jan 18 2013

    You’re not bad in bed because you don't have a huge penis that lasts forever. You’re bad in bed because-- you forget about foreplay, you don't know how to go down on them, you don’t go down on them enough, you have sex like a jackrabbit, you aren't thinking about their pleasure, or you're so scared of doing something wrong that you don't do anything at all. Listening to this podcast will make you great in bed. Or at least better than before.

  • SWE: Phone Sex

    Jan 17 2013

    How to have great phone sex, from foreplay sexting to an orgasmic phone call finish. Emily personally demonstrates how to “sex up” your voice. Emily and her co-host Menace discuss how often men and women talk about who they’re sleeping with, and when you should stop telling everyone you know the intimate details of your sex life. Emily ends the show with a lesson on Kegels-- how to do your sexercises and why they will make you better in bed.

  • SWE: Clitoris & Compliments

    Jan 14 2013

    Emily gives tips for going down on her and tips for stimulating the clitoris during sex, because she wants women to have glorious, multiple orgasms. Emily describes how to do the "V finger technique" and discusses how to share your fantasies (even the really embarrassing ones). Emily and her sidekick Menace end the show with a heated debate on how often men should compliment women.

  • SWE: Ask for what you want in bed

    Jan 07 2013

    If your 2013 hasn't been full of mind-blowing sex and amazing relationships, this show help get you there. Emily discusses how to change your sex life in 2013 with powerful vibrators, sexercise, more foreplay, and lots more oral sex. Emily confesses what she wants to change about her sex life, and explains how to tell your partner exactly what you want in bed. Emily also talks sex trends in 2012 and answers listeners emails about irrational pregnancy fears, dating shy guys, and dealing with real...more

  • SWE: Guest Fernando and Greg

    Jan 03 2013

    Greg Sherrell from Fernando and Greg in the Morning discusses gay dating in San Francisco. Greg reflects on growing up gay, from hiding his porn to telling his butch brother he prefers men. He also explains his shock at finding out his Dad's ex-wife was the lesbian soft ball coach. Greg breaks down dating, from the gym locker room to the club. Emily and Greg also talk about the differences between gay sex and straight sex, the Grindr obsession, amateur porn, double penetration, and orgasming wit...more

  • SWE: Cockfidence

    Dec 27 2012

    Sex and relationship therapists Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel, authors of Cockfidence: The Extraordinary Lover's Guide To Being The Man You Want To Be And Driving Women Wild divulge the most crucial factors influencing sex in relationships as special guests in this episode. Emily and the women discuss passion, "faking it," and romantic encounters. Plus, how men can get more connected with selves.

  • SWE: Single for the Holidays

    Dec 23 2012

    Emily is your survival guide to being single for the holidays. How to embrace being single and why you should making a dating and/or relationship resolution for the New Years, like dating and sleeping with people you actually like. Happy holidays one and all!

  • SWE: Sex Facts

    Dec 20 2012

    Put on your spandex pants because Emily’s talking about sexercises and all the facts you need to know about sex. Emily reveals a new trend involving geography, sex, and smell. Then she gets into a slew of other topics, including: cheating, premarital sex, swinging, Kegels, oral sex, loss of desire, and Emily’s favorite phrase “Jack Rabbit Sex.”

  • SWE: How To Gift A Vibrator

    Dec 20 2012

  • SWE: Truly

    Dec 14 2012

    Emily talks about the differences between Los Angeles and San Francisco men. Her long standing “friend with benefits” relationship comes to a tidy end and Emily breaks down Menace’s love life. Also, vibrating panties and what to do when your partner has no style.

  • SWE: What Women Really Want

    Dec 07 2012

    How to make your first time with a vibrator truly special, from mood lighting and soft music to clitoral stimulation and explosive orgasms. Emily shares the number one thing women want in bed and how to tease and build anticipation without being annoying. She also answers listener letters about guys who shower immediately after sex, ejaculation etiquette, alternative sex routines, and foot fetishes.

  • SWE: Female Sex Lives

    Nov 29 2012

    Get turned on in this “quickie” episode as Emily interviews a female guest, “Hope” about her sexual exploits. Hope reveals her crazy first time sex experience, thoughts on younger versus older men, and the best position to orgasm. The women also discuss sex toys, fetishes, and a secret oral sex “chin trick.”

  • SWE: Tips from a Dominatrix

    Nov 23 2012

    In these two quickie episodes Emily interviews Pro-Dominatrix Sara Miller and also answers popular listener questions. Emily and her guest divulge about first sexual experiences, lesbian sex, orgasm differences, orgies, and ejaculation on command. Listener letters cover topics such as “perfect” dating tips, online profiles, semen landing, and hand jobs.

  • SWE: No Shave November

    Nov 22 2012

    In honor of "No Shave November," Emily focuses on manscaping in this episode. Topics include: trimmings tips (not for Thanksgiving), pubic hair styles, "back pussy," vajazzle, and on-air bikini waxes. Emily addresses listener letters including a woman fallen for two men and cheating.

  • SWE: Special Guests Ben and Jen Rodes

    Nov 20 2012

    Emily is back in San Francisco before heading off to Mexico for the Thanksgiving holiday. She made new friends at the Sex Summit -Ben and Jen Rode- who join her on air. Ben and Jen explain their Explosive Sexual Healing technique whichhelps women achieve half hour g-spot orgasms (this is the way to relax!). Listener letters include: addressing girlfriends who don't like receiving oral sex and crushes in the neighborhood.

  • SWE: Special Guest Ted Travelstead

    Nov 15 2012

    Ted Travelstead, Vanity Fair reporter and co-author of Sex: Our Bodies, Our Junk, joins Emily in this throwback episode. Emily and Ted discuss religion and sex, Betty White, the gag-reflex, and the New York City versus San Francisco dating scene. Also, how nice is too nice for a "nice guy"?

  • SWE: Sex Tips from a Dominatrix

    Nov 08 2012

    Get dominated by Sarah Miller, Emily's sex school classmate who happens to be a Pro- Dominatrix. Emily talks about getting naked in class, BDSM, and breast orgasms (they really do exist). Emily also talks about sex, drugs, and alchol. For a follow-up lesson on BDSM, check out Sex Tips from a Dominatrix II.

  • SWE: Fall Staycation

    Nov 02 2012

    If you're looking to snuggle up and reignite spark in your relationship, a Fall Staycation is a perfect way to spend time with you lover. Emily gives tips for planning a vacation in your bedroom. Emily also answers questions about male-female friendships, squirting, and Emily's favorite-- threesomes.

  • SWE: Scary in the Bedroom

    Oct 29 2012

    In honor of Halloween, Emily talks about scary bedroom encounters, from a one minute man to anal sex. Also, what to do when your hook-up leaves underwear behind, sex with your ex, and avoiding STI's during a threesome.

  • SWE: The Bush

    Oct 26 2012

    In this throwback episode Emily talks about bushes, from George W. Bush to the 70’s hair down-there trend. She also discusses breast orgasms, bondage, and Black Swan girl-on-girl action. Also, just in time for Halloween, an Oregon couple gives out some sexual trick or treats--- “three musketeers or a condom anyone?”

  • SWE: First Base

    Oct 19 2012

    Emily and Menace talking about going to first base-- tips from first dates and first kisses. Emily also answers listeners emails about swinging, gym fantasizing, and party etiquette.

  • SWE: Two Quickies & an Orgasm

    Oct 18 2012

    In these two quickie episodes, Emily tells you how to get in on whether you're naked at the Harbin Hotsprings or on a cruise. She then describes how to pleasure women in bed, from foreplay to roleplay, with a little oral sex in between. The show comes to a strange end with Emily involved in a somewhat disturbing Fast food fantasy, dressed up as the Hamburgeler.

  • SWE: Sex Drive

    Oct 13 2012

    Emily's back in sex school getting her doctorate, learning about gigantic sex machines and how the penis evolved. After school gets out, Emily goes on the Jeff Probst show to give sex advice and answer some hard questions from the audience. One lady wants to know what do you do when your guy won't go down on you. Several husbands want to know how to get their wives to have sex with them. If your not getting any with your significant other, it might be time to play Emily's Sex Drive, her new iPho...more

  • SWE: Liberate your Lust

    Oct 11 2012

    Emily challenges you to go big or go home, and fantacize! From dirty talk to transcending the boundaries of your sex life, you need to liberate your lust. Emily's cohost Menace shares some intimate memories, prompting a discussion about men's fantasies. Emily also has a few dating tips for listeners who find themselves on the deep end of dating.

  • SWE: The Breasts

    Oct 06 2012

    On the “breast show” in support of National Breast Cancer month of October, Emily and Menace discuss ways that both women and men should not neglect the breasts.

  • SWE: Married Sex, Hot or Not?

    Oct 04 2012

    Today's throwback episodes are all about YOU! We focus on listener emails that highlight problems people have with everything from stale sex and swinging to sexualizing strangers. Menace and Emily delve into the nitty gritty of monogamy, and rumors about San Francisco women being gold diggers. Menace's views on this matter may shock you. Or not, if you've listened to him for more than 5 minutes.

  • SWE: One Ball Wonder

    Sep 27 2012

    Today Emily helps out a male listener who's severely lacking in confidence, as well as one of his testicles. After returning from a 4th of July trip to Michigan, Emily starts pondering her single life. Good thing she has a "Group Sex" seminar coming up, even if it doesn't involve group sex. Menace takes on short-haired women and feels the wrath of San Francisco's ladies. Topics from listeners include the problems of asking girls out, handjobs, and sex with pregnant women.

  • SWE: Different Orgasms

    Sep 21 2012

    Emily shares at least seven different types of orgasm’s for women (sorry gentleman). Oh the many orgasms yet to come! Emily gently, but not too gently, guides you through how to achieve orgasms, no matter if you prefer Combination or Blended, Multiple or Serial orgasms. Hopefully we can all agree that real orgasms are the best kind of orgasms, and fake ones don’t serve anyone.

  • SWE: Vajazzle

    Sep 20 2012

    Are your lady parts as sparkly as they could be? A listener is considering pimping out her vulva but neither Emily nor Menace can get behind the move. A listener makes a bold proposal for Emily and Menace, and the rules for breaking out fantasies in the bedroom are laid out. Adrift her man-atorium, Emily goes on a cruise and does water aerobics. Meanwhile Menace goes to a rapping wedding and doesn't get friend zoned. Emily splurges on lingerie, and gives advice to a listener regarding online dat...more

  • SWE: Guest Porn Star Bree Olson

    Sep 14 2012

    From pre-med to pornography, girl next door to sexy vixen, adult star Bree Olson talks openly about her sex life. Emily and Menace also talk about their sex lives, or lack their of. Menace wants to know how many sweaters Emily’s knitted during her Manatroium-- A hiatus from dating or even flirting with men. Menace is conducting an OkCupid experiment but isn’t having any luck finding prospective partners online. Emily answers listener’s emails about being too wet for sex, Hand Jobs, and strippers...more

  • SWE: Digital Dating

    Sep 07 2012

    mily discusses how to navigate your online relationship, from the first online dating message to the unfortunate “it’s not you, it’s me” email message. Emily explores the brave new digital world of dating, and questions whether it’s possible to “Liketerbate,” E-snoop, E-hump, and digital dump with at least some human decency. After all, emoticons cannot replace real human emotion. In other news, a man semen scientist actually thinks swallowing semen makes women smarter and happier, and people ar...more

  • SWE: Hot Moves For Guys

    Sep 06 2012

    Emily runs through a list of hot sex moves for guys, many of which are questionable in their hotness, even if they're well-intentioned. Menace gives some dating advice to a thirteen year old that doesn't go over too well. The pitfalls of married sex and libidos are discussed, and Emily is upset to find out the rather banal things married women want more than sex, like reading and sleeping. Emily is getting a lot more done on her man-atorium. Listeners have problems with terrible oral sex, breaki...more

  • SWE: Turn-ons & Turn-offs

    Aug 31 2012

    From earlobe nibbling to men in suits, golden showers to keeping your socks on during the deed, Emily reveals the top turn-ons and turn-offs for men and women. So read a book at a cafe, fix a lamp, and try to notice the little things that make your partner happy. Emily also answers listeners questions about Baby Mama drama, dating a pimp, first time anal sex advice, and masturbating after marriage.

  • SWE: Pet Peeves & What Not To Do In Bed

    Aug 30 2012

    Emily's friend encounters "the fatal move," the head push, and Emil and Menace discuss its merits. Emily and Menace share their pet peeves about the opposite sex - from talking to not picking up signals to playing corpse in bed. The Great Handjob Debate flares up, a listener looks for nonverbal cues to move foreplay ahead. Another listener considers a four year long-term relationship and Emily weighs the pros and cons of long-term Skype sex. Other topics include: having kids, sex toys, single pa...more

  • SWE: Like a Virgin

    Aug 24 2012

    Emily's inbox has been getting swamped with emails from virgins of all ages lately, so today's episode is dedicated to helping them join the coital club, laying out what they can expect and how they should enter this new stage in their love lives. Virgins' partners get advised too, to make their lovers' first times magical. Or, at least, less awkward than their own. Emily weighs attending Burning Man and Menace prepares for Wedding Season. A listener wonders how to find men into bondage. Another...more

  • SWE: E-humping Etiquette

    Aug 17 2012

    Emily shares her secret for successful relationships & marriage– spend time apart. She supports marriages where couples have healthy communication, tell each other what they want in bed, and travel to remote areas of the globe… separately. Emily breaks down Skype Sex and e-humping etiquette. How to direct a Skype scene and act in it as well. Emily and Menace discuss the top fantasies for men and women and the likelihood they will actually come true. Emily also answers listeners questions: Orgasm...more

  • SWE: A Sticky Situation

    Aug 15 2012

    The sticky subject of ejaculation is covered in painstaking detail today by Emily, Menace, and their loyal, very opinionated listeners. From the where’s and why’s to the do’s and don’t, the coming and going of male climaxes are dissected and discussed. Emily’s friend asks her for a vacation sex starter kit. Emily shares a few threesome stories and Menace shares his travel plans and outlines his enthusiasm for Asian women. In technological news, future phones will be able to detect STD’s, and men...more

  • SWE: Fellatio Show

    Aug 10 2012

    Emily and Menace discuss the last episode of Miss Advised and what really happened with her crush David in Napa. Emily gives the CEO of Masque: Sexual Flavors a phone call and solicits his oral expertise to pick the best fellatio tips from listeners. Be enthusiastic, pay attention to the tip, make eye contact, and use your hands. Oh and don't actually blow. Emily also answers listener emails about meeting people at bars, devirginizing men, and how to be more confident.

  • SWE: Do You Need a Sex Coach?

    Aug 09 2012

    Celeste & Danielle, "sexological therapists," talk about how they coach people to better sex. They stress the importance of men getting involved in their lover's emotions, sexual spontaneity, avoiding rejection when talking about sex with your partner, the G-Spot, and their book, "Cockfidence."

  • SWE: Embarrassing Sex Question

    Aug 03 2012

    Emily talks about the ten most embarrassing sex questions she gets and how to be, well, less embarassed about them. While there are solutions to many sexual issues, people need to have a sense of humor about sex and expect some hiccups, and possibly queefs. Let go of body insecurity, fears of premature ejaculation, embrace your fetish, and take a little pride in your 'walk of shame.' Emily also talks about why you don't necessarily need to bring a date to a wedding, and having sex at a wedding (...more

  • SWE: Breaking up & Moving On

    Aug 02 2012

    Emily may have just dressed up five nights in a row for Halloween and Menace was nominated to be a Prom King, but don't worry, today's show is all about grown up topics. A rather young listener has trouble leaving a relationship and entering a new one, so Emily has some advice on how to break up. Menace starts a 30 day Starbucks challenge to "see what happens," so he might not be the best source of advice for making mature decisions. Luckily Emily is around to help some married listeners maintai...more

  • SWE: Escaping the Friend Zone

    Jul 25 2012

    What do you do if you like, "like" a friend? Emily works through the problem of a lovelorn, friend-zoned listener while she herself starts to date a longtime acquaintance. Do you perform "the reach" in a restaurant on your second date? Emily points out why you should - and don't worry, it won't get you thrown out. If your oral sex routine is getting a little yawn-worthy, Emily's got some oral sex tips to keep things exciting. Also, learn how to communicate about condoms, and how you can stop dat...more

  • SWE: Put a Fork in It

    Jul 20 2012

    Emily is going to New York to hang out with Andy Cohen as a guest on Watch What Happens Live on the 23rd. Menace prepares Emily for the hard questions she's going to have to answer. Emily and Menace discuss relationships and how spending time apart from your boyfriend or girlfriend can be beneficial for your relationship. Emily breaks down the the top ten reasons people break up including the need to feel independent. It's important to remember that your partner doesn't posses you. Emily and Men...more

  • SWE: Sex Tips From a Dominatrix

    Jul 20 2012

    Emily interviews Dr. Sarah Miller about her first sexual experiences, what she's learned about men by being a dominatrix, and other sex tips and tricks.

  • SWE: Threesomes

    Jul 13 2012

    In honor of Emily's many threesome proposals by a bevy of men on Miss Advised, she's giving advice on how to have a successful threesome. Emily discusses threesome rules and how to make everyone feel included in the group. Limit the liquid courage and make sure your partner feels special. Emily and Menace also discuss how men who don't understand social cues can still function in a dating world. It's important to remember that if you get rejected you probably won't die or become homeless. Emily ...more

  • SWE: Sex Parties

    Jul 12 2012

    Emily interviews Captain Erotica - he saves relationships in a single bound and couples hire him to teach them have better sex lives. Emily also talks about her first sex party experience.

  • SWE: Her Big "O"

    Jul 06 2012

    Emily advises not going to a strip club on a first date like she did on Miss Advised. Emily gives sex advice to a 34-year-old virgin who wants to find love, to a 15-year-old girl who wants to learn how to have her first orgasm, and a 30-year-old female who has tried everything possible to orgasm to no avail.  Emily shares personal stories about her first ever orgasm and what it takes to get her there. She also shares the number one reason women have trouble reaching climax and what they can do t...more

  • SWE: Dirty Talk

    Jul 03 2012

    Honesty may be the best policy, but honesty in relationships are like deep sea diving: if you want to survive, you’ve got to know your limits. Today Emily lays out the five things you don’t want to know about your partner’s sex history. Then it’s back to basics, and why you should just pick up the phone and ask her out already. A man whose wife just admitted that she's never had an orgasm with him, and Menace lays out his tried and possibly true method to getting over performance anxiety. Cravin...more

  • SWE: Initiating Sex

    Jun 22 2012

    A lot of women out there are intimidated by initiating sex,